Siginificant Other(SO) is a chubby chaser...

moeviegrl
moeviegrl Posts: 52
edited December 2024 in Motivation and Support
So my SO is a chubby chaser. He loves and finds big women very attractive. This used to be a great thing (I was a big girl) but now I am wondering, is this going to be a problem? He says he loves me no matter what size I am but I have heard the comments he has made about skinny women (eww, she's too thin...I don't find her attractive at all.) and for the most part I don't think they are that skinny at all. I point out women I think are beautiful and he says they are pretty but he wouldn't date a girl like her because she's too skinny. So I was wondering, has anyone gone from a big girl to a skinny girl with a SO (husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, FWB) who was/is a chubby chaser? Are you still together? Did it change anything?

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  • dorkboi
    dorkboi Posts: 87 Member
    My wife lost 90 lbs in the year after we started dating. I am a self confessed chubby chaser and while I'm secretly glad she's put about 10lbs back on, my feelings for her haven't changed one bit.
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