Should I or should I not

nazashi
nazashi Posts: 93 Member
edited December 16 in Motivation and Support
Hi all, I have a reunion with my old friends mainly from uni days planned for next weekend..I was really looking forward to see them since we've lost touch for quite some time. However at the mall today, I just realised that I look really terrible; I look older than my age, 40 pounds heavier than uni days and none of the clothes that I tried on did any good..I'm usually not this vain but the thought of them seeing me so changed really makes me ashamed..What do you guys think? Will I have fun seeing them or will it just make me miserable?

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  • sweettthings
    sweettthings Posts: 157 Member
    In my experience, you may feel awkward for a moment or two, until you notice everyone else looks different than they used to also.

    Go and have fun.
  • mcdebbie
    mcdebbie Posts: 940 Member
    How long has it been since you've seen them? 10 years, 20? You should realize that many of them have probably changed also. I did not even recognize most of the males at my 20 year high school reunion, some of them had finally shot up and some had lost all their hair. I say go and have fun!
  • nazashi
    nazashi Posts: 93 Member
    Thanks guys! What the heck, I'll go and see what happens!!
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