Yeah, another question for the men.

La_Amazona

I'm curious and would like to know...

For taken guys, how sexy do you like your gf/wife to dress?

For single guys, how sexy do you like your dates to dress?

I'm more concerned in, how do you feel when your date/SO is dressed up sexy in public and other guys check her out?

When I hear men say they like when other guys check out their date/SO it makes me feel like I'm on display. When I hear that they don't, makes me feel that the guy is overly possessive.

Entertain me. Thanks.

My concert is tonight.. I'm listening to Drake's song "Proud of You" and it made me think of this.
I'm single and personally, I WANT my dates to be proud to be seen with me. Maybe it's vain of me but when I do get a SO, I want to please him in this way.

And yes of course, I'm doing it for ME before anybody turns it around.. but this is just another reason why I sweat and work out the way I do.

NeedANewFocus

I WANT my dates to be proud to be seen with me....I want to please him in this way.

I would say that this is all that should matter AND....if he's true to you then he will be extremely proud to be seen with you. He'll be proud to be seen with you whether your all dressed up sexy as can be in heels and a skirt or all casual and comfortable in some sweats and a hoody. He should be proud to be seen with you no matter what b/c he ADORES you! Right?

Does that answer your question?

PS....DRAKE.....you're going to rock the house tonight!

MrDude_1

Are you seriously asking me if I want the girl im dating to look hot? yes. duh.
If the question is HOW sexy.. that really depends on the occasion/destination... on one hand, a simple Tshirt and jeans can be dead sexy.. then theres that little black dress... or the lowcut shirt and short skirt..... umm... while i like it all, im not taking her in a short skirt to some places... and other places the sexy jeans would still be underdressed..

so... i dont understand the question.

NeedANewFocus

PS....what would you want out of your man? is there a level of "sexiness" you want him to live up to on a regular/consistent basis? what would make you proud to be with him?

Munque

I'm always proud to be seen with my husband, and he with me.

If we are at Lowe's or Home Depot, we are almost always in old clothes with paint all over them, and his hair is usually a mess, and mine could look better too, we might have sawdust all over us, but we walk in with my hand in the crook of his arm like we were walking into a ballroom. And whether I'm bending over in sweats or old shorts or a miniskirt, he still gets the same amount of turned on.

Vaibhav_ace

Are you seriously asking me if I want the girl im dating to look hot? yes. duh.
If the question is HOW sexy.. that really depends on the occasion/destination... on one hand, a simple Tshirt and jeans can be dead sexy.. then theres that little black dress... or the lowcut shirt and short skirt..... umm... while i like it all, im not taking her in a short skirt to some places... and other places the sexy jeans would still be underdressed..

so... i dont understand the question.

^ This.

Really all I'd care for is, she is "comfortable" in her attire in whatever situation we are in, without being "over the top". Honestly, guys are as simple as that. If your date isn't as simple as that, I'd say... Run.

SinIsIn

I want to be eyecandy!!! one day I shall!! :drinker:

Bentley2718

I miss being eyecandy, I will be again someday.

And my husband loves it when I go out looking sexy (appropriately for the situation). If he notices other men checking me out, he says it makes him feel good, like "yeah, she's hot, and she's going home with me."

carlie_carl

as a single fella, Id like my date to feel her best, wether its to my taste or not (which is highly unlikley otherwise I or the guy wouldnt ask the gal out in the first place) just dress in what makes you feels nicest, the guy will be pleased to go out with a hottie anyhow

BaconMD

I find my wife is at her hottest when she's wearing the same sort of thing as when she first caught my eye 15 years ago: a Nirvana t-shirt and snug jeans (not tight on the calves mind you.. but not exactly bellbottoms.. I don't know jean terminology, sorry. haha).

RH_Brazell

my husband loves when i get looks and he likes for me to dress sexy just not trashy

slay0r

For me it depends on if she's looking sexy just stood there then fine I love it.. it's the people that actively go out like "Look at me" then complain about the looks they're getting when they're giving every person in the place the eyes! Guess it just depends on the situation

Goldenwoof

I'm more concerned in, how do you feel when your date/SO is dressed up sexy in public and other guys check her out?

I don't mind at all if guys check out my dates. After all, it's me she's gonna be leaving with, so they can enjoy the view all they like in the meantime.

fiveferrels

I would say the dress in your profile pic would be good date attire.

MrDude_1

I find my wife is at her hottest when she's wearing the same sort of thing as when she first caught my eye 15 years ago: a Nirvana t-shirt and snug jeans (not tight on the calves mind you.. but not exactly bellbottoms.. I don't know jean terminology, sorry. haha).

boot cut.

Scott613

Doesn't matter to me, dress in what you like. If I'm with a female trust me I'm more than willing to show her off to everybody! She can be in sweats,t-shirt, and pony tail or a dress it doesn't matter. Dress in what makes you happy because I'm already happy with her.

