To me, words are just words.......

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Its the meaning that gets put behind them that makes them positive or negative. For me, if someone called me thick........it would depend on the context........but either way I would be offended. I just wish that there were better ways to describe people. Like for instance:

Obese = overweight (in my eyes)

Heavy = not overweight, but not within the norm for your body height and build

These two, I would still call them obese or heavy......that to me is a respectable word for either and to me, those descriptions are what they mean.

Now you have:

Healthy looking = lean = meaning the right weight for heighth and build

Skinny = (would still use this word) a little thinner than whats normal for you heighth and build

What's yours?