ladies: do you prefer a man with a nice upper body or lower

martin_chicago
martin_chicago Posts: 263 Member
edited December 17 in Chit-Chat
i have a big lower body and upper body kinda building it up
rant
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  • mustgetmuscles1
    mustgetmuscles1 Posts: 3,346 Member
    Thats a good problem to have. So many guys build the upper and neglect the legs. I cant wait to hear the replies myself.
  • AmerTunsi
    AmerTunsi Posts: 655 Member
    Errr.. both have important bits. :X But if I had to choose and keeping this clean ...I'd say upper body from the "V" up! Nothing better than to be held by a strong man or feel tiny in his.
  • Anomalia
    Anomalia Posts: 506 Member
    Errr.. both have important bits. :X But if I had to choose and keeping this clean ...I'd say upper body from the "V" up! Nothing better than to be held by a strong man or feel tiny in his.

    Exactly
  • shyandemily
    shyandemily Posts: 71 Member
    Can't choose. You just can't have one w/o the other.
  • martin_chicago
    martin_chicago Posts: 263 Member
    a lot of guys have only one
    thank god its not me
    Can't choose. You just can't have one w/o the other.
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
    Errr.. both have important bits. :X But if I had to choose and keeping this clean ...I'd say upper body from the "V" up! Nothing better than to be held by a strong man or feel tiny in his.

    Exactly

    yup!
  • kayleesays
    kayleesays Posts: 564 Member
    I like men with nice backs. So, mostly upper. I have no prob with a man with chicken legs (don't ever tell my boyfriend I call them chicken legs).
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    i have a big lower body and upper body kinda building it up
    rant
    Do you have a brother or cousin named Dannylives?
  • logicandlove
    logicandlove Posts: 191 Member
    I don't really care how big a guy is, as long as he's proportionate. You can have lean but not necessarily bulky muscles — like a runner, for example — or have a bigger, more muscular physique, but make sure everything is balanced. I'm not attracted to guys who have giant upper bodies and no legs, or vice versa. It just looks...off.
  • Nicola0000
    Nicola0000 Posts: 531 Member
    Errr.. both have important bits. :X But if I had to choose and keeping this clean ...I'd say upper body from the "V" up! Nothing better than to be held by a strong man or feel tiny in his.

    Exactly

    yup!

    Agree. Would like to feel protected!
  • Elen_Sia
    Elen_Sia Posts: 638 Member
    I dunno. When I see muscular forearms I forget to look everywhere else.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    I always wondered why woman identify a man with big arms and shoulders with being able to protect them. I can kick someone's *kitten* much easier than I can punch someone out. But perhaps I'm being biased since my lower body is much stronger and thicker than my upper body.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    i have a big lower body and upper body kinda building it up
    rant
    Do you have a brother or cousin named Dannylives?
    Lol!!!
  • sebbysmommy
    sebbysmommy Posts: 63 Member
    The abs. Oh the abs :love:
  • Toddrific
    Toddrific Posts: 1,114 Member
    Quite a few women at my job seem to love nice calves...
  • Kymmu
    Kymmu Posts: 1,650 Member
    A lean, strong, well muscled body -like a male gymnast or dancer is pretty hard to beat for me. They are just about perfect.
    It's a whole body thing in my opinion one or the other is disproportionate.....
    A fantastic personality is crucial.....Everyone needs to develop that!
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    I always wondered why woman identify a man with big arms and shoulders with being able to protect them. I can kick someone's *kitten* much easier than I can punch someone out. But perhaps I'm being biased since my lower body is much stronger and thicker than my upper body.
    i don't know i can punch very hard very very hard..following bruce lee's footsteps :P
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    Depends what you mean by "nice"
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    A well proportioned, fit man will always get noticed, but if he opens his mouth and is a jackhole, then he can just keep on moving.
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    I always wondered why woman identify a man with big arms and shoulders with being able to protect them. I can kick someone's *kitten* much easier than I can punch someone out. But perhaps I'm being biased since my lower body is much stronger and thicker than my upper body.
    Because when it comes to protection not everyone thinks, I'm gonna kick him so hard!...I'd rather have a guy with big arms and a strong chest than a guy that looks like a triangle.
  • Toddrific
    Toddrific Posts: 1,114 Member
    I always wondered why woman identify a man with big arms and shoulders with being able to protect them. I can kick someone's *kitten* much easier than I can punch someone out. But perhaps I'm being biased since my lower body is much stronger and thicker than my upper body.
    Because when it comes to protection not everyone thinks, I'm gonna kick him so hard!...I'd rather have a guy with big arms and a strong chest than a guy that looks like a triangle.
    Meh, i thought women would enjoy tripods!
  • Sabine321
    Sabine321 Posts: 55 Member
    Nice proportions. Muscles, but not like Rambo and a nice bottom. And absolutely no "table muscle" (The beer belly holding up the table)."
  • the_journeyman
    the_journeyman Posts: 1,877 Member
    I'm in the same boat. Good, defined and really strong legs. I play/coach soccer & do and have done a lot of mountain biking. However, I'm not as defined shaped in my upper body. Gotta work on that.

    JM
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    I'm struggling to keep this clean, lol.

    I'm a big fan of a mans back, so I'm going with upper. I like strong arms and a muscular back.
  • SuzieZimm
    SuzieZimm Posts: 238 Member
    I agree that one doesn't realllllly go without the other...but i DO usually notice and appreciate nice shapely legs on a man
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    I just want my husband to be healthy, to love me unconditionally and not fall into the same category of the male-egotistical pigs out there that have this sick-demented misconception of women needing to be like a trashy Victoria Secret model.... Them girls really do need to pound down a whole cheesecake if you ask me...
  • Nekhet
    Nekhet Posts: 380
    I know women at work that watch football just to stare at guys butt's...they know nothing about the game and don't care...just like to look I guess.
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    I know women at work that watch football just to stare at guys butt's...they know nothing about the game and don't care...just like to look I guess.

    That wouldnt be me Nekhet - I love me a good football game and not for the 'tight ends'....
  • Tabsta
    Tabsta Posts: 28
    Surely it has to be a full body look?! .. working in this environment i see so many people work their upper body and ignore the lower, great in jeans/joggers with shirt off etc, but in shorts they look ridiculous (in my opinion)... depends on the sport too i guess, but in my humble opinion there has to be a balance/equality of upper and lower for that complete fitness look !! ... i know we all have our 'favourite bits' , my other half loves my obliques! dunno..ask her?! lol .. take a leaf from Athletes, Gymnasts or Boxers for the way you should look :o)
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    You know... the total package is always nice. But I seriously have a thing for abs and pecks. A nice firm torso drives me crazy!!
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