What's your type?

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  • GabeRami
    GabeRami Posts: 210 Member
    Long dark hair, curvy but not any bigger than me, 5'10 or shorter. Never been big on real skinny women. Positive attitude and a kind soul are very important.
  • ElementalMoe
    ElementalMoe Posts: 186 Member
    Physically, I like dark eyes, dark hair, and an average build - I'm not into any extremes (IE: really skinny, really muscly, excessively chubby). I prefer someone older and taller, but, well, those are negotiable. Stubble, chest hair, and someone who gives strong hugs are an asset. I have no preference for race, but am generally not attracted to most blond men.

    Intellectually I like someone as smart or smarter than me - Someone who is honest to a fault, who is intellectual, who reads, who takes care of themselves, and who is confident. Nothing worse than an insecure liar. I'd also like the fine balance where neither of us are the Alpha in the relationship - I don't like being told what to do, and I don't respect a man who will follow my orders without questioning them. And I need someone who will love and accept my daughter as though she was his own.

    And this is why I'm still single.
  • FitSid
    FitSid Posts: 117 Member
    I'd also like the fine balance where neither of us are the Alpha in the relationship - I don't like being told what to do, and I don't respect a man who will follow my orders without questioning them.


    Yes I totally agree with that!
  • JulieH3art
    JulieH3art Posts: 293 Member
    I like dark hair, dark eyes, tall.

    I ended up with the opposite of that :love: and I can't imagine anyone more gorgeous than my boyfriend!

    He is kind, honest, driven and loving. A real family man.
  • WandaVonDunajew
    WandaVonDunajew Posts: 183 Member
    Short (shorter than me, I'm 5 ft 7) and lean. Longish hair. Not necessarily conventionally handsome. In terms of celebs, think Gael Garcia Bernal (:love: ), Tom Cruise (in his Top Gun era) or Michael J Fox....:

    Is it weird my partner of 11 years now is 5 ft 6, lean, has a ponytail and I love him to pieces? :bigsmile: We both enjoy it when I wear heels. Which I do when there's a special event and I mean HIGH heels. :drinker:
  • Kittie_Kat
    Kittie_Kat Posts: 101
    I've never really had a 'type'

    I've dated a really really skinny guy who I could've probably broke..
    I dated a 'prep' (athletic, blonde hair, blue eyes, fit)
    I dated a marine (tall, muscular, strong)
    Also dated a 'nerd' once.

    Been dating my current bf for 2 years, he has long hair, is overweight, has facial hair, and listens to metal and is soo nice to cuddle with :)

    So yeah, lol for me, as long as you have a great personality, and are somewhat attractive, be it body or facial features, then so be it.
  • RedBullLiz
    RedBullLiz Posts: 469 Member
    My husband, always has been, always will be, the man just does it for me. Corny, I know.

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    Aww, so in love!!

    I'd pick:: IMPORTANT TRAITS::
    Spontaneous/adventurous
    Talkative
    Smart
    Colored eyes to stare into, hehe
    Tall
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    My type used to be extremely skinny, but this past year I realized I also like muscular (not to the extreme though).

    Stuff that I generally go for however:
    -asian
    -10-20 years older
    -small eyes
    -straight teeth and cute smile
    -cute/sweet
    -fun
    -smarter than me
    -romantic
    -interesting
    -spoils me
    -animal lover
    -well-traveled

    I'm very lucky to have my boyfriend :embarassed: ^---^
  • paigemarie93
    paigemarie93 Posts: 778 Member
    Can't be shorter than me in height, but I don't mind same height.
    Not too muscular but must have some definition, I can't find guys who don't have some nice biceps going on attractive.
    Nice teeth & hair.
    Good personal hygiene!

    I like Romantic guys who take me out for meals & spoil me & also like being spoiled back!
    And they have to love me for being me!
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Tall with Dark Hair. :smooched:

    Although for me, personality trumps looks. Sometimes I like a real bad@ss with a good heart.

    MOST IMPORTANT: Someone who can make me smile and laugh. :love:
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
    My girlfriend is my type. I totally big giant puffy heart her. :love: She's tall with dark long hair, sexy, smart, funny, in great shape, and slightly crazy.

    Plus for some reason she thinks I am the greatest thing ever. One of my favorite things about her is that she's my best friend and I can tell her anything. She doesn't get mad or judge, I can really just be me and she loves me for it.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    My type? Red hair. Blue eyes. Busty, Wears glasses. Curvy. Sexy. Likes to drink from red plastic cups and stand under balloons.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    my celebrity crushes are: Rachel Bilson, Mila Kunis, Emmanuelle Chriqui & Kate Middleton. nope, no type. lol

    Emmanuelle Chriqui = My girl crush :love:
  • ToEKnee213
    ToEKnee213 Posts: 1,031 Member
    My girlfriend is my type. I totally big giant puffy heart her. :love: She's tall with dark long hair, sexy, smart, funny, in great shape, and slightly crazy.

    Plus for some reason she thinks I am the greatest thing ever. On of my favorite things about her is that she's my best friend and I can tell her anything. She doesn't get mad or judge, I can really just be me and she loves me for it.


