What's up with....rate the person above you

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Jacwhite22
Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,007 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
It seems like there are only 4 scores used and everyone is on a steep curve. Everyone in that thread gets a 7,8,9,10 unless someone is just being ridiculous or spiteful and gives someone a 6. 2's get a 7 and 7's get a 7.........How is this fair to the true 7's, 8's 9's 10s? Are we supposed to be judging on perceived inner beauty instead? Do girls get a score based solely on the size of their funbags without considering facial beauty? The title even says "only if you can handle the truth" but we are not giving many people the truth.....Is this going back to the whole everyone is a beautiful snowflake thing? Is everyone just scared to be "that guy/girl" who gives a low (read: truthful) score? I know others have to be thinking the same thing.....what are the reasons.....discuss.
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  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    maybe the dude who rated me a 6 was basing it on the size of my fun bags. though if that were the case, i'd likely be a 3... hmmm... i got nothin'.
  • shannoninBC
    shannoninBC Posts: 345 Member
    I got rated a 9 the other night but a bit too old. Yah that 20 yr old be hoping he had a hot mama like me
  • JessieArt
    JessieArt Posts: 275 Member
    Well, there are just some beautiful peeps here! :tongue:
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    I saw someone get a 5 and had like 6 girls attacking this one guy. The "if you can handle the truth" does not apply.
  • MelMoly
    MelMoly Posts: 1,303 Member
    You said you won't date bald women so your vote doesn't count! :P
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,007 Member
    You said you won't date bald women so your vote doesn't count! :P

    To be fair there were some caveats but as a general rule I would not be attracted to a bald woman.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,007 Member
    Well, there are just some beautiful peeps here! :tongue:

    Agreed.......but there are some 2s too........But they all get 8s.
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    I liked the shag or pass or whatever much better xD
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    easier to decide for sure =)
  • martin_chicago
    martin_chicago Posts: 258 Member
    i got a 2
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,393 Member
    maybe the dude who rated me a 6 was basing it on the size of my fun bags. though if that were the case, i'd likely be a 3... hmmm... i got nothin'.

    Woman, I have you as a 7... And that's because of awesomeness level!. No one is a 10, I've never met a 9 other than my late bride...and I'm a picky *kitten* SOB
  • Laura_Suzie
    Laura_Suzie Posts: 1,288 Member
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone's scale is different. I wouldn't rate someone under a 5 unless they were practically deformed.
  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
    its a game!
    who cares?!really?
  • nomorewishing
    nomorewishing Posts: 250 Member
    I will never comment on something like that, I'd probably get a negative number. Lol :ohwell:
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 890 Member
    I thought that thread was made for trolling.
  • JessieArt
    JessieArt Posts: 275 Member
    I will never comment on something like that, I'd probably get a negative number. Lol :ohwell:

    Nope, you are gorgeous!
  • JessieArt
    JessieArt Posts: 275 Member
    Just thought of this. Maybe people that would rate the person low didn't respond because they didn't want to be mean. People responding actually found the person attractive. What you think is gorgeous might not be what I consider to be gorgeous or a 10.
  • mwcraig34
    mwcraig34 Posts: 359 Member
    No one whats to hurt someones feelings! This is a site called my fitness pal! So everyone wants to be as positive as possible! Not too many people I call friend are going to say to me "hey your a 2 or 3 fatty!" What good does that do? I personally think that if you need the confirmation of strangers to make you feel good about yourself you may want to see a therapist!
  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
    When I play, I avoid any number below 7, just to avoid nuclear fallout.
  • xxTAMxx
    xxTAMxx Posts: 573 Member
    I liked the shag or pass or whatever much better xD
    Was it Smash, Marry or Avoid? That was a good one but once again the same problem. ..everyone was smashing everyone!
  • No one whats to hurt someones feelings! This is a site called my fitness pal! So everyone wants to be as positive as possible! Not too many people I call friend are going to say to me "hey your a 2 or 3 fatty!" What good does that do? I personally think that if you need the confirmation of strangers to make you feel good about yourself you may want to see a therapist!

    Haha, ya no one's calling anyone fatty on this Site and getting away with it.

    It's really biased on here and I totally agree, it's bc everyone wants to be positive, but it's not always accurate
  • beskimoosh
    beskimoosh Posts: 375 Member
    Just thought of this. Maybe people that would rate the person low didn't respond because they didn't want to be mean. People responding actually found the person attractive. What you think is gorgeous might not be what I consider to be gorgeous or a 10.

    I've done this before, gone to write on it then thought I don't think that persons attractive, I'll just leave it until someone else comments. Harsh, but not as harsh as telling them!
  • Adina81
    Adina81 Posts: 252 Member
    Haha. I like you OP.

    OP I rate you an honest 4.5-5. Solely based on your picture.
    In a few months we can come back to evaluate. Boxers only...the tight kind.
    We'll see if we can solidify that 5 for ya.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,007 Member
    Just thought of this. Maybe people that would rate the person low didn't respond because they didn't want to be mean. People responding actually found the person attractive. What you think is gorgeous might not be what I consider to be gorgeous or a 10.
    fair point.....this is what I do...
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,007 Member
    See what I did there......I killed two birds with one stone.
    Just thought of this. Maybe people that would rate the person low didn't respond because they didn't want to be mean. People responding actually found the person attractive. What you think is gorgeous might not be what I consider to be gorgeous or a 10.
    fair point.....this is what I do...
  • monty619
    monty619 Posts: 1,308 Member
    i lie on all of them
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,830 Member
    This is exactly my point! I've decided to give honest reviews. People are just looking for an ego boost.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,465 Member
    7.1
  • ChristineMarie89
    ChristineMarie89 Posts: 1,079 Member
    No one whats to hurt someones feelings! This is a site called my fitness pal! So everyone wants to be as positive as possible! Not too many people I call friend are going to say to me "hey your a 2 or 3 fatty!" What good does that do? I personally think that if you need the confirmation of strangers to make you feel good about yourself you may want to see a therapist!
    psh ive been made fun of etc so many times on this site thats so a lie!!! although it really doesn't get to me. people dont try to be positive they just dont comment on THAT topic unless they have something nice to say!!! lol
  • w_i_n_d_y
    w_i_n_d_y Posts: 216 Member
    We are all beautiful in some way. Just because you don't think someone deserves a certain rate doesn't mean I do.

    What's the purpose of giving someone a 2? Really? To be brutally honest? To hurt their feelings? What do you gain by being "that guy?"
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