guy at a bachelorette?!?! - sorry LONGGG

ottawagirl613
ottawagirl613 Posts: 112 Member
edited December 18 in Chit-Chat
or not so long lol.. either way thoughts? male friend at a destination bachelorette party or vice versa female friend at a destination bachelor party....

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  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Not cool. Talk about a clingy boyfriend/husband to not even let the girls enjoy a girls night.
  • Schnuddelbuddel
    Schnuddelbuddel Posts: 402 Member
    depends. Is the guy the stripper? :tongue:

    If not, a guy's got no business to be at a hen party!!!! Same with girls, shouldn't be at a stag do either!
  • jcomley1
    jcomley1 Posts: 133
    unless hes a gay friend....
  • LPS1986
    LPS1986 Posts: 104
    Not cool. Talk about a clingy boyfriend/husband to not even let the girls enjoy a girls night.

    Nobody said that it was the boyfriend or husband of anyone. I mean, I am totally having my best friend at my bachelorette party. He rocks!
  • LPS1986
    LPS1986 Posts: 104
    unless hes a gay friend....

    THIS!
  • SweetNaughtyLips
    SweetNaughtyLips Posts: 374 Member
    depends. Is the guy the stripper? :tongue:

    If not, a guy's got no business to be at a hen party!!!! Same with girls, shouldn't be at a stag do either!

    ^^^ THIS

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  • MoreThanMommie
    MoreThanMommie Posts: 597 Member
    Is he a gay friend? I think that for me that changes the rules. Kind of like at a toy party, why shouldn't your gay best friend be allowed? He might like the same stuff you do...

    If not gay, then why would he even want to??

    *Edited for typo.
  • Kris0109
    Kris0109 Posts: 177 Member
    I was a best girl at my guy friend's wedding. I planned the best bachelor party ever. I say if he's important to the bride/she's important to the groom, they should be there
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    Lame.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I was a best girl at my guy friend's wedding. I planned the best bachelor party ever. I say if he's important to the bride/she's important to the groom, they should be there

    this! All of my friends are guys and Ive been to my fair share of bachelor parties.
    If its the soon to be spouse and they just want to watch over the shenanigans..... no! and then they should also skip the nuptials because the trust/control issues will get them later anyhow
  • lauramonster
    lauramonster Posts: 94
    Isn't the point of a bachelorette party to have fun with your friends? Who cares what gender those friends are.
  • Toddrific
    Toddrific Posts: 1,114 Member
    Err I went to my friends "bachelorette party" which consisted of going to a restaurant and giving her risque gifts.

    Would be awkward to go to Chippendale's though =P.
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    We had a girl in our group...5' tall and scared she would blow away in a breezee....biggest party animal ever...soo glad she came on about 4 or 5 stag do's, cause otherwise it would have been down to me to liven thing up.:glasses:

    ..the other way...down to the bride I guess:smile:
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Not enough information. Too many variables that are left up to speculation.
  • PeaceLoveVeggies
    PeaceLoveVeggies Posts: 673 Member
    unless hes a gay friend....

    This! My gay friends will definitely be at my bachelorette party <3
  • larkiedeek
    larkiedeek Posts: 203 Member
    Isn't the point of a bachelorette party to have fun with your friends? Who cares what gender those friends are.


    THIS!!!

    It's a celebaration. Not an event to go out and get laid!
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    Isn't the point of a bachelorette party to have fun with your friends? Who cares what gender those friends are.


    THIS!!!

    It's a celebration. Not an event to go out and get laid!

    Agreed, same goes for the reverse. Only a fool would go to one in hopes of getting laid. A time to sit back, with a beer or something harder... and make memories. Would you count your guy/lady friends out of a friends night out on the town? or a birthday party? Just because they are a different gender. If so, then your probably getting married for the wrong reason...
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