MFP Crush
WarriorMom2012
Posts: 621 Member
I know....this is an old topic but....
Admission: I have a crush on one of my friends...ok, several friends. Im thinking of a traveling MFP love fest.
Seriously, how do I tell my friend I want to have a serious relationship with them without ruining our friendship.
All real suggestions welcome....
Admission: I have a crush on one of my friends...ok, several friends. Im thinking of a traveling MFP love fest.
Seriously, how do I tell my friend I want to have a serious relationship with them without ruining our friendship.
All real suggestions welcome....
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u srs?0
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are you srs?
Are YOU serious?0 -
I used to have a relationship with one of my MFP friends. We had to start talking off of MFP and through web cam and phone first. Just say what you think and feel. If you don't ask the answer is always no. Asking is the only way to get a yes.
I think many guys appreciate when a girl knows what she wants and goes for it. Can't speak for guys, but having enough guts to ask usually gets me a date.0 -
ha ha thats cute : )0
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be safe, it's a wild place on the internets0
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is this for real?!? if it is... they'll probably see this topic you posted & there ya go0
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LOL so trueis this for real?!? if it is... they'll probably see this topic you posted & there ya go0
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I used to have a relationship with one of my MFP friends. We had to start talking off of MFP and through web cam and phone first. Just say what you think and feel. If you don't ask the answer is always no. Asking is the only way to get a yes.
I think many guys appreciate when a girl knows what she wants and goes for it. Can't speak for guys, but having enough guts to ask usually gets me a date.
Why do you assume she is talking about a "he "?
ETA - ah never mind...0 -
Its true. We talk and text but I'm kinda shy and I really like him and dont wanna risk our friendship.0
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Do you live in the same state? Then go for it...you already talk on the internetz it should break the akwardkness (hopefully)0
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I think you just did. :blushing:0
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Let him make the first move. Don't push anything though. Let it slide. Just ask if maybe he wanted to "hang out". After "hanging out" he might want to actually ask you out on a date. ; ) *winky face*0
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I think you just did. :blushing:
PAHAHAHAHAH ';D hooty hoo!0 -
But what if I lose a good friend. We live 2 States apart but we're within train distance. We've spent hours talking and I'm afraid he looks at me like a good friend but not the girl for him.0
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Life is about taking a chance.. You live once so go for it0
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i would say its not a good idea. im a cynic though. i liked this guy off here pretty intensely and well, it just isn't happening! it probably never will... and when i admitted my feelings.. he freaked out (my opinion) and it has been weird for me since then. bc of his reaction i would say i am feeling quite estranged from him as well and our "friendship" has suffered a bit, but who knows if he even noticed. im not one to push myself on people.
i would hint, but never admit... or at least do it when you're drunk so you can play it off as drunken n feelings.0 -
I've told you that I love you in a strictly platonic way. How many times do I have to tell you I don't bat for that team, but if I did you'd be my first choice?! I can't believe you took this public.0
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I've told you that I love you in a strictly platonic way. How many times do I have to tell you I don't bat for that team, but if I did you'd be my first choice?! I can't believe you took this public.
judging by your choice of foto you might be into going that way...0 -
I've told you that I love you in a strictly platonic way. How many times do I have to tell you I don't bat for that team, but if I did you'd be my first choice?! I can't believe you took this public.
judging by your choice of foto you might be into going that way...
Yes, I can see how a dog with his head up a dogs *kitten* would make me a lesbian. That's logical.0 -
try to cam with him? and try to get comfortable first. I'm very shy with a girl i like too so i know how you must be feeling.0
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Please explain how my thread regarding having a crush on someone turned into ignorant attacking and calling names. This thread is about LOVE!0
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Please explain how my thread regarding having a crush on someone turned into ignorant attacking and calling names. This thread is about LOVE!
I love you.0 -
aww0
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Get back to love, everyone. Hug each other. Now, isn't that better?
Crushes. Well, I've had one or more in the past. The ones I've kept quiet grew into regret. And if a girl was crushing on me, I'd love to know.
If I felt the same way, much happiness would be had. If I did not, then I would still want to be friends.
So it's not worth keeping it quiet. Just my two cents of course.0 -
Oh a few0
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Please explain how my thread regarding having a crush on someone turned into ignorant attacking and calling names. This thread is about LOVE!
I'm confused...
:ohwell:0 -
Please explain how my thread regarding having a crush on someone turned into ignorant attacking and calling names. This thread is about LOVE!
I'm confused...
:ohwell:
onedayillbeam and christinalove
just hug and make up. can't we all just get along?0 -
Get back to love, everyone. Hug each other. Now, isn't that better?
Crushes. Well, I've had one or more in the past. The ones I've kept quiet grew into regret. And if a girl was crushing on me, I'd love to know.
If I felt the same way, much happiness would be had. If I did not, then I would still want to be friends.
So it's not worth keeping it quiet. Just my two cents of course.
are you trying to tell me something?0 -
Just tell him.....if he's crushing on you then all is well - if not, then you know where you stand and can move along :bigsmile:0
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Get back to love, everyone. Hug each other. Now, isn't that better?
Crushes. Well, I've had one or more in the past. The ones I've kept quiet grew into regret. And if a girl was crushing on me, I'd love to know.
If I felt the same way, much happiness would be had. If I did not, then I would still want to be friends.
So it's not worth keeping it quiet. Just my two cents of course.
are you trying to tell me something?0
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