Need some good vibes

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I'm new and looking for some strong supportive vibes from folks who "get it" when it comes to the struggle of trying to get fit while caring for a family. Struggling not to compare myself to "me twenty years ago" (my user name is a nod to that). Just looking forward to learning more about how you're all approaching and achieving your goals and hoping to find a place to reset/recover when I've faced with a pizza or birthday cake in the house.