Pin Up Girls!!!!
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Sounds like he does like that type!!!! But doesn't want you to look like that because he's insecure!!!! And then other guys might look at you more!!! (I'm sure they already do, but you know what I mean!!!)0
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10-15 pictures is really nothing to be worried about. A entire hard drive of hard core bestiality porn? That I'd be worried about.
Crap, maybe I should take mine and throw it on the external?0 -
10-15 pictures is really nothing to be worried about. A entire hard drive of hard core bestiality porn? That I'd be worried about.
THIS.
My husband has some porn on his hard drive, some are really skinny girls, some are really big. But his preferred taste is bigger girls. I was worried for a long time that if I lost weight he wouldn't find me attractive anymore, but he is supportive, because he tells me flat out he would rather I like the way I look, because that will make me more confident (and he find confidence sexier than anything), than for me to stay the way I am for him. And then I realized it was silly for me to be scared at all.
Long story short, you are being insecure. And I don't mean that in a bad way. But if he tells you he loves you the way you are, just because he is supportive (and has porn) doesn't mean he is lying. It's because he loves you, and wants you to be happy with yourself. And either you trust that, or you don't.
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Wow, he sounds like a douche. He shouldn't be looking at other women and while it's "sweet" that he tells you he likes you the way you are, he isn't supportive of you.
NOT this
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Everyone likes to look at sexy photos. He's dating you, not a model or stick-thin woman.
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Everyone looks...seems like he like you, if it bothers you talk with him...Oh BTW I disagree with your "I'll never be a pin-up" comment...just saying0 -
Hahaha the funniest thing I've herd all day!!!!10-15 pictures is really nothing to be worried about. A entire hard drive of hard core bestiality porn? That I'd be worried about.
Totally agree! I actually did LOL.0 -
Wow, he sounds like a douche. He shouldn't be looking at other women and while it's "sweet" that he tells you he likes you the way you are, he isn't supportive of you.
Why is he a douche? I think its prefectly natural for a guy to look at another woman..
I mean I am a woman and I look at other guys (when I am in a realtionship) so does that make me a douche too?
To the OP.. I wouldnt worry too much about it.. I mean he has asked you to marry him so he obviously loves you.0 -
Wow, he sounds like a douche. He shouldn't be looking at other women and while it's "sweet" that he tells you he likes you the way you are, he isn't supportive of you.
Sweet mother of...
PLEASE don't listen to this person! Men look at women. We all do. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. If every guy who looked at a playboy is a douche you ladies are just S.O.L. when it comes to finding a good man.
Geez some people...0 -
Men like bewbies. Men look at bewbies. Even if a man tells you he doesn't, he still is. Whether those bewbies are on a super thin model or a voluptuous lady, they are still there and he will still look. This is normal male behavior. He loves you, and that's what is most important.
^^ THIS!
Simply put... EVERYBODY enjoys looking at various members of the opposite sex (or for some, members of the same sex... or both lol).
It's like the old joke:
50% of the men in the world *kitten*. The other 50% lie about it. Which 50% are you?0 -
Wow, he sounds like a douche. He shouldn't be looking at other women and while it's "sweet" that he tells you he likes you the way you are, he isn't supportive of you.
Sweet mother of...
PLEASE don't listen to this person! Men look at women. We all do. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. If every guy who looked at a playboy is a douche you ladies are just S.O.L. when it comes to finding a good man.
Geez some people...
^^ This...
Agreed that all men look at other women and its just looking.
He may think they are attrative but it dont mean he would actually date a women with that body figure.
Plus they are just posters, you are real sweetheart.0 -
Wow, he sounds like a douche. He shouldn't be looking at other women and while it's "sweet" that he tells you he likes you the way you are, he isn't supportive of you.
Wow, don't be horrendously insecure and projecting or anything...0 -
Hahaha the funniest thing I've herd all day!!!!10-15 pictures is really nothing to be worried about. A entire hard drive of hard core bestiality porn? That I'd be worried about.
Hahaha... I saw what you did there...0 -
I agree with the poster above...he loves you for you. My hubby still has girls on his phone but he's a leg man and doesn't have the faces...so I photoshopped my own face on it and sent it back to him...lol! I'm not insecure about his love for me. It gets me motivated to get healthy for me AND for him 0
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10-15 pictures is really nothing to be worried about. A entire hard drive of hard core bestiality porn? That I'd be worried about.
Exactly.
My bf likes Sofia Vergara. I am not her. Nowhere near. I like Jon Hamm. My bf is nowhere near that, either. We all like to look at shiny things. As long as we still love what we have at home, everything is peachy!0 -
Or, here's a novel thought: Maybe he loves you for who you are inside and out, and because loves you for who you are he finds you truly beautiful. He also finds other women attractive, but he doesn't love them so you will always be more beautiful than them.0
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I think you really shouldn't put so much thought into it. Whether he likes thinner girls or thicker girls or really doesn't care, he's with you. Obviously he likes YOU. And I'm sure he'll be attracted to you after you reach your goals too!0
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My hubby says the same thing, he loves me the way I am and I don't need to change, etc. I believe him because while I'm drooling over movie stars I'm not once thinking "Gee, I wish my hubby looked like that". I love my husband the way he is (and he's a big guy 6'4" over 250lbs) and I wouldn't change him for anything but if he wanted to get fit and healthy I would support him as he is supporting me.0
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Your insecurities are causing you to focus on the wrong things in your realationship. If the biggest issue you have is a discempancy in the type of woman he likes and the pictues or posters he has, you are doing well. So many more important things than that to worry about. Give him the benefit of the doubt that he is telling the truth.0
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Wow, he sounds like a douche. He shouldn't be looking at other women and while it's "sweet" that he tells you he likes you the way you are, he isn't supportive of you.
Wow, don't be horrendously insecure and projecting or anything...
Seriously...all those photos are airbrushed anyway...who cares...he's engaged to you, he loves you, he loves your body, embrace it!0 -
Do you ever see a guy say, on tv, in a magazine or w/e and think 'wow, hes hot', even though he doesnt look like your guy.
If he didnt love you as you are then he'd be pushing you on your weightloss journey, not telling you loves you as you are.0
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