Why lead a woman on?
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Okay... I'm okay with that...
So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.
What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??
Don't try to figure people out, just move on.
^^ This has been one of the best lessons I've learned the past year. You will never make sense out of other people's senseless actions, so don't bother trying.0 -
sex... or boredom.0
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Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......
Agreed or how they still keep in contact with you just to keep you interested when it's nothing more then attention they crave.
As I read my post again I can be considering a "leader"0 -
Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......
Agreed or how they still keep in contact with you just to keep you interested when it's nothing more then attention they crave.
As I read my post again I can be considering a "leader"
Are you suggesting that he might think that I am the one leading him on?0 -
So, it kind of goes liek this. Guy kinda likes girl, but not a ton. Can't really see "being" with her, but could see a hook up happen. So, he pursues it a little. He goes to a place, then it doesn't happen. Then, he starts to push it a little further, and then just kinda says, "Ah, F*** it." But, then a week or two goes by, and he gets horny, and starts thinking about her, so then he might make a call and see what's up. But, then it's like, "Oh yeah, lets do something weekend after next"....but, in his mind, he was hoping you'd say, I'll just come over now, F*** your brains out, and then leave immediately. How does that sound. But, because it doesn't really happen that way, he just blows it off.
Does that make sense?0 -
So, it kind of goes liek this. Guy kinda likes girl, but not a ton. Can't really see "being" with her, but could see a hook up happen. So, he pursues it a little. He goes to a place, then it doesn't happen. Then, he starts to push it a little further, and then just kinda says, "Ah, F*** it." But, then a week or two goes by, and he gets horny, and starts thinking about her, so then he might make a call and see what's up. But, then it's like, "Oh yeah, lets do something weekend after next"....but, in his mind, he was hoping you'd say, I'll just come over now, F*** your brains out, and then leave immediately. How does that sound. But, because it doesn't really happen that way, he just blows it off.
Does that make sense?
That was kind of amusing actually... but no, it wasn't like that. :laugh:0 -
So, it kind of goes liek this. Guy kinda likes girl, but not a ton. Can't really see "being" with her, but could see a hook up happen. So, he pursues it a little. He goes to a place, then it doesn't happen. Then, he starts to push it a little further, and then just kinda says, "Ah, F*** it." But, then a week or two goes by, and he gets horny, and starts thinking about her, so then he might make a call and see what's up. But, then it's like, "Oh yeah, lets do something weekend after next"....but, in his mind, he was hoping you'd say, I'll just come over now, F*** your brains out, and then leave immediately. How does that sound. But, because it doesn't really happen that way, he just blows it off.
Does that make sense?
That makes perfect sense, and Ive totally been there.0 -
Because we can.....and some guys think that they are gods gift to ALL women.0
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Because we can.....and some guys think that they are gods gift to ALL women.
well not ALL.... I mean, I dont like some chicks.0 -
Actually, it was more like. Hey, let's screw around on our SO's. No I'm not really into that, but I'll go dump this guy so I don't have to feel guilty. Ok, I'm ready... oh wait... now you are going to marry her... fine, I'll leave you alone. Then months go by.
Hey! How you doin'? Oh you and that chick broke up? Well why don't you call me sometime. You will? Awesome!
... and I wait.... and wait... and wait...0 -
Actually, it was more like. Hey, let's screw around on our SO's. No I'm not really into that, but I'll go dump this guy so I don't have to feel guilty. Ok, I'm ready... oh wait... now you are going to marry her... fine, I'll leave you alone. Then months go by.
Hey! How you doin'? Oh you and that chick broke up? Well why don't you call me sometime. You will? Awesome!
... and I wait.... and wait... and wait...
totally your fault.
you should have called him or ran into him or something.
obviously after time has passed, hes not thinking about you....
I get distracted all the time.. next thing i know, bamn a month has gone by and I didnt call some chick or somethign.. if they called me I totally would have tried to do something by then.0 -
Okay... I'm okay with that...
So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.
What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??
men get lonely too...they like to have back ups, booty calls, someone to text or talk to while bored. I think its human nature..both sexes do it. And just becuase someone doesnt "commit" to a peson doesnt mean they dont "give a donkeys *kitten*" (or whatever the original quote was)... Its all good!0 -
A lot of times "he's leading me on" is another way of saying "he's living his life the way he wants to, and I've mistakenly put him in charge of my life instead of taking the same approach"
If other people are in charge of your happiness, you'll always be disappointed because people do what's best for THEM, not what's best for YOU
well said!0 -
Okay... I'm okay with that...
So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.
What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??
men get lonely too...they like to have back ups, booty calls, someone to text or talk to while bored. I think its human nature..both sexes do it. And just becuase someone doesnt "commit" to a peson doesnt mean they dont "give a donkeys *kitten*" (or whatever the original quote was)... Its all good!
100% correct.0 -
Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......
I agree with this 100% and im female!0 -
All about the booty call!!! Nothing personal.0
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Actually, it was more like. Hey, let's screw around on our SO's. No I'm not really into that, but I'll go dump this guy so I don't have to feel guilty. Ok, I'm ready... oh wait... now you are going to marry her... fine, I'll leave you alone. Then months go by.
Hey! How you doin'? Oh you and that chick broke up? Well why don't you call me sometime. You will? Awesome!
... and I wait.... and wait... and wait...
totally your fault.
you should have called him or ran into him or something.
obviously after time has passed, hes not thinking about you....
I get distracted all the time.. next thing i know, bamn a month has gone by and I didnt call some chick or somethign.. if they called me I totally would have tried to do something by then.
Well it's only been a week... the problem is I don't have his phone # anymore. I deleted it when he said he was going to marry that chick! He accepted an FB request over the weekend and I have his email. You think I should just send him a message?0 -
Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......
^^^^^ This0 -
Actually, it was more like. Hey, let's screw around on our SO's. No I'm not really into that, but I'll go dump this guy so I don't have to feel guilty. Ok, I'm ready... oh wait... now you are going to marry her... fine, I'll leave you alone. Then months go by.
Hey! How you doin'? Oh you and that chick broke up? Well why don't you call me sometime. You will? Awesome!
... and I wait.... and wait... and wait...
totally your fault.
you should have called him or ran into him or something.
obviously after time has passed, hes not thinking about you....
I get distracted all the time.. next thing i know, bamn a month has gone by and I didnt call some chick or somethign.. if they called me I totally would have tried to do something by then.
Well it's only been a week... the problem is I don't have his phone # anymore. I deleted it when he said he was going to marry that chick! He accepted an FB request over the weekend and I have his email. You think I should just send him a message?
I would never trust my own advice on the internet.
but yes.0 -
Ive never been lead on.
I know more about the "game" then most dudes.
Though.... I have done a lot of leading on... For yes like the guys say... sex. Lol.
Thats just me tho...0
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