I need to vent....

Kidvicious28

Ugh. I need to vent. :mad: Whenever I'm upset, I always find food and shovel it into my mouth. So, instead I'm going to vent to you guys and NOT stuff my face....I hope no one minds.

I just had a crappy night at work. My boss does not like me for some reason. Well,lets be honest, he doesn't like a lot of ppl (he either really likes you or he down right hates you). He's just an all around mean person to me.
... I just want to add how incredibly disgusting he is. He's greasy, smelly, missing teeth, always has horrible breath and I would guess almost 400 lbs. No exaggerations. He's a miserable person that loves to make others miserable. I try sooooo hard to be the better person and just ignore him, but after awhile it just gets to me. :explode:
I'm a server. So, we aren't on the clock that long...maybe 3-5 hrs. It's table after table constantly tho. I was taking a minute break (literally) in between my tables to shove some peanuts in my mouth because I was starving. I eat 5 meals a day and I like having them about every 3ish hours, so I saw no harm in popping a few peanuts in my mouth...it's not like no one else ever eats. BUT of course, he FLIPPED out on me and told me to get my butt working and to stop fooling around. Apparently eating means fooling around.
Then, the entire night he kept making smart *kitten* remarks to me. :mad: I'm so sick of it. He does it to several other ppl. The other managers even KNOW he's like that..they just ignore him. No one does anything about it. I've tried going to the other managers, but nothing gets done. The mean manager just lies and makes me the bad guy...and of course there's never any result.

I'm just so angry and frustrated right now. I want to scream.

Please help me not eat junk food bc I really really want yummy delicious goodies to make me feel better. :ohwell:

arewethereyet

Ok........so lets break this down...............the nasty smelly gross guy is making you want nasty smelly gross food??

NO...............

You will be happy and smile:happy: and do some exercise

because you want to be the opposite of HIM!!

here and we can dance together

elle77

Stay strong!!! Maybe go for a walk to get rid of the frustration!? When I'm upset I put on my music loud & walk it out! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Kidvicious28

haha :laugh: you literally just made me laugh out loud. You're right. I don't want to be anything like him, at all. I'll just be lowering myself to his level and I know I'm better than that. I'm not gonna do it. I'm gonna go for a walk instead

mszSHOGAN

DON'T....I REPEAT DON'T LET HIM HINDER YOUR PROGRESS! :mad:

If you fall off the wagon your gonna be mad, and if its because of him your gonna be even madder!

I have come to the conclusion that no matter where I work there will ALWAYS be that one person who is just a complete meanie. If the other management know how he is then they shouldn't consider him reliable if he ever tries to get you in trouble. Just co-exist and collect your money - bottom line!

Oh yea......AND DON'T EAT ANY GARBAGE!!!!! It'll only make you feel WORSE!

arewethereyet

haha :laugh: you literally just made me laugh out loud. You're right. I don't want to be anything like him, at all. I'll just be lowering myself to his level and I know I'm better than that. I'm not gonna do it. I'm gonna go for a walk instead

WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:devil: take THAT you mean ol stinky man.........you can NOT control my feelings

arewethereyet

one more and I am going to bed

this one has GOT to make you laugh!!

monetcat2000

Don't get mad, get even. Document his comments and contact the Dept of Labor for guidence. Managaers are a dime a dozen. You have the right to a non-hostile work environment.

AshBear

I understand exactly how u feel. I also work at a restaurant as a server and have ridiculous managers!!! They make me so mad and after work I used to binge on food because I was so upset and pissed at the same time!! But if u do then he wins!!!!! so don't let him win!!!! Binge on romaine! lol....or exercise!

Serendipidy

wow im impressed with you servers !!! I could never work around food whilst trying to lose weight the customers would be complaining half their food was missing lol

Darling the man so obviously has the hots for you :sick: just let him down gently lol

Kidvicious28

Yea serving can def be pretty stressful...and then nasty managers up ur butt all night...not a pretty sight.

I agree with you guys. I'm not going to let one person ruin all that I've worked for...esp not him. He's a big piece of poo.

Tomorrow I'm not going to let him bother me. I'm going to keep my distance and if he does say something I'm just going to smile and keep on working. I'm going to kill him with kindness...it'll just piss him off even more.

No more angry eating!

kimss

goood for you..... take monetcat's advice keep documenting and call them, it can't hurt to find out if you have any recourse for an as* of a manager. but for tonight, I'm glad you made it past your binge.

hurleycutie142

ya go for a walk... dont do what i did... when i was serving my manager would make me get his food caue he was to lazy and he said something like thats right thats what you women are good for serving men... and well instead of walking away his food ended up on his head... and i walked out... which i lost in the long run cause i was broke for awhile... just chalk it up... to be totally blunt he probably hasnt gotten laid in years... so think of that itll make u feel better... he is the one probably living in his mothers basement watching porn...