What is a TURN-ON for you (male and female)

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  • hcoburn37
    hcoburn37 Posts: 442 Member
    big byceps
    dark hair and tanned
    riding a bike
    watching him do push-ups or lifting weights
    soft kisses
    back rubs
  • dizzydi1968
    dizzydi1968 Posts: 564
    Tall
    Blonde
    Toned
    Slightly dirty looking
  • FlyeredUp
    FlyeredUp Posts: 632 Member
    Those bedroom eyes women get when they are satisfied..
    sexy lingerie
    polka dots
  • LoViNlIFe0225
    LoViNlIFe0225 Posts: 121
    I'm married, but some of the things that attracted me so much to him when we started dating (and still attract me) are as follows:

    - The fact that I CAN'T fit into his jeans...I like a man that is bigger and stronger than me.
    - He's so tall and strong that it makes wrestling and playing around fun cause he can just pick me up and throw me around.
    - He has body hair...I like a man not a pre-pubescent boy.
    - He's into extreme sport and its hot when he does crazy, wild tricks on his four-wheeler and motorcycle.
    - He knows and respects I don't need anyone to take care of me...but wants to anyways.
    - Loves my cooking...I love having someone I can cook for and will try eating all the new things I want to try making.
    - He is always suprising me!
    - He's always trying to pick me up with cheesy pickup lines cause I love them! Its cute to see what new ones he learns or makes-up.
    - Rough hands...I like that he does manual labor for a living!
    - He takes me to Hooters with him...not just the guys!
    - He's someone I can drink beer with!
    - He thinks I'm cool...I love his opinion of me...it turns me on the most!

    I could go on and on and on because I'm pretty much the luckiest girl alive...just sayn' :wink:
  • solarpower4
    solarpower4 Posts: 250 Member
    nunchuk skills and computer hacking skills.

    Finally, someone who digs some of my useful skills!!! Let's grab a coffee! :drinker:
  • Edwin_S
    Edwin_S Posts: 440 Member
    I'm attracted to girls who know how to "Dance Like a Loon!"
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
    I'm attracted to girls who know how to "Dance Like a Loon!"

    sooo, Ed, what does a loon look like when it dances? lol!!! I'm trained in ballet, hula, jazz, modern and freestyle... I've never heard of any composition about loons... swans, yes. looks, no. lol!!!!!
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
    I am attracted to men who are physically fit and balanced. handsome of face and good mannered in public and knows what to do in the marriage bed. (hah! no loop holes guys!) and yes, I know you can't tell if a guