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The first kiss

AlsDonkBoxSquat
AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
I love watching other peoples first kiss on tv and in the movies when they're good real feeling first kisses. The sudden rush of adrenaline, will it happen, won't it happen, how will it define every other kiss in the relationship. The anticipation, the butterflies. I can't remember when I had my last first kiss (maybe 10 years ago) and I never plan on having another one (kind of in love and married over here), but oh I love to live vicariously.

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  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Mine was about 7 years ago...after a couple months of dating (technically, the 7th date). Yea, he's shy...
  • xtinalovexo
    xtinalovexo Posts: 1,376 Member
    :heart: awwww, there are so many lovey posts on here tonight lol. im having a moment. i remember my very first kiss... it wasn't good. it was awkward and on a basketball court.

    i have a lil dream about my next first kiss.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    :love: :love: :love: :love: 1st kisses are awesome!!!! :love: :love: :love:
  • xtinalovexo
    xtinalovexo Posts: 1,376 Member
    i really love when you first meet someone and you are spending that time getting to know them and finding out about them, its exciting. it is important to have a partner that always keeps things fresh.
  • xtinalovexo
    xtinalovexo Posts: 1,376 Member
    :love: :love: :love: :love: 1st kisses are awesome!!!! :love: :love: :love:

    nothing beats a first kiss- 50 first dates.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    My first kiss was awful.
    Having the back of my uvula tongue-stroked by someone who thought that the point of a kiss was to try to fit the entire lower half of my face into his mouth was not a particularly pleasant experience.
    I probably even had slobber on my NOSE when it was over, and it is one of the few instances I haven't been grateful that I don't have any sort of gag reflex - I could have used it then.
  • WalkingGirl1985
    WalkingGirl1985 Posts: 2,046 Member
    I was 13 years old when I had my first kiss..it was like a very long peck, kinda passionate too. A while later, I fell in love with him..we were together for 2 years and he turned out to be one of the towns biggest players..at the end I got hurt..and found someone else. :heart: :happy:
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    The first kiss that I actually count outside of silly kids playing house and whatnot came for me when I was 16. The girl and I had been chatting it up a lot online and we had met each other once before. The second time we got together we went to an amusement park. We had a lot of fun, and come early afternoon we were just kind of tired and found a nice spot of grass to just enjoy a reprieve from the sunshine and to kind of get away from the crowds and just be with each other.

    I remember she was laying on her back, and I was laying on my side next to her. I still remember how beautiful she was and how lucky I felt to be spending time with her. I leaned in and kind of did the 'Hitch' thing (granted, this was well before that movie even came out). I was 90% of the way there, but just kind of felt blocked from going the rest of the way. She must have been impatient waiting for me to 'complete the transaction' so she wrapped her arms around me and pulled me the rest of the way in. Everything else faded away and it was just me and her. Two and a half hours later, we finally came up for air. It was a very good way to have my first kiss; and I know she enjoyed it as well.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    hiker - I just re-read that and... 2 1/2 hours? Of just kissing?
    Wow. That might be a record, especially for hormonal teens.

    And yeah, that's super sweet and romantical (totally pretending that's a word), but you knew that already.
  • Quasita
    Quasita Posts: 1,530 Member
    I had my first kiss at 17 (of course, excepting kids play).
    I had asked every guy I knew pretty much to go to my homecoming dance with me. I went to an all girls school, and so it was pretty difficult to finally get one, but I did. It was a last minute sort of deal, and nothing more than friends... so I thought.
    Anyway, we went to dinner and then were at the dance. All night, he kept dancing really close to me, no matter what song it was, close enough for eskimo kisses, and I felt that knot in my tummy over and over. He never kissed me, not a single one of those times.
    Anyway, at the end of the dance, they played Sarah McLachlan's "I WIll Remember You" and we were slow dancing with our foreheads together, like we had numerous times during the night. I felt my lips brush his mustache, and I knew it was going to happen...

    And he proceeded to "tongue-rape" my face, shoving his tongue all the way to my tonsils and making me gag. I nearly had to run away to keep from puking. As we went to the car, we got into an argument because he swore it could not have been my first kiss because I was "too good at it". I just remember thinking, all I did was fend off your tongue with mine!

