Ex-Boyfriend Contacting Me Again. Best to Ignore Him?

wickedcricket

Only a dog goes back to it's own vomit. nuff said

Metamorphasis555

Thank you very much for your input everyone. I really appreciate it. You've all given me a lot to think about.

hiker282

Weren't you the same one that was complaining about this guy contacting you on your birthday and all that? I think you secretly like the attention and just need to close the door instead of playing back and forth with this guy that is "so obviously not into you." You let him back into your life and then come here asking for us all to tell you what a jerk he is. I kind of think you're playing him a little more than you'll admit and either need to put up and shut up or cut him out.

cantjustcant

I could have written this thread back in October. But instead I wrote this one

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/357396-why-can-t-i-just-tell-him-no

xXKatrinaXx

He clearly isn't serious about wanting to be with me

On the other hand, clearly I guess he doesn't really care whether or not he loses me forever or else he wouldn't have let me go in the first place.

I think you answered your question right here!! I say ignore him!!

MsFitnFabulous

Baby let me tell you I've been in deadend relationships and that is what this is. He won't let you move in because you are his safety net. He doesn't want you but doesn't want you to move on either. Please take a step back and put your joy, happiness, and peace in the forefront of your mind. Let him know you only need to talk about the money owed unless you can find a go between or someone who can loan you the funds. Trust me when you love yourself you won't let some joker keep you in this yo yo game. Best of luck!

askme12

I don't get it..don't you value yourself more???? Why keep up with this bull? Just leave him be set up some sort of payment plan with online banking and pay him when you have the money..you won't even really have to talk to him. Why oh why to women do this to themselves..because he's not really doing anything to you that you aren't LETTING him do....he will do what he can while you let him feed his ego..and destroy yours. Its not only that he's not worth this bull....its that NEITHER are YOU!

BELIEVE you are worth much more and you won't have an issue any more.

This^

Pay him back, then change your number!!!

candyparkerdamsel

I had been all over the internet trying to find someone who could help me out with my situation, I loved my my husband so much but he never loved me rather he goes out with other females then one day I found <EMAIL REDACTED> in the internet where he had helped many women who had the same issue with me, when i contacted him he said he will help me and just as he said. my husband consatred fully on me and he stopped all his bad harbbit I was astounded because so many say they are the best but can't back it. but prof realy suprised me till today
Candy

Mod edit: Removed personal identifying information

bushidowoman

If you are wondering why he keeps contacting you, it is not because he loves you or even wants you. What he wants is for girls (even you) to want him. He will be prepared to put in just enough effort to keep you and the other girls on the hook. You make the situation worse by responding to him. Borrowing the money from him now means he owns you because you are obliged to keep in contact with him, even if you don't want to be in contact with him. (Sorry, tough love.) Even though you know the steps, I will tell you: 1. Go to the bank or go to your parents and borrow enough money to pay him back in entirety. 2. MAIL him a bank draft, money order or cashier's cheque (do not send a personal cheque). Include a terse note thanking him for the loan, that you have moved on in your life, you would appreciate that he not contact you in future as you will not respond. DO NOT provide any personal information in the note, no details at all about you, the money, where it came from or in what manner you have moved on in your life. It is none of his business and everything he knows about you will only encourage him to find ways to keep in contact with you. 3. Call your best girlfriends, tell them you are taking a night off from MyFitnessPal as you just lost 175 pounds of dead weight, drink some wine (or whatever) and explain to your girls that you are done with that jerk.

^^ Listen to wisdom.

Bahet

I had been all over the internet trying to find someone who could help me out with my situation, I loved my my husband so much but he never loved me rather he goes out with other females then one day I found prophetharry@ymail. com in the internet where he had helped many women who had the same issue with me, when i contacted him he said he will help me and just as he said. my husband consatred fully on me and he stopped all his bad harbbit I was astounded because so many say they are the best but can't back it. but prof realy suprised me till today
Candy

You bumped a thread from MARCH to post something completely incoherent? :noway: How many pages deep was this buried anyhow?

ScatteredThoughts

You bumped a thread from MARCH to post something completely incoherent? :noway: How many pages deep was this buried anyhow?

Considering that they were so kind as to include an email address along with the grave digging, I'm thinking this is a spam/scam ploy.

caldon4523

You're in love with this wonderful man. Tell him how you feel. I wish the both of you my very best!

kinkyslinky16

WOW.

Reported.

PurringMyrrh

I saved that number in case he's well endowed with some idea of what to do with it.

Bageeeta

@purr.. Get a pic! Geeeezzzz lol