Anyone else celebrate ANTI-VERSARIES??

classycouture

Yesterday would have been my ex boyfriend and I's 6 year anniversary. We broke up back in November because he decided to move to Africa to work at a casino (seriously). So, yesterday I surrounded myself with great friends, and we had drinks in honor of my anti-versary! (and now today I am nursing my hang over :drinker:)

Anyone else celebrate anti-versaries? Or anything like it?? I'd love to hear about it!

butterflyliz32

I celebrately my 2 year Antiversarry (from my divorce) by marrying my sweetheart. Now, I don't really think about them and don't need to celebrate them.

But, I did have a big party after my divorce LOL

Purple_Orchid_87

i will remember my 3 years apart from my violent ex on July 4th this year
I also rememberd my 5 years from having an ectopic pregnancy (valentine's Day)
dont think i actually celebrate - but i do, and always will remember

all depends why the anti-versaries happen I suppose

thepetiterunner

Nope I don't. I mentally dump all those useless dates from my brain once I dump the (ex)boyfriend. Too many other things for me to keep track of, he doesn't get any more of my mental space or energy

La_Amazona

Seems kind of bitter to me? No offense.. I'm just saying I wouldn't purposely remember a day I broke up with someone. Since yours happened in November though, I can see how it's still very fresh.

Sadly I did remember the date my ex confessed he cheated and so for a couple of years during that month I'd get extremely stressed out. I couldn't tell you what that date is anymore though! :bigsmile:

I wonder if I'll even remember my would have been anniversary this year.. hmmm. I can't even tell you the date that I filed for divorce. :huh: I have a horrible memory!

timmomo

Nope I don't. I mentally dump all those useless dates from my brain once I dump the (ex)boyfriend. Too many other things for me to keep track of, he doesn't get any more of my mental space or energy

Hear hear!

classycouture

Seems kind of bitter to me? No offense.. I'm just saying I wouldn't purposely remember a day I broke up with someone. Since yours happened in November though, I can see how it's still very fresh.

Sadly I did remember the date my ex confessed he cheated and so for a couple of years during that month I'd get extremely stressed out. I couldn't tell you what that date is anymore though! :bigsmile:

I wonder if I'll even remember my would have been anniversary this year.. hmmm. I can't even tell you the date that I filed for divorce. :huh: I have a horrible memory!

No offense taken! We ended on good terms, it was really just the distance that got to us. Really, it's just a good reason to get friends together and have a good time (not that a real reason is ever needed for that!) and keep my mind off of him!

I'm sure this date will eventually be forgotten! Sometimes having a horrible memory works out in the long run! Especially for situations like this :laugh: