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Are u jelly :-?

david581c
david581c Posts: 337
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
When ur dearly significant other talks w/ someone of the opposite sex and u see them having fun. I
She rips people to shreds who try and hit on her tho im mega jealous for some reason.

As a dude thing, if Michelle hangs w/ friends and theres a dude, instantly im all "yknow he wants to bone u right?" cus its super obvious.

Am i the only one puts up w/ their S/O having friends who are Opposite sex tho is mega jealous and greedy w/ em :-?
Im prob super insecure but damnit, i kno what i want!
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  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    you'll change... give it a few years.

    maybe.
  • ashleab37
    ashleab37 Posts: 575 Member
    You're 21, give it time. 21 year olds are far more likely to be jealous than 30 year olds.
  • Angelabec
    Angelabec Posts: 505 Member
    or, she'll leave you when your pointlessly unreasonable behaviour gets beyond bearing. Just a thought.........
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    Nah. I don't care a bit. He can even think they're hot. It doesn't bug me in the least. I only get upset if he is nicer to someone else than he is to me. Like, if he gets upset because I lost a key and is understanding to someone else. This has never happened, just an example.

    He is more jelly than I. He doesn't like it when other guys make me laugh, even if I don't think they are hot.
  • skinnybysummer24
    skinnybysummer24 Posts: 58
    I think it's okay to be a bit jealous I mean, she is yours. But don't let it go overboard, sometimes if the girl is feeling less wanted, she'll try to make her guy jealous to bounce them back. I know I do it sometimes. Don't sweat it too much, but make her feel like you treasure her <3
  • skywa
    skywa Posts: 901 Member
    my bf is like that. i personally think its stupid and controlling behavior. but i can see where your coming from with your feelings.
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    my boyfriend dosnt have girls for friends. if he did i wouldnt be jelly cuz he comes home to our house. i would be jealous if he flirted.

    and just a little bit of experience from the past from a girl. any time i had a guy friend (In the past) and a boyfriend it has always ruined our relationships. the grass is greener on the other side right? ended a relationship with someone i loved for his best friend. he slept with my best friend a year latter.

    fortunatly i have grown up and realize i love the man i am with now and wouldnt do anything to mess that up EVER. i think people have to go through failed relationships to know how to have one.
  • david581c
    david581c Posts: 337
    I know right?
    God bless her for not leaving my weird *kitten*.
    Oi! She read my topic on my phone and was all "wtf" and im like "its how i feel"

    She gave me a wicked nipple twister and told me im inconsolably moot :/
    Gosh im a wiener, but im her wiener :D
  • Barbie1125
    Barbie1125 Posts: 115
    I think it's okay to be a bit jealous I mean, she is yours. But don't let it go overboard, sometimes if the girl is feeling less wanted, she'll try to make her guy jealous to bounce them back. I know I do it sometimes. Don't sweat it too much, but make her feel like you treasure her <3



    ^^^ THIS
  • Brandongood
    Brandongood Posts: 311 Member
    or, she'll leave you when your pointlessly unreasonable behaviour gets beyond bearing. Just a thought.........

    What she said. You been cheated on before or something?
  • BeautifulRedButterfly
    BeautifulRedButterfly Posts: 316 Member
    Nope. My fiance is much worse.

    I told him my ex boyfriend said "Hi. whats up? I miss you" on facebook. and he got all pissed off and told me to delete my facebook NOW.

    I could care less if my fiance had girl friends. But, if he's flirting and laughing, then thats a different story.
  • rougette66
    rougette66 Posts: 210 Member
    you should learn to get over that soon enough bc she's with you not them have a little faith. it gets old fast when your guys is constantly being pouncing tiger
  • Kenzietea2
    Kenzietea2 Posts: 1,132 Member
    If there are men and women there, doesn't bother me.

    And he honestly could care less, he is the least jealous person I've met.

    Edit: when he has been drinking, his slight jealousy comes out, but even then nothing crazy.. just cute.
  • Angelabec
    Angelabec Posts: 505 Member

    I could care less if my fiance had girl friends. But, if he's flirting and laughing, then thats a different story.

    So, it's ok if he has friends he's miserable with, but he can't have a laugh? People have friends or they don't, and honestly, people are true, or they aren't. Being all jealous (jelly is a pudding in my world) makes f* all difference at the end of the day.
  • burg1801
    burg1801 Posts: 124
    Me? Jelly? No. But...

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  • Dilfster
    Dilfster Posts: 416 Member
    I don't care who my wife is friends with- guy or girl & she doesn't care who I am friends with. We are good like that. :)
  • rockerbabyy
    rockerbabyy Posts: 2,258 Member
    nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me ;) hell - if im lucky she'll come along too
  • horndave
    horndave Posts: 565
    I think it's okay to be a bit jealous I mean, she is yours. But don't let it go overboard, sometimes if the girl is feeling less wanted, she'll try to make her guy jealous to bounce them back. I know I do it sometimes. Don't sweat it too much, but make her feel like you treasure her <3

    I always resort to manipulation for my insecurities.
  • Brandongood
    Brandongood Posts: 311 Member
    nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me ;) hell - if im lucky she'll come along too

    So much for being in a committed marriage huh
  • Dilfster
    Dilfster Posts: 416 Member
    nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me ;) hell - if im lucky she'll come along too

    you are awesome! haha :)
  • BeautifulRedButterfly
    BeautifulRedButterfly Posts: 316 Member

    I could care less if my fiance had girl friends. But, if he's flirting and laughing, then thats a different story.