_binary_jester_

I want her wearing whatever she feels sexiest in.

swordsmith

I like my woman in leather with matching barbed wire.

rbear713

I want her wearing whatever she feels sexiest in.

I'm with the binary clown - my wife can look as sexy as she wants wearing, well, whatever she wants. Looks and attention from other men range from completely irrelevant to mildly amusing for me.

This is all predicated on trust....My wife is in complete control of herself and I trust her implicitly to remain as such - so it doesnt matter what others say or do...

I gotta say its a great place to be...happy, content, and comfortable...

And oh yeah, I find my wife irresistably sexy in everything from a cocktail dress to fleece pajamas...its all good!

Lucky me!!

La_Amazona

Are you seriously asking me if I want the girl im dating to look hot? yes. duh.
If the question is HOW sexy.. that really depends on the occasion/destination... on one hand, a simple Tshirt and jeans can be dead sexy.. then theres that little black dress... or the lowcut shirt and short skirt..... umm... while i like it all, im not taking her in a short skirt to some places... and other places the sexy jeans would still be underdressed..

so... i dont understand the question.

Yeah I guess my question is just how sexy is TOO sexy.

I get the whole, he should be proud to be with me no matter what.. but I'm talking more about specific types of clothing, I guess. And yes women can look very sexy in "sweat pants, hair tied, chilling with no make up on" (hehe more Drake lyrics).

For example, I wear a lot of dresses/ skirts and heels. I like my legs. So I like the short stuff.. not TOO short but just enough. I'm single and feel great when I wear them! I wonder though, if out on a date or with a SO, would he like me to dress like that? Does it bother men? Does he like it? I mean, I'm sure HE likes it but does he like the attention a woman gets?

La_Amazona

I want to be eyecandy!!! one day I shall!! :drinker:

EYECANDY! Exactly what I'm thinking...

La_Amazona

PS....what would you want out of your man? is there a level of "sexiness" you want him to live up to on a regular/consistent basis? what would make you proud to be with him?

See, yes I want my man to care about his appearance. I want to be proud to be seen with him and show him off to my friends. I want him to smell good and have nice shoes. :bigsmile: I want him to make others laugh and smile...

BaconMD

I find my wife is at her hottest when she's wearing the same sort of thing as when she first caught my eye 15 years ago: a Nirvana t-shirt and snug jeans (not tight on the calves mind you.. but not exactly bellbottoms.. I don't know jean terminology, sorry. haha).

boot cut.

Thanks! I knew there'd be a jeans expert in here. And now I have learned something, and I will remember that.

_binary_jester_

I want her wearing whatever she feels sexiest in.

...and commando.

AllanMisner

It really has more to do with her confidence and happiness. I don't want her to be uncomfortable. I'm mature enough to know who I am and value what I have. So, whether I'm in a relationship or not, I want my girl to feel good and be happy.

Captain_Tightpants

I want my wife to dress however she feels best.

I like when guys hit on her (which happens often because she's a stand up comedian so crowd members always approach her after the show). It gives her a boost and makes me proud that I'm the one going home with her.

Pip_squeak

I would like her to be comfortable, within limits. Hopefully she will check with me before we go out (and I will with her as well) to make sure we're both cool with the outfit. I won't stop her from wearing anything, but I may not be around for another date. If you like to dress sexy, ease me into your sexy dress. Don't just show up with your *kitten* and breasticles hanging out all over the place and expect me to be cool with that on the first date.

If we're staying in for the first date then...........

rob_v

my husband loves when i get looks and he likes for me to dress sexy just not trashy

Exactly the way my wife likes to dress (And how I like it as well).
That and anything w/ high boots. High boots is just sexy as hell.

Miss_Chievous_wechange

I want my man to be proud to be with me. Hell, who doesn't want to be considered eye candy?

Darkskinned88

I'm curious and would like to know...

For taken guys, how sexy do you like your gf/wife to dress?

For single guys, how sexy do you like your dates to dress?

I'm more concerned in, how do you feel when your date/SO is dressed up sexy in public and other guys check her out?

When I hear men say they like when other guys check out their date/SO it makes me feel like I'm on display. When I hear that they don't, makes me feel that the guy is overly possessive.

Entertain me. Thanks.

My concert is tonight.. I'm listening to Drake's song "Proud of You" and it made me think of this.
I'm single and personally, I WANT my dates to be proud to be seen with me. Maybe it's vain of me but when I do get a SO, I want to please him in this way.

And yes of course, I'm doing it for ME before anybody turns it around.. but this is just another reason why I sweat and work out the way I do.

I like my women to dress moderately sexy, sexy enough to show off not too sexy it looks like i'm paying her. I'm somewhat of a showoff and my gf/date is no exception. Just as I would check out an attractive woman, I can't fault another man if he glances at my date/gf.

LilysMom28

pfff...i just want my husband to notice the work of done....Maybe this is a good question to ask him just to see what I should be wearing FOR him to notice....sigh....