Comfortable in my own skin...

TrophyWifeSass
TrophyWifeSass Posts: 490 Member
edited December 2024 in Success Stories
I debated even posting this, but what the heck, only live once. A little background. I'm 42 years old and I have 5 children, 4 of them in 4 years and 3 months, plenty of women have done this. No big deal, but we all know the wear and tear that can happen to a woman's body. I let myself go and was being super Mom, doing everything for everybody. I got fat. I did that, not the kids, not my lifestyle, just me. I disliked myself, I was uncomfortable because of my size, nothing fit, I couldn't keep up with my kids, I didn't want my husband to see me naked, the list goes on. Life was passing me by and it had more to do with how I felt than anything else. I woke up, I worked my *kitten* off, everyday. I never gave up. I learned how to run and I love lifting heavy. But the absolute best thing about all of this is I have learned to love myself. I will never see the dream body I thought I was working toward but I see something better. I see a woman with self worth. I have stretch marks, and a small pooch and scars, but I feel like I look fantastic. Oh, I still have those days where I wish I could call a pajama day and not leave the house, I wouldn't be human if I didn't have those. I guess what I am trying to say is love yourself, I was scared as heck to post that pic as my profile pic, but I did it. There is hope for every single one of you. You just have to want it bad enough. So here I am, in my undies, hoping beyond hope that I can inspire one person to keep going, don't settle, keep pushing yourself. Age, life, how many kids, whatever your cross is, none of that can keep you from living the life you so richly deserve.

Laurie

PS I did all this eating like a champ. 1700-2500 a day.:smile:
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  • morgansmom02
    morgansmom02 Posts: 1,131 Member
    Love this! You look great!!
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    I <3 you!!!!
  • SimplyShanRunning
    SimplyShanRunning Posts: 885 Member
    :heart:

    You look amazing and should be damn proud of it !
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    I love you
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    You're smokin hot and have worked your butt off. I :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: you!
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    What an awesome job! And you look great!
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    This is what MFP is all about. Well done, brave lady. *five thong salute* <==Even I am not sure what that would actually entail.
  • Faintgreeneyes
    Faintgreeneyes Posts: 729 Member
    Laurie- you are amazing! Thank you for posting this, you are an inspiration!
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    You are awesome!!! :drinker:
  • revcat08
    revcat08 Posts: 9
    Wow! Good for you!
  • sandiki
    sandiki Posts: 454
    I love you! SN
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    You inspire me every day - with your charm and your wit, with your will and your drive and your energy. Not to mention that rockin' bod!

    Thanks for being here for all of us!
  • w_i_n_d_y
    w_i_n_d_y Posts: 216 Member
    You look fantastic!
  • I Love This...I Can So Relate and I Am Finally On The Road Of Getting As U Say Comfortable With Me!! I still have those days when nothing fits right and I want to just sit around in pjs also,but I am realizing I am the only one who can do anything about it!! I take it one day and pound at a time. Thanks for having the courage to post this!!!:smile: And U Look Great...Keep Up The Great Work!!
  • You are truly inspirational. :flowerforyou: Thank you.
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    PS I did all this eating like a champ. 1700-2500 a day.:smile:
    Yay thank you on behalf of your body for doing it right. So many people think they have to eat so little to loose weight and its simply not true.
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    You are absolutely one of my MFP heroes, Laurie, and I'm not just paid to say that. You show a remarkable amount of dedication and I can't help but admire you and seek to emulate that in my own life. Here's farting glitter and sliding down rainbow poo all over you for this NSV (non-scale victory)!
  • downsizinghoss
    downsizinghoss Posts: 1,035 Member
    I will never see the dream body I thought I was working toward but I see something better.

    Uh, if that is you in the hot profile pic....

    WTF were you aiming for?!?!
  • _Christine_
    _Christine_ Posts: 1,385 Member
    Thank you! *tear*
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    AWESOME...you're ONE HOT MOMMA!!! :smile:
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    :heart:
  • RumOne
    RumOne Posts: 266 Member
    :flowerforyou: That's The Spoon That Stirs the Pot that I know and LOVE. You have worked so hard and you inspire me everyday. And you are absolutely Right! Every "Mom" needs to love herself to be the comfortable in her own skin. I am working on that and that pic that you were so scared to post is proof that it can be done, if you want it bad enough.

    That pic is not one of a Mom in her undies, It is of a woman that has won the ultimate goal.:drinker:

    THANK YOU!
  • amielizabeth1
    amielizabeth1 Posts: 57 Member
    You should be so proud! Feeling comfortable in your own skin is half the battle!
  • tamerkins2
    tamerkins2 Posts: 212
    I love this!! I love you and your positive (and of course snarky!) attitude!!
  • njmp
    njmp Posts: 277 Member
    Holy moly! You look fantastic, and your story is awesome! Good for you for having the courage to post your pic...you will absolutely inspire many, including me! Congrats again:flowerforyou:
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,552 Member
    Thanks for the motivation and inspiration. You look fantastic!!!!!!
  • _GlaDOS_
    _GlaDOS_ Posts: 1,520 Member
    Simply amazing. :heart:
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,012 Member
    You have definitely been an inspiration to me my beautiful friend!!! Never in my life did I think I would feel comfortable in posting a picture of my abs or a picture of my side profile, yet here I am ... a 39 year old mother of two, stretch marks and all ... 50lbs gone and 3 sizes down.

    Love you!!! :heart:
  • MandaJean83
    MandaJean83 Posts: 675 Member
    I love your attitude! SO confident. And I think you look gorgeous and sexy in your profile photo! Hats off to you!!!
  • aliciagetshealthy
    aliciagetshealthy Posts: 946 Member
    You're an awesome friend, and such an inspiration to all who know you! Much love, Laurie xoxoxo

    p.s. YOU ROCK THAT THONG!
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