    It wasn't until a little while later that I had a good one.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I've never been kissed but reading all these stories (for the most part lol) makes me so excited for when I do get kissed!
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I had my first kiss at 17 (of course, excepting kids play).
    I had asked every guy I knew pretty much to go to my homecoming dance with me. I went to an all girls school, and so it was pretty difficult to finally get one, but I did. It was a last minute sort of deal, and nothing more than friends... so I thought.
    Anyway, we went to dinner and then were at the dance. All night, he kept dancing really close to me, no matter what song it was, close enough for eskimo kisses, and I felt that knot in my tummy over and over. He never kissed me, not a single one of those times.
    Anyway, at the end of the dance, they played Sarah McLachlan's "I WIll Remember You" and we were slow dancing with our foreheads together, like we had numerous times during the night. I felt my lips brush his mustache, and I knew it was going to happen...

    And he proceeded to "tongue-rape" my face, shoving his tongue all the way to my tonsils and making me gag. I nearly had to run away to keep from puking. As we went to the car, we got into an argument because he swore it could not have been my first kiss because I was "too good at it". I just remember thinking, all I did was fend off your tongue with mine!

    It wasn't until a little while later that I had a good one.
    At least he didn't try to eat your whole face, like mine... but I'm glad mine wasn't the only awful first kiss.
  • LatinaGordita
    LatinaGordita Posts: 377 Member
    awww. My first kiss was with a guy who was also experiencing his first kiss...a little weird at first. Then we just practiced a whole lot more!

    ahhh the teenage years...
  • shanahan_09
    shanahan_09 Posts: 238 Member
    My first 'real' kiss was with my very first boyfriend at age 14. He layed one on me after school in front of the school bus...after, I looked up and every kid had their nose pressed to the windows watching, lol. That kiss knocked my socks off--yep, there is such a thing as going weak in the knees! :wink:
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
    Bump.....so I can read later! Looks like some great stories here. I'm remember several of my firsts....
  • Bucky83
    Bucky83 Posts: 1,194 Member
    My first kiss....well....I was a lot older than the rest of you (26 yrs), and it was on a 3rd date. We had dinner and then went for a drive around town and found a lookout and started just talking for a bit and then he finally kissed me. I was hopeless, but he was pretty decent. It was funny though, because he said something like "You know, you do have to move your lips to kiss." I responded with, "Maybe I need more practice". :blushing:

    It was after that event, that I realised 'Hooray, now that first kiss is over, let's start kissing randoms'. I remember going to the country horse races and was definitely more than tipsy when a guy I thought resembled Sting, started dancing with me and just started going to town with kissing. My tongue was so sore that night....his kissing was like a vacuum cleaner! According to the girls I went with, I was enjoying it. I don't really remember much. :blushing:

    My favourite kiss....ohhhh...was with a guy I met online...we had a few dates and had a first kiss on the first date. He had these most luscious lips, I very much enjoyed kissing that guy. The only problem was that after 4 dates he thought it was time to get me into bed. No WAY buddy! I explained my personal views on sex before marriage and he hightailed it out of there. :noway:
  • ESierra1978
    ESierra1978 Posts: 32
    good 4 u Bucky83. My first kiss was in 8th grade and he was a douche . He just wanted to pop my kissing cherry.
  • jenlb99
    jenlb99 Posts: 213 Member
    I was 13 when I had my first kiss, but that's a non issue. The guy dumped me because I wouldn't let him cop a feel. lol

    I haven't been kissed in 4 years now, and I'm REALLY looking forward to my next first kiss...especially since I've got my eye on someone in particular (who I've known since I was 13, but he's not back in town until the Summer...which gives me time to meet my now 23 lb weight loss goal...).

    *Sigh* I love first-kisses in movies, shows, etc. I rewind them all the time lol.
  • papa3x
    papa3x Posts: 286
    I've never been kissed but reading all these stories (for the most part lol) makes me so excited for when I do get kissed!

    Wow.... somebody is missing the boat by not having kissed you.

    It;s funny... I didn't date many women before I got married... maybe only about 10... and while I can remember the details, I don't remember ever being overwhelmed by one. The one that probably came closest was when I was in college... given time, I think I would have fallen head over heels in love with her.... until I came back to my dorm room, only to find her having sex with my roommate.
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