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JessicaHoskins
JessicaHoskins Posts: 116
edited November 11 in Chit-Chat
For all of you who have been cheated on, HOW did you find out they were being unfaithful?

I found out my (ex) husband was unfaithful to me when I was diagnosed with Genital Herpes!:sad: :blushing:

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  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
    Your post history is alarming.
  • Your post history is alarming.
    hahahaha quite :laugh:
  • Dexy_
    Dexy_ Posts: 593 Member
    Your post history is alarming.

    this
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
    Your post history is alarming.

    lmfao
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    I found out when I found a piece of paper in his car with a number on it with no name. I called the number, found out it was a girl he worked with, and found out he had slept with her.
  • grumpytroll
    grumpytroll Posts: 48 Member
    When I walked in and they were both in bed....yup it does actually happen like that lol
  • Your post history is alarming.

    this

    wow...ppl...
  • I found out when I found a piece of paper in his car with a number on it with no name. I called the number, found out it was a girl he worked with, and found out he had slept with her.

    she told you?
  • Clarecbear82
    Clarecbear82 Posts: 369 Member
    Was feeding our five day old baby when his phone goes off next to me with a text saying last night was fun when will she let you out again" when I questioned him about it he admited it all and said its because I hadn't given him any since giving birth! 0_o needless to say that was the last I ever saw of him!
  • kelsgrenier
    kelsgrenier Posts: 18 Member
    when i showed up at the hotel a little too early.
    revenge was taking place when she puked all over his *ahem* man hood then everywhere else. =]
  • when i showed up at the hotel a little too early.
    revenge was taking place when she puked all over his *ahem* man hood then everywhere else. =]

    wow...you stayed that long to see the puking happened? or was it just perfect timing lol
  • Dexy_
    Dexy_ Posts: 593 Member
    Was feeding our five day old baby when his phone goes off next to me with a text saying last night was fun when will she let you out again" when I questioned him about it he admited it all and said its because I hadn't given him any since giving birth! 0_o needless to say that was the last I ever saw of him!

    OMG I would chop his you-know-what off!!
  • kelsgrenier
    kelsgrenier Posts: 18 Member
    she was 16, drunk, and hit her gag reflex and the surprise of me there was perfect.
    Not to mention she was my best friend and he had just flown 12 hours, over 1,000 miles, across the world to see me and they had never met before. real classy girl ;)

    I had him kicked out of the country, fired from his job and put on a pedophile watch list =] (he was 21 having sex with a 16 year old)
    he did other things to deserve that though.
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    I found out when I found a piece of paper in his car with a number on it with no name. I called the number, found out it was a girl he worked with, and found out he had slept with her.

    she told you?

    No. He did. Are you questioning everyone's stories? lol Just asking.
  • tonilizzy88
    tonilizzy88 Posts: 920 Member
    it took me a long time to find out. i had a hunk for a few weeks as he was always with his 'best friend' saying they had college work to finish off or she needed a lift here and there. in the end we all went on a night out and i expressed my feelings after a few drinks to her and him and he denied it but she said yes we have been seeing each other.
    lets just say i slapped him acros the face and got a taxi home.
  • Goal_Seeker_1988
    Goal_Seeker_1988 Posts: 1,619 Member
    she was 16, drunk, and hit her gag reflex and the surprise of me there was perfect.
    Not to mention she was my best friend and he had just flown 12 hours, over 1,000 miles, across the world to see me and they had never met before. real classy girl ;)

    I had him kicked out of the country, fired from his job and put on a pedophile watch list =] (he was 21 having sex with a 16 year old)
    he did other things to deserve that though.

    What a sick *kitten*! Glad you were able to get revenge!
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    Was feeding our five day old baby when his phone goes off next to me with a text saying last night was fun when will she let you out again" when I questioned him about it he admited it all and said its because I hadn't given him any since giving birth! 0_o needless to say that was the last I ever saw of him!

    OMG I would chop his you-know-what off!!

    And then I'd cut it into tiny little pieces!
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    Your post history is alarming.
    I don't get it?
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    Your post history is alarming.
    I don't get it?

    me either
  • fragilegift
    fragilegift Posts: 347 Member
    He came home smelling different - be it soap, or perfume/deodorant.
    I found notes in his wallet/glove box.
    There was a registration form for a dating agency in the car. (pre internet days)
    There were longer than needed absences for 'rugby,' 'baseball,' 'training,' 'going to see mum and dad' and the like.

    Eventually I gave him permission to have a girlfriend, so long as I knew about her. He found one, I met her..and I still talk to her 20 years later. The funny thing (now, though it wasn't then)...he went and found ANOTHER girl while he had a wife and sanctioned girlfriend! I called her at her work and informed her of this. I don't recall how I found out any more.
  • He came home smelling different - be it soap, or perfume/deodorant.
    I found notes in his wallet/glove box.
    There was a registration form for a dating agency in the car. (pre internet days)
    There were longer than needed absences for 'rugby,' 'baseball,' 'training,' 'going to see mum and dad' and the like.

    Eventually I gave him permission to have a girlfriend, so long as I knew about her. He found one, I met her..and I still talk to her 20 years later. The funny thing (now, though it wasn't then)...he went and found ANOTHER girl while he had a wife and sanctioned girlfriend! I called her at her work and informed her of this. I don't recall how I found out any more.

    You allowed him to have another woman in his life?
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    He came home smelling different - be it soap, or perfume/deodorant.
    I found notes in his wallet/glove box.
    There was a registration form for a dating agency in the car. (pre internet days)
    There were longer than needed absences for 'rugby,' 'baseball,' 'training,' 'going to see mum and dad' and the like.

    Eventually I gave him permission to have a girlfriend, so long as I knew about her. He found one, I met her..and I still talk to her 20 years later. The funny thing (now, though it wasn't then)...he went and found ANOTHER girl while he had a wife and sanctioned girlfriend! I called her at her work and informed her of this. I don't recall how I found out any more.

    Oh. My. God.
  • peachNpunkin
    peachNpunkin Posts: 1,010 Member
    Was feeding our five day old baby when his phone goes off next to me with a text saying last night was fun when will she let you out again" when I questioned him about it he admited it all and said its because I hadn't given him any since giving birth! 0_o needless to say that was the last I ever saw of him!

    OMG I would chop his you-know-what off!!

    And then I'd cut it into tiny little pieces!

    I'd put it the food processor, on fine!
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    Can't say i've ever been cheated on. If I have it was back in middle school (I'm only 22). I usually do the cheating honestly. Apparently having male friends is cheating. Pff whatever. How did my bf find out? He went through my Skype while I was sleeping, checked my phone whenever I got a text then went through EVERY message saved.

    Now I have a password for everything. Phone, laptop, and even my iPod Touch.
  • slay0r
    slay0r Posts: 669 Member
    My first girlfriend and I went through a rocky patch, we went to a party and had a massive argument. I decided to go to the shop and get more beer for everyone to calm down a bit. Halfway on my way back I get a voicemail which is her having sex a random guy to get back at me (drunk but still..) Kicked her to the kerb immediately and even better got a lovely bonus as one of her friends saw what she did, got chatting to me and gave me one of the nights of my life, doubly as hot as the girl I was seeing so I look back on that now as a great experience haha!
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