Do you believe in "sloppy seconds"?

Do you believe that if a person gets with someone right after they've been broken up with, do you believe in the whole "sloppy seconds" thing?
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  • Karrix
    Karrix Posts: 288
    I don't believe how it's phrased. However, if you're getting with someone straight after a breakup, you aren't getting everything they can offer for a serious relationship. In a rebound people are not emotionally available. You're getting someone who has yet to find themselves again.

    If you're not seeking anything serious, it's a different story. I don't refer to anyone as seconds, it's plain disrespectful.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I think Sloppy Seconds is supposed to be taken literally....when someone gets some Tang directly after someone else.

    The relationship scenario you've posted is called a Rebound.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    I believe in secondary rebounding slop.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    How many seconds we talking bout?
  • tigersword
    tigersword Posts: 8,059 Member
    I think Sloppy Seconds is supposed to be taken literally....when someone gets some Tang directly after someone else.

    The relationship scenario you've posted is called a Rebound.
    This would be correct.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    It's only "sloppy seconds" if you haven't showered in between.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    It's only "sloppy seconds" if you haven't showered in between.
    Yum.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I think most people move on after a relationship way too fast = sloppy.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    It's only "sloppy seconds" if someone is getting their chocolate in someone else's peanut butter.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    It's only "sloppy seconds" if someone is getting their chocolate in someone else's peanut butter.

    That right there is a recipe for a nasty UTI.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    It's only "sloppy seconds" if someone is getting their chocolate in someone else's peanut butter.

    But that's how Reese's peanut butter cups were invented. How can that be wrong?
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    Sloppy seconds is only sloppy if a baker injected cream filling and another baker came along and injected his own into the same donut hole. Like a Boston double cream pie.
  • sma83
    sma83 Posts: 479 Member
    Sloppy seconds is only sloppy if a baker injected cream filling and another baker came along and injected his own into the same donut hole. Like a Boston double cream pie.
    Hahahahahaha! Sooo wrong but sooooo funny! lol
  • luhluhlaura
    luhluhlaura Posts: 278 Member
    It's only "sloppy seconds" if someone is getting their chocolate in someone else's peanut butter.

    That right there is a recipe for a nasty UTI.

    True dat
  • OSC_ESD
    OSC_ESD Posts: 752 Member
    When you describe it as " Sloppy Seconds " ... nonetheless a rebound issue ... I think it smells like disaster before it even begins ! The only time there is a rebound ... is if your not over the first person.

    My advice ... Spend some time getting to know yourself first ... and get over the last one before looking for the next one !

    Just my opinion. I never was one for " sloppy " anything ! :wink:
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
    Sloppy seconds is only sloppy if a baker injected cream filling and another baker came along and injected his own into the same donut hole. Like a Boston double cream pie.

    Thank you good sir for killing my craving for doughnuts, though having a kid throw a half-eaten one at me earlier was about as good.

    But yeah to echo, sloppy seconds is pretty much sex related, though I know some guys think of hooking up with a girl their friend was with (one night stand/casual dating, not serious) as sloppy seconds. If it was a serious relationship, that's rebound. Not serious/just for sex then it's up for debate depending on timing.
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
    if my soldiers are fighting some one elses soldiers for entry to the gate... then thats nasty....
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    if my soldiers are fighting some one elses soldiers for entry to the gate... then thats nasty....

    There's a gate? I have been doing this all wrong.
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    if my soldiers are fighting some one elses soldiers for entry to the gate... then thats nasty....

    There's a gate? I have been doing this all wrong.

    Yeah I was thinking the same. Are you sure you aren't hitting the belly button by mistake?
  • jenny95662
    jenny95662 Posts: 997 Member
    omg his thread is making me laugh so hard i am crying
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
    Well when you get to the egg.its pretty much a gate.. Soldiers dying trying to get across. Huge sign saying "NONE SHALL PASS"


    That or maybe I have been getting with belly buttons hhmmmm
  • mikey1976
    mikey1976 Posts: 1,005 Member
    you haven't met my ex she was married 7 year getting a divorce so seperated in by the first of september. she hooked up with some random dud messed around with him. met me in october started dating she cheated two weeks into our relationship, didn't tell me until december, then she traded me in just before velentines day. this was ten years ago so no she not sloppy seaconds she more like the mile high member. she couldn't be on her own if her life depended on it. but it did change me i look for a gale that can hold her own confidence is so hot
  • Iamkim73
    Iamkim73 Posts: 924 Member
    if my soldiers are fighting some one elses soldiers for entry to the gate... then thats nasty....

    There's a gate? I have been doing this all wrong.

    Yeah I was thinking the same. Are you sure you aren't hitting the belly button by mistake?

    ^^^^ hilarious stuff right there!
  • sarahgilmore
    sarahgilmore Posts: 572 Member
    No such thing as too much lube




    Hold on... What?
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
    No such thing as too much lube




    Hold on... What?

    So true, so true.

    Man, that was a great Halloween party.....
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    I think Sloppy Seconds is supposed to be taken literally....when someone gets some Tang directly after someone else.

    The relationship scenario you've posted is called a Rebound.

    This!
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Sloppy seconds...for some, it is better than nothing...lol
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    This is making me laugh and want to puke at the same time.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
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