Motivation thats not really Motivation

GeekyGirlLyn

How many of you have those people in your life that think they're motivating you but aren't. Mine was the BF. He called me Chubba the Hutt and Triple Tum. And when I got hurt he told me it was to try and get me to lose the weight, that he was helping me and not hindering me. Now I admit I got big but not that damn big. I ended up crying after he went to bed. Then got rid of him. lol. But that's another story. So who has had people who are trying to help and be motivating but really are only making it worse?