    So, it's ok if he has friends he's miserable with, but he can't have a laugh? People have friends or they don't, and honestly, people are true, or they aren't. Being all jealous (jelly is a pudding in my world) makes f* all difference at the end of the day.

    I believe my comment wasnt going to you. thanks.
  • plethorax
    plethorax Posts: 33 Member
    Eesh... people I'm in relationships with aren't possessions. Or preserves...
  • skinnybysummer24
    skinnybysummer24 Posts: 58
    nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me ;) hell - if im lucky she'll come along too

    So much for being in a committed marriage huh



    it isn't cheating if he's coming home to her.
    if the woman comes along then great.
    She's saying he's committed to her and is okay with a threesome.
    how is that wrong?
  • badgerbadger1
    badgerbadger1 Posts: 954 Member
    When ur dearly significant other talks w/ someone of the opposite sex and u see them having fun. I
    She rips people to shreds who try and hit on her tho im mega jealous for some reason.

    As a dude thing, if Michelle hangs w/ friends and theres a dude, instantly im all "yknow he wants to bone u right?" cus its super obvious.

    Am i the only one puts up w/ their S/O having friends who are Opposite sex tho is mega jealous and greedy w/ em :-?
    Im prob super insecure but damnit, i kno what i want!

    I can't understand what you're getting at. Primarily because not a word of this is English.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    When ur dearly significant other talks w/ someone of the opposite sex and u see them having fun. I
    She rips people to shreds who try and hit on her tho im mega jealous for some reason.

    As a dude thing, if Michelle hangs w/ friends and theres a dude, instantly im all "yknow he wants to bone u right?" cus its super obvious.

    Am i the only one puts up w/ their S/O having friends who are Opposite sex tho is mega jealous and greedy w/ em :-?
    Im prob super insecure but damnit, i kno what i want!

    I can't understand what you're getting at. Primarily because not a word of this is English.

    You're pretty. I'm jelly. You wanna be peanut butter? :laugh:
  • tataliciousd89
    tataliciousd89 Posts: 465
    Lol, I am really not a good person to ask. I have a ton of male friends and my so usually has primarily female friends. I totally get jealous when they hang out, but then again I don't kick it with my male friends when I'm in a serious relationship without my man there, because I know they may get the wrong idea. I'm only 22 tho. I'll grow up eventually.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    Most of my friends are male, and I wouldn't be able to be married to someone who didn't accept that. I don't get on that well with other girls (no, not because I am a ***** or I want to steal their husbands...I'm just not very girly, and don't really get the subtleties of woman politics - I prefer my friendships straightforward, with much humour. Oh and I HATE gossip mags and gossip in general, makeup, shoes, handbags, talking about what the latest diet craze is, and TV).

    Luckily I married a man who gets on much better with girls than boys (he loathes alpha and macho males, and all sports, and finds girls easier to talk to), so we understand where each other are coming from. We have known each other since we were 13, so were friends for years before hooking up. He has no issues with me going drinking with other men, and I don't care if he goes on lunches with his female friends. We are both confident and secure enough to know it doesn't make any difference to us.

    We also know we don't own each other, and neither of us have any right to tell the other what they can or can't do.
  • Brandongood
    Brandongood Posts: 311 Member
    nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me ;) hell - if im lucky she'll come along too

    So much for being in a committed marriage huh



    it isn't cheating if he's coming home to her.
    if the woman comes along then great.
    She's saying he's committed to her and is okay with a threesome.
    how is that wrong?

    Threesomes ruin relationships. But hey to each their own
  • woou
    woou Posts: 668 Member
    When ur dearly significant other talks w/ someone of the opposite sex and u see them having fun. I
    She rips people to shreds who try and hit on her tho im mega jealous for some reason.

    As a dude thing, if Michelle hangs w/ friends and theres a dude, instantly im all "yknow he wants to bone u right?" cus its super obvious.

    Am i the only one puts up w/ their S/O having friends who are Opposite sex tho is mega jealous and greedy w/ em :-?
    Im prob super insecure but damnit, i kno what i want!

    I can't understand what you're getting at. Primarily because not a word of this is English.

    You're pretty. I'm jelly. You wanna be peanut butter? :laugh:

    Where's the applaud smiley, when I need it? :laugh:
  • Kenzietea2
    Kenzietea2 Posts: 1,132 Member
    http://voices.yahoo.com/dating-relationships-jealousy-normal-3666677.html
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