DISAPPOINTED in the people of MFP!

britniseubert

I must say I am a little disappointed.

I don't typically post topics on the message boards because I'm always afraid of not getting any feedback and the other day I posted to get some advice because I have been having a slightly difficult time over the past few weeks and exactly what I was afraid of happening happened! Not one person gave me feedback or advice!

I understand that there's tons of posts every minute but I always see people getting support from other members and it's rare I see a only 1 post topic.

I still love MFP, I was just hoping for a different outcome when I made myself a little vulnerable by posting my own topic with pictures to get some advice. :frown:

Meeperslove

I am sorry. I had my intro topic get no responses yesterday so I know how you feel. Hugs!

fitby38

and then you see the dumbest posts with 1387 responses .... hmmm ... :ohwell:

EuroReady

Link it here?? Sadly, I think I'm too new to mfp to give any valid answers though. But, even as a noob, I can try.

leadoff

does a BUMP count? What was the advice you were looking for?

Pebble321

Sometimes it just happens that way - if you want a response try bumping it up at a different time of day. It might be that you posted at a really busy time when topics move through the "recent" list really fast. Or a slow time when no many people were around.
Or maybe people didn't have good answers for you.
Give me a link to the topic and if I have an idea, I'll answer it!
And just some friendly advice - people can get a bit put out by being told off ("I'm disappointed in you" sounds like the beginning of a scolding", you would probably have got more responses posting your question again, maybe wording it in a different way.

And another thought - you might get a better response posting on your wall for your friends to comment on.

Helloitsdan

So whats going on with your weight loss?
What questions do you have?

Jess11079

what help were you looking for.....repost it here

NeuroticVirgo

Sometimes no response can be better than the rude responses people seem to be leaving lately. :frown: MFP doesn't feel as nice of a place as it used to be.

CallmeSbo

Sometimes it just happens that way - if you want a response try bumping it up at a different time of day. It might be that you posted at a really busy time when topics move through the "recent" list really fast. Or a slow time when no many people were around.
Or maybe people didn't have good answers for you.
Give me a link to the topic and if I have an idea, I'll answer it!
And just some friendly advice - people can get a bit put out by being told off ("I'm disappointed in you" sounds like the beginning of a scolding", you would probably have got more responses posting your question again, maybe wording it in a different way.

And another thought - you might get a better response posting on your wall for your friends to comment on.

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becoming_a_new_me

Post your question again. Also, I recommend opening up your diary if you have diet-specific questions or you won't get much help

BrienJD

Don't feel too bad, try reposting or bumping your post. Truthfully, I don't always have too much time to peruse the community boards and depending on when I get on I only see the latest and greatest and respond to them.....like now!

I don't think it's because people don't care about helping you.

courtneymal17

Honestly? As much as it sucks, it happens. I've posted things that have gotten overwhelming responses. But on the same token I've posted a LOT of stuff that has gotten crickets. It happens. Just ask it here now that you've gotten people's attentions

vsmurrow

Chill, bro...

izzydino

that happens to me too.... I know it how irritating it is. Just hang in there!

AZKristi

I don't actually troll the forums, I just click on headlines from time to time on the side of my home page. This is probably the case for a lot of people. So, I doubt anyone was actively ignoring you, but if you happened to post at a high volume time, it may have gotten lost in the shuffle and few people happened to read it.

Here are a few suggestions: first, try searching to make sure your question hasn't already been answered in depth. Second, read through a few threads that have a lot of responses and pick out a few people that aren't *kitten* and whose answers are logical. Try sending one of those people a direct message or a friend request.

I'd be happy to try and answer your question if I knew what it was, although I freely admit I'm not an expert.

I don't look back at threads, so feel free to message me. Good luck on your journey!

ster81

might have just been the wrong time of the day... still sorry to hear that... post your question again, you got my attention =P

Pebble321

Here it is:

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/525820-help-please-apparently-in-dire-need-of-some-advice

CalJur

It happens. Just re-post the question or try a different forum. Many times simply changing the topic line makes a huge difference. Just think how many forum topics are posted daily. Make your topic stand out so people respond. Moreover, become more of regular on the forums so people know you and take an interest in what you have to say or post.

gazz777au

I don't see every post. Don't be disappointed with all of us, just the ones that did see it and knew they had to answer but held back.

I'm ok if you get to know me

Hope you get what you are looking for !

ster81

might have just been the wrong time of the day... still sorry to hear that... post your question again, you got my attention =P

What's up man how you doing?, has been a while.

wsup brotha... been good just relaxing at work and looking at random post during down time lol. How you been

Evelyn_22

I have had this happen a few times as well. The trick is to post a random topic that everyone has to click on when they read it. Then ask your question. LOL
Ask again while the thread is still going.

britniseubert

Here it is:

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/525820-help-please-apparently-in-dire-need-of-some-advice

Thank you, Rubybelle! Maybe that will do the trick!

And I do realize that there are a million factors that go into responses to posts, I tried to mention that when I posted my disappointment. I'm also not disappointed with everyone, I just expected that at least ONE person would post something back!

I thought maybe if my topic subject was a little more eye-catching, that this time around I'd get a little more response.

pinkraynedropjacki

Could be worse. You could have to opposite & have people tell you to divorce your husband, & that he's a monster.. all cause he does not give support for my weight loss.


{{hugs}}..... I'm sorry nobody gave you feedback.

77tes

Sorry, I did see your original post, and I must say that when I read the topic: In dire need of advice and then saw that your "dire" need was that you need to lose 9 pounds, I was a bit dismissive. I understand that you are frustrated, but the word Dire just didn't seem to fit.

Here are my suggestions:
1) Be happy to be 22 and 139 at 5'5". I wish I had been. Instead, I went on one crash diet after another and wound up over 200 pounds.

2) Track what you eat, but work on healthy eating rather than a magic number on the scale.

3) Work on being more active and getting fit, and your body will be gorgeous for your whole life.

HolleeERL

This post is proof positive that the squeaky wheel gets the grease. No advice when needed, but when you whine...just look at all the freakin' posts. Yes - this is definitely disappointing!

leadoff

This post is proof positive that the squeaky wheel gets the grease. No advice when needed, but when you whine...just look at all the freakin' posts. Yes - this is definitely disappointing!

Quit complaining.

geckofli

Sometimes no response can be better than the rude responses people seem to be leaving lately. :frown: MFP doesn't feel as nice of a place as it used to be.

thats exactly why rarely stick my hand in the forums often you get alot of smart *kitten* mean nasty comments on message boards from people who think its ok to be mean and nasty to strangers cause.. well i dont know why you would do that to someone

kdeaux1959

i see you have 9 lbs to go... Not too bad. Keep up the good work.

Cold_Steel

Hi, welcome to the internet. Take a number, it gets crowded here.

carleyfunk

I don't usually get responses either unless they are from my friends.