has anyone tried to stop you from losing weight?

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  • econut2000
    econut2000 Posts: 395 Member
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    My fiance is a chef. He eats one, maybe 2 meals a day which are extremely high in fat/cals/sodium and he tries to feed me these same foods. I honestly gained 65lbs since I met him (most of it is due to health issues but his cooking sure as hell didn't help!). I'm one of those people who eats all day long! I can't go more than 2-3 hours without eating and if food is put in front of me, I eat it. For the longest time, I couldn't get him to understand this! He would literally serve me 6 full meals on a freakin platter!!! I finally convinced him that for my health I couldn't have him keep doing this. It's taken a very long time and a lot of fights but it has finally, for the most part, sunk in! He made me oatmeal the other morning that clocked in at a whopping 600 cals (he made me a cup and a half instead of the usual 1/2-3/4 c and added a bunch of dried fruit!) but at least it was oatmeal and not fried eggs, bacon and sausage!

    He shows his affection through food so it's tough for him when I don't want to eat something he's made or if I want him to make something in a different way.
  • toothfairybuttkicker
    toothfairybuttkicker Posts: 12 Member
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    i'm surrounded by it daily. friends that are 'supportive' yet are snuffling chocolate around me like its going out of fashion. My husband who pretends to be supportive but resents when i need me time to exercise or rest.

    The worst are my mom and pops. My Mom has no idea about eating clean but boasts shes lost a stone by cutting out bread and potatoes (yet friday she took us for a meal out and ate a bowl of cheesy bacon fries nad fish and chips)

    My pops is a feeder. whenever he comes to my house to child mind ne brings Bags of food. he sends me off to work with a packed lunch that feeds 3 of us in work!!!

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