I really hate those haters.....

allisshiney

So my Fiances friend is over and is about to step outside for a smoke when I say"when are you going to quit smoking again?". Totally legit question because last month he came over with a patch on because he really wanted to quit. He makes some snide remark about how ironic it is for me to say that as I am sitting on the couch in pain from my 16k run yesterday... Illuding to how being healthy can also be bad for you. ???????????? I'm eating well, exercising a minimum of 4x per week for the past year, found something that I love, I set race goals AND achieve them. I am in the best "head space" I have been in in years. He is currently spending his 8th hour in a row sitting on his *kitten* playing video gAmes and drinking beer...... I really just want to smack him up the side of his head.

Audddua

:laugh:
People are funny aren't they?!

Scorpioangel

People are very funny... I hate those haters too girl I am right there with you!

hklaquadra

He's just a stoopid boy, honey, don't pay him no never mind......

R_is_for_Rachel

So my Fiances friend is over and is about to step outside for a smoke when I say"when are you going to quit smoking again?". Totally legit question because last month he came over with a patch on because he really wanted to quit. He makes some snide remark about how ironic it is for me to say that as I am sitting on the couch in pain from my 16k run yesterday... Illuding to how being healthy can also be bad for you. ???????????? I'm eating well, exercising a minimum of 4x per week for the past year, found something that I love, I set race goals AND achieve them. I am in the best "head space" I have been in in years. He is currently spending his 8th hour in a row sitting on his *kitten* playing video gAmes and drinking beer...... I really just want to smack him up the side of his head.

He probably was snidy back as he's tried and failed to quit smoking and you've hit a raw nerve over that failure. Give the guy a break!

Antigone

Your pain is GAIN. His "pain" is lame. And his snapping at you is him projecting the fact that he knows that.

ROCK ON with the running!

MzMiller1215

That was just his response to you spotlighting something that he perceives as a bad thing. People aren't defensive when they know they are doing something right.

LisaWrob9803

You just hit a sore spot for him - probably his struggle, and he's having enough problems with it, comments like that from other people don't help. He probably perceived your comment as being snide rather than helpful.