Has anyone ever noticed...

paisley2288
paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
When you finally meet someone you have really, really strong feelings for, that's when the guys/girls from your past decide they are interested in you?

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  • muffin_shufflin
    muffin_shufflin Posts: 239 Member
    Always. Kinda like when you want to be in a relationship & nobodys around, so you decide "*kitten* it, i'll be single & have fun" suddenly 20 guys show up :laugh:
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    lol i just don't understand it. i guess when they see that somebody wants you, they decide you are good enough for them.
  • MDawg81
    MDawg81 Posts: 244 Member
    Nope, nobody is every interested in me, so there's hardly anyone from my past to worry about doing that. lol
  • jgondor
    jgondor Posts: 145 Member
    yes! i never understood it...
  • PennyNickel14
    PennyNickel14 Posts: 749 Member
    Not me, But my male best friend has when it rains, it pours syndrome.

    Like girl drought for 8-9 months. Then EVERYONE is suddenly interested.

    It is the strangest and repeated cycle
  • ericalynn104
    ericalynn104 Posts: 382 Member
    Yes! Maybe they just want what they can't have!
  • NessasMommy081311
    NessasMommy081311 Posts: 122 Member
    Haha you too??? As soon as I got married, boyfriends from my past (and some new guys) were coming at me bad! But I love my husband more than I ever loved/could love them. :)
  • Starla_
    Starla_ Posts: 349
    its simple really

    you are happier, more outgoing more confident...

    whether you get in a relationship that makes you happy, or you decide you are happy being single, people get attracted to the happier you.
  • Jules0336
    Jules0336 Posts: 137 Member
    Yep...never fails!
  • Nope, nobody is every interested in me, so there's hardly anyone from my past to worry about doing that. lol
    nobody that you know of...
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    its simple really

    you are happier, more outgoing more confident...

    whether you get in a relationship that makes you happy, or you decide you are happy being single, people get attracted to the happier you.

    ^^this. nailed it
  • Single~I had all the friends and no bfs...
    Married~wasn't paying attention so I didn't notice...
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Always. Kinda like when you want to be in a relationship & nobodys around, so you decide "*kitten* it, i'll be single & have fun" suddenly 20 guys show up :laugh:
    Whoooaa somebody likes to party!
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    20 guys? sounds like a lot of work. haha
  • DayumStraightIAmEllie
    DayumStraightIAmEllie Posts: 160 Member
    OMFG......yes! So annoying
  • GabeRami
    GabeRami Posts: 210 Member
    Yea, and it totally throws your life into disarray. Keeps ya up at night, makes you doubt yourself, na I don't know anything about that...:cry:
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