What's your worst crush moment? :)

hunterjumper642
hunterjumper642 Posts: 115 Member
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i started a new topic!!!! first one. :P so what is everybody's worst crush moment (by crush I mean by somebody you like but arent going out with) from your highschool/ middleschool/college years?

Mine was a couple of months ago.....REALLY hot guy and i went head over heels for him. Too bad i found out that he has a girlfriend steady for a year......): i was really bummed. lol.

So what's yours?

:)

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  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    finding out everyone likes me but my crush haha
    these things heal though
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Too many to list. :ohwell:
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    This is not a crush moment, but still embarrassing.
    I am middle eastern and was in college with a group of my class mates for a group project. This guy's name is Austin, and I was fairly new to the US. I said to him in the group in front of his girl friend that every time I hear his name the count down to the shuttle comes to mind. Every one just shock their heads and his girl friend got upset and I couldn't figure out why... Apparently they took it sexual :blushing: when really it wasn't meant that way.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Logging into MFP every morning. :D
  • xxTAMxx
    xxTAMxx Posts: 573 Member
    Logging into MFP every morning. :D
    Me too...massively crushing on one of my friends but....

    *sigh*
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    had a crush on someone freshman year in highschool who didnt even know i was alive
    i was so nervous that my face would turn bright red if he looked at me and i wouldnt be able to talk
    eventually we started dating but i was just as nervous for like 4 months into the relationship
    its not something i want to do again, but it was a pretty 'fairy taleish' experience. idk its hard to explain :p
  • L00py_T0ucan
    L00py_T0ucan Posts: 1,378 Member
    I think the absolute worst crush moment is that split second you see your crush walking towards you in the dimly lit jr high school cafeteria (spandau ballet playing in the background) and realize he is walking right past you to ask some girl from your math class that is standing behind you to slow dance...

    ...and then it occurs to you: he.has.no.idea.who.you.are


    - - -
    of course it just FEELS like you are going to DIE. :embarassed: :laugh: :noway:
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    I've got two:

    1. When my crush dated my sister

    2. When my crush said he couldn't date me because I was too much like a sister to him.

    Yep. Nothing like the feeling of ripping my beating heart out of my chest and showing it to me.
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  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    There was this older girl that I was life-guarding with. We had an hour block together at the pool, and we would just sit together and talk the whole time.

    She had a boyfriend that was a so-so relation ship her, so whatever.
    So anyways, one day one of the cleaners at the Y got caught self pleasuring himself on this glass enclosed observation desk overlooking the pool watching her.

    so I mean it was embarrassing because we got told that we had to sit on opposite ends of the pool. Also embarrassing because I brought my B game, and that other guy obviously brought it 110%.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    It was college. Auditions for Macbeth. This girl walked into the theatre like she owned it. Long black hair, black nail polish, black lipstick and a smirk on her face.

    I turned to my buddy Nick and said, "Her. I want her."

    He laughed, 'Ok, Swanny."

    I watched her audition and she was no great shakes, but she just had this attitude that she was too cool for this place. Then a bunch of us were called up onstage and did some group stuff, improvs and such. After one round I was sitting on the edge of the stage. I had taken off my glasses because it was some physical work and as I sat there I felt someone next to me and there, standing at the front of the stage, right nexct to me was Miss Goth of 1991 (I'm old).

    She looked at me quizzically and asked in an accent that was pure Akron, Ohio, "Where's your glasses?"

    We talked a bit. Her name was Anna and she was a new transfer. She had moved here with her boyfriend.

    I got called back into improvs and when I looked back she was gone.

    That night I went to the bar/pizza joint where all the theatre folks hung out at not thinking much about it. There was a party in the back of the bar and I asked the owner, "Al, what's the shindig?"

    "An engagement party. Never seen any of them before," he responded.

    I shrugged, ordered a pitcher and a shot opened my script and started trying to decide who I wanted to be in Shakespeare's classsic. The crowd in the back was noisy and I glanced over but couldn't see anything but the tyops of peoples' heads since there was a half wall.

    I was midway through my second pitcher and had five or six ****s in me when out of the back of the bar came who else, but Anna. Dressed in a vintage wedding dress with elbow length satin gloves and with her hair up, she sauntered over to me, "Hi."

    I looked at her and with a headful of scotch and said, "Why don't you blow off that bunch. We'll go back to my place."

    She looked at me, "But it's my party."

    She held up her hand and showed me a modest engagement ring.

    "Ok, so tell 'em you don't feel good and give me a ring here when they're gone," I said.

    She looked at me with her head tilted slighly to the side just as she had in the theatre, "You're plenty crazy, huh?"

    I just grinned as she smiled, turned and walked away.

    It was 10:45.

    The bartender, Mike, and the owner, Al, had both heard this whole exchange. And spent the rest of the night needling me. Particularly after the party broke up and she walked out without so much as a glance my way, arm in arm with her new fiance.

    Back in those days, I could be pretty cocky, particularly with full of beer and scotch. I just smirked at them, "Watch."

    At 12:28 the phone rang and Mike answered. He looked straight at me and said, too loudly, "No, no, he left a LONG time ago."

    Then he laughed and said, "No hang on, he's right here," and handed me the phone.

    I said hello and heard that Akron accent just give me an address. I handed the phone back to Mike and grinned at Al who just shook his head.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    Swanny - you're just bragging.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Freshman year of college I was really into this older girl. We hung out a lot.......Then I made the mistake of writing her a letter/poem and sending her some flowers with it. She didn't feel the same way.......I was pretty upset.....So then I randomly hooked up with her best friend who was engaged.......She initiated it......so maybe that makes it a little better?
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    Swanny - you're just bragging.

    Well, she turned out to be batshizzle crazy and called me the day after my brother killed himself to sympathize and ended up inventing an acid-induced tale of pregnancy and basement abortion. And she had the herpes.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I had a huge crush on my friend Edward in high school.
    He was referred to as Antisocial Edward because apparently he hadn't talked to anyone in 10 years. We had every class together though, and I didn't have any friends (I had just switched schools), so I kept saying hi and trying to talk to him.
    One day, he said hi back and, just like that, he talked again. We both made a few friends after that.
    Anyway, it turned out he was gay. Oh well. He was still nice to look at, and a total sweetheart with a twisted sense of humor.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    How did you let that one get away.
    Swanny - you're just bragging.

    Well, she turned out to be batshizzle crazy and called me the day after my brother killed himself to sympathize and ended up inventing an acid-induced tale of pregnancy and basement abortion. And she had the herpes.
  • KariQuiteContrary
    KariQuiteContrary Posts: 274 Member
    Logging into MFP every morning. :D

    ^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^ *Sigh*
  • laurasimmons
    laurasimmons Posts: 575 Member
    I always end up having a crush on someone who is already taken.
  • Dtho5159
    Dtho5159 Posts: 1,054 Member
    I was 16 and worked at Walmart and my crush was 18 so I thought nothing of it... Turned out he was married with 2 kids (had one at 16 and one at 17) :huh:
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    How did you let that one get away.

    Oh it was ugly. Before I knew just how nuts she was we got involved and both got cast in Macbeth along with three other girls I had slept with and or was sleeping with and, absurdly enough, my little sister (who I was not sleeping with) which made things epically awkward.

    At one point she locked herself in the dressing room and refusd to go on because my "*kitten*" as she put it were supposedly talking about her behind her back. They, of course, were.

    Oh it was a messy, messy time.

    Made even worse by the fact that my damn sister was there so I couldn't escape even when I went home!
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  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I had a huge crush on my friend Edward in high school.
    He was referred to as Antisocial Edward because apparently he hadn't talked to anyone in 10 years. We had every class together though, and I didn't have any friends (I had just switched schools), so I kept saying hi and trying to talk to him.
    One day, he said hi back and, just like that, he talked again. We both made a few friends after that.
    Anyway, it turned out he was gay. Oh well. He was still nice to look at, and a total sweetheart with a twisted sense of humor.

    did he sparkle in the sunlight too???? sorry, the name and the story, that's the first thing that came to my mind :laugh:
    God I hope not. He did always wear long sleeves, though, so it's possible. Then again, I live in southern Arizona and we get a lot of son, and I never saw even a hint of sparkle.

    Ugh. I hate Twilight.
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    I have two but can't pick which one is worst. So ill let the audience decide.

    This happened during the 4th or 5th grade. I really liked a girl and we would say hi. Well I did one of those letters where you say " do you like check yes check no" things. I was very nervous and I didn't had it to her myself. I had a buddy give it to her. Well I was such a shy kid that at the end of the school day I hid behind a vehicle as I watched my buddy give her the note and saw her check it off. Well he comes running back to me and say ok lets check it out. I was nervous as all can be and when I opened it it said NO! :mad: :explode: :frown: After that it was hard to pass by her in class

    The second one happened during H.S. I think it was my junior or senior year. I was getting really close to a girl in my class. She was Half Jamaican and Half German. Sexy as all hell. A buddy and I use to joke around that I had a thing for "Blites" (combination of White skinned Black girls esepcially ones with green eyes)...................Damn now that I think back she was damn sexy :love: . Back to the story.... We talked on the phone a lot.....I said sexy things in spanish to her which she loved....I wrote cute poems to her and did everything as a gentleman. Well a few months down the road I realized that she was avoiding me. I finally got the courage to ask her what was up and she stated " Your just way to nice of a guy for me" My heart dropped. I couldn't believe it.......she broke my heart :brokenheart:

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