    Awww....that is super sweet!
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
    To look at: it's eclectic, but I almost always go for the tall, dark, and handsome types.

    To actually date? I'm always attracted to a brain. If he's good looking, that's great. But if he's very intelligent and very confident without being an arrogant jerk-- I'm done for.
  • iishnova
    iishnova Posts: 259 Member
    Lessee...The past few guys I've been with have been average height and really skinny. Not my ideal type!

    Someone taller than me (easy because I'm 5'3"), clean shaven (I'm not big on body hair or facial hair), good personality, sense of romance, compatible sense of humor, brunette, doesn't smoke (this is a big one. I'm allergic), nice eyes (I don't care what color), family man, someone who takes care of themselves (physically and financially and I bunch of other "ally"s), and intelligent.

    wow maybe my list is too long and that's why I'm single....

    The most important trait and the only one I can't sacrifice is that he accepts me for who I am and all of my baggage with open arms and a loving heart. Everything else is just bonus for my vanity.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    Tallish, thinnish, dark brown hair and eyes, preppy, intelligent and well educated. Think David Tennant. Or my husband.
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    This has always been a hard topic for me. I do not have just one type. I say that I can find the beauty in many woman. I guess the fact that I am not shallow kinda plays a roll. There are things I may find in one woman that makes her hot and find something else in another woman that makes her gorgeous.

    Im attracted to:

    Short woman
    Tall woman
    Curvy woman
    Thin woman
    REdheads
    Blondes
    Curly black hair
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    Eyes
    Smart woman

    But all these woman have to have one thing....They have to be smart and Confident! Other wise its all a waste.
  • Phrak
    Phrak Posts: 353 Member
    I myself am tall so I like tall women, straining my neck to look at them is no fun.
    Love them athletic and fit girls.
    Edgeiness; tattoos, hair styles etc.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    Slim, well trained with muscle showing (esp ab area), tanned, blonde with a shapely bum and narrow waist and busty up top. In terms of height, as long as they are shorter than me, it doesn't matter.
  • xo_morgan
    xo_morgan Posts: 298
    I'm not too picky if they know how to make me laugh then i can usually get along with them just fine. I dont like to date short guys, so i guess my type is tall.
    Now if i had to name my dream guy he would be dark skinned,dreads are a plus :smooched:, funny, educated, & adventurous, The last few were bums that never wanted to leave the house! so i definitely would need someone who is active.
  • no type, just gotta have a nice smile. Well great legs and butt don't hurt!
  • whiplashpcw
    whiplashpcw Posts: 125 Member
    WOO HOO Dork love :)
    My type as always been tall stocky dorks. The sweeter and more shy they are the better. Not to say I have not been caught up in the "duche" factor but hey we all make mistakes right. My type has never been preppy princess guys either. Made that mistake once!
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    Pale with tattoos.
  • Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. Many ethnicities and hair colours. I'm extremely partial to women with hair at least long enough to pony tail but on rare occassions shorter is Ok too.

    Self confident is more my type than anything.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    I have always went with the taller bigger men, a little rough around the edges but they are now all ex's so I guess that wasnt my type !

    However lately I have found someone who totally rocks my world in every way. I think I was looking in all the wrong places and at all the wrong traits..I found the love of my life.

    Oh and a pulse is required !
  • JGT2004
    JGT2004 Posts: 231 Member
    My type is kind of fluid. I have dated the cowboy, the redneck, the music junky, the tech geek. The only things that stay the same are:

    1) Taller than me - shouldn't be too hard as I'm 5'6" but you'd be suprised.
    2) Good work ethic - if you can't hold a job, I don't want to be your sugar momma.
    3) Likes to play hard but is fiscally responsible - I like to get out and do things like roller blading, concerts, hiking, and want to enjoy the simply things in life. I also want to buy things like a house, a motorcycle, and would love a new car but refuse to go into debt to make those things happen. You have to find balance.
  • robbiefreeland
    robbiefreeland Posts: 50 Member
    I have always went with the taller bigger men, a little rough around the edges but they are now all ex's so I guess that wasnt my type !

    However lately I have found someone who totally rocks my world in every way. I think I was looking in all the wrong places and at all the wrong traits..I found the love of my life.

    Oh and a pulse is required !

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ The amazing woman that wrote this is Absolutely MY Type. The woman of my lifelong dreams. I never really understood the concept of soulmates until I met her!!
  • iCACTUS
    iCACTUS Posts: 113
    My only condition for dating anyone is that they be a good person. That's it. I have found my Princess Charming. <3
  • dancefloordevil
    dancefloordevil Posts: 106 Member
    I have always went with the taller bigger men, a little rough around the edges but they are now all ex's so I guess that wasnt my type !

    However lately I have found someone who totally rocks my world in every way. I think I was looking in all the wrong places and at all the wrong traits..I found the love of my life.

    Oh and a pulse is required !

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ The amazing woman that wrote this is Absolutely MY Type. The woman of my lifelong dreams. I never really understood the concept of soulmates until I met her!!



    You mushy quishy love birds :heart:
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