Have you been deleted?

MattGetsMad
MattGetsMad Posts: 429 Member
edited November 2024 in Motivation and Support
Yes, it's happened to me.

I have also deleted people.

When I delete someone it usually has more to do with me and what I'm doing than them and what they're doing.

No hard feelings on my end when I get deleted. Just kind of happens, you know?

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  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    I have no idea. I don't scrutinize my friends list to see who's there or not there.
  • i've only deleted people who haven't logged in for 10 days or more. I need real support here, and i don't feel like i can be supported by, or offer "real" support to people who are not fully committed or do not take this as seriously as i do.
  • PinkEarthMama
    PinkEarthMama Posts: 987 Member
    I betcha I have. I'm an active poster and I am an avid diary reader.

    I also will let you know if I think you're being unhealthy. Diaries consistantly under 1000 calories, no fruits, no veggies, REALLY unhealthy choices ( mcdonalds for your only meal )... You can bet I'm going to say something.

    In these cases? i'm HAPPY to be deleted!
  • I would never delete someone unless they are rude or disrespectful to me or something. I would never delete someone because they haven't logged in for however long. I started losing weight last year lost 40lbs, then was mourning the death of my grandmother and stopped logging for over a month. I was real depressed and i used to have a hard time reaching out to people and begin to not care about my weight. If i accept someone as a friend, I am a true friend or at least try the best i can. Not everyone can come on here when they are going through major things and talk about their feelings. For some it takes a while to trust. Some people on here have been dealing with emotional eating or other disorders for years. I think its hard sometimes to be help to others when you are down. As a friend I am here whenever you need me. I don't expect anything in return. But that's just me.

    However if someone deletes me, I could care less.
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