Looking for Serious Support...Need to find myself again.

Hey guys! I'm a week into this. Back in 2008 I got down to an awesome weight of 175lbs (bench pressing 250lbs, squats 300lbs -- so I was a pretty muscular guy). And in just 4 short years with the stress of school, stresses of entering the real world and working 70+ hrs a week, I've somehow lost myself. I now weigh 210lbs and really want to get back to that time 4 years ago that I remember feeling so confident, so good about myself and was grabbing life by the horns.

I don't want to let my 20s pass by not having the confidence to feel like I deserve that promotion at work, to fall in love or to just enjoy my youth.

Add me if you've ever experienced that or add me in general since I would love the support. I want to get to that weight, if not close, by October 13 (my Best Friend's Wedding).

Also if there are any Ruggers (Rugby players) out there, add me too. It's my new obsession in weight loss...a painful one, but an obsession.