Advice, post pregnancy, 9 months on . . . any mommys out the

Hi, im fairly new to this website and counting calories..:ohwell:

Im 23 5'2 and after giving birth 9 months ago im now 126lbs, before pregnancy i was 120lbs

At 38 weeks pregnant i was around 150lbs and a week after giving birth i was at 120lbs, but then went up to 126lbs which is where i have remained for the last 7 months!

My diet isnt fantastic and me and my partner ust to eat alot of rubbish and sweets.

The last couple of months or so i have increased exercise and cut out some of the rubbish, i know from looking at a picture of my body a week after birth that i look better now - stomach is smaller and i think my arms are more muscler (from picking up baby,car seat etc)
So why do i weigh more? I have read maybe i should be eating more but i struggle to eat the right things, food doesnt bother me and i find it alot of effort to think of meal plans, since my daughter has started eating i have started eating breakfast everyday which i never ust to also having lunch and tea, trying to eat more healthy just cant understand why i cant loose any weight!

Also i think my belly looks okay when im standing (just a little wider than id like to be) but when i sit down i feel it buldges and looks horrid

Sorry if this is a total rant and doesnt make much sense but would like some advice... and other mommys out there??x

Oh this website says if i want to loose half a lb a week i need to eat 1350calories and do 3 30 min exercise a week.
If i wanted to loose a lb a week i need to eat 1200calories, i just couldnt stick to that - well prob could if i cut out the rubbish
Help=[

Replies

  • sarajo16
    sarajo16 Posts: 142 Member
    At 126lbs I would be concentrating on toning and not loosing weight. I would set MFP to 1/2 lbs and enjoy the 1350 cals at a min. Get some light weights and a dvd or try Pilates. Add a little bit of cardio if you are really determined to lose the 6lbs but I think 126lbs is a healthy weight. If you are eating 1350 make sure to eat back any calories from your exercise for energy for the body.
  • Natalie182
    Natalie182 Posts: 61 Member
    Thank you for your reply =]
    Im not desperate to loose weight, your right i should probably tone, would like my belly to not be as flabby and my hips to be smaller though.
    I think its just i dont seem to have changed in 7 months, i should just stop weighing myself and get toning =] x
  • sarajo16
    sarajo16 Posts: 142 Member
    After I had my baby I got really serious about Pilates. When it is done correctly you'll notices a huge change in your body. I put on 4 stone and lost it all and I'm smaller now and more toned that I was before my baby. The tummy is the hardest thing to work on and you can't just focus on that so you'll need a bit of cardio too. Try Jillian Michaels dvd, anyone of them! They are super for toning.
  • cartea01
    cartea01 Posts: 156 Member
    Regarding your hips, understand that with pregnancy, the bones of your pelvis will have "opened up" in preparation for a natural delivery (whether you had one or not). Your pelvis stays a different shape indefinitely so even if you were the same prepregnancy weight you might still find your hips a little bigger than before.