Hit on or Flirted with?

KickassAugust
KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
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Neighbor says to me: "Hey, hey come here, come here!!! If you lose anymore weight, I'm gonna have to come over there and steal you from your husband."

There was a bit of creepy factor to this one, and I'm not sure if I'm just out of practice... What do you think of my NSP (Non-Scale Peculiarity)... was he trying to flirt with me or was that a pick-up line.. ?

Omg... was that a pick-up line? :laugh: :laugh:

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  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    He was flirting :smooched:
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    Flirting.
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    So what the heck is the difference?
  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    So what the heck is the difference?

    Flirting is when you say something to someone about "wanting" them. A pickup line is something made up that is repeated by people...example..."Wanna make like fabric softner and snuggle? ;)" or "Did it hurt when you fell from the sky? Because you are an angel!" Like that :wink:
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    he may have just been being nice in an awkward way.
  • Zero2hero2013
    Zero2hero2013 Posts: 458
    i dont think there is much of a difference except flirting is less agressive then a pick up line.
    flirting can be small things that are unnoticed sometimes. where a pick up line is like someone actually asking you to date/sleep etc with them.
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    he may have just been being nice in an awkward way.

    A compliment of sorts... :smile:
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    he may have just been being nice in an awkward way.

    A compliment of sorts... :smile:

    yes....congrats on your progress
  • JenAiMarres
    JenAiMarres Posts: 743 Member
    Flirting ...in an awkward way...yes kind of an odd thing to say.
  • mstaser
    mstaser Posts: 657 Member
    Thats better than a couple asking my wife if her and I wanted to swing...

    In your case, it was a flirt.
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    he may have just been being nice in an awkward way.

    A compliment of sorts... :smile:

    yes....congrats on your progress

    Why thank you!
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Thats better than a couple asking my wife if her and I wanted to swing...

    In your case, it was a flirt.

    Well, did you wanna swing?
  • mstaser
    mstaser Posts: 657 Member
    haha, no comment
  • 2012asv
    2012asv Posts: 702 Member
    The weird thing is he obviously knows you're married... so I don't think he was actually hitting on you unless he has major courage lol I would say that was a strong flirtation/admiration... Some people have odd ways of complimenting others. But ****, either way you look AWESOME!!!!
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    The weird thing is he obviously knows you're married... so I don't think he was actually hitting on you unless he has major courage lol I would say that was a strong flirtation/admiration... Some people have odd ways of complimenting others. But ****, either way you look AWESOME!!!!

    Thank you Thank you!
  • bwmiller1
    bwmiller1 Posts: 98
    Flirting is the soft sell way of "putting it out there". If you take it light, then it remains light. Pick up is more direct, more upfront and intentions are more clear. I think of flirting as grey while pick up is black and white. Your neighbour was flirting. If you replied you wouldn't mind being stolen, then the slightly ajar door is opened a little more. If you laughed it off, then the words fizzle and turn to dust. That's my 2 cents.

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