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edited September 19 in Chit-Chat
Hi everyone..HOW do you get over someone that you've been seeing almost a year and just broke up with???????? It hurts so bad but I really think I'll be happier...someday......ANY advice would help me..thank you!

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  • Posts: 86
    Hi everyone..HOW do you get over someone that you've been seeing almost a year and just broke up with???????? It hurts so bad but I really think I'll be happier...someday......ANY advice would help me..thank you!
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    You just have to take one day at a time. Try to keep busy to take your mind off things. It is sad when things break up try to be positive. I wish you all the strenth to overcome this.

    :flowerforyou:

    Pamela XXX
  • Start to focus on something more important...yourself. As the old saying goes, Time will heal all.
    I wish you the best, now start to focus.

    Lessofmesoon.
  • Posts: 185 Member
    I'm sorry you are going through that! :flowerforyou: I know how you feel.
    Don't let a break up brake your stride though; just focus on the things that you need to do right now. It hurts bad when you were with someone you really cared about and it will be a while before it stops hurting but focusing on other things and getting out there will help you take your mind off of it.

    I used to day I wish there was a pill I could take to get rid of the heartache and sadly, there isn't. I remember I used to go for long walks, i would excercise, I would read, anything to get my mind of how terrible I was feeling. Just remember everything happens for a reason and maybe you are getting something much better in the future....
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    It sucks
    BUT I think only time will help
    Other than that, STAY BUSY...get out, hang out as much as possible with friends....

    ((HUGS))
    Kim
  • Posts: 86
    I'm sorry you are going through that! :flowerforyou: I know how you feel.
    Don't let a break up brake your stride though; just focus on the things that you need to do right now. It hurts bad when you were with someone you really cared about and it will be a while before it stops hurting but focusing on other things and getting out there will help you take your mind off of it.

    I used to day I wish there was a pill I could take to get rid of the heartache and sadly, there isn't. I remember I used to go for long walks, i would excercise, I would read, anything to get my mind of how terrible I was feeling. Just remember everything happens for a reason and maybe you are getting something much better in the future....

    WOW ..thank YOU so much for saying that..........that really means alot to me.......Im going to print this up and whenever Im down I'll read it..........thank you.....
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    THANKs everyone for your kind words.......it really helps! :-)
  • Posts: 185 Member

    WOW ..thank YOU so much for saying that..........that really means alot to me.......Im going to print this up and whenever Im down I'll read it..........thank you.....

    You are so welcome! I just remember getting my heart torn to pieces ten years ago and it being the most emotionally difficult time for me. I meant what I wrote earlier!! In my case, I worked on me for over a year after that terrible break up and you know what? I met a guy when I wasn't even looking about 18 months after and it turned out he was a million times a better person than the one I cried over all that time. We are now married, have two wonderful daughters, and he turned out to be the best dad I could have picked for them. Today is our 8th wedding anniversary and if I ever run into that "other" guy, I would say "thank you" for not coming back after me. I see now that would have been a disaster...
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