Has your "type" (physical preferences regarding a mate) chan

Atarahh
Atarahh Posts: 485 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
I feel really bad about this, but the type of man I desire physically has changed now that I am more committed to a healthier lifestyle. Like, I want someone who takes care of themselves too, not some couch potato kind of guy. This may even seem bad, but I am not as drawn to heavier men as I used to be. I want someone who will work out with me and stuff like that. Also, I refuse to settle. I don't think that I am better than anyone, but I do know my worth and value. I think back then I settled more because my self-esteem was low. I always knew I was a beautiful woman though.


Looking for everyone's thoughts.

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  • Atarahh
    Atarahh Posts: 485 Member
    anyoneE??
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    Honestly, I was a chubby chaser when I was bigger and I'm still a chubby chaser when I'm smaller. What really annoys me is when people attribute my tastes to me having "low self esteem" when I'm thinner, but not questioned when I'm larger.

    So, what, being attracted to larger people mean's there's something wrong with me?

    Psh, I just know what I like. And that involves lots of cuddling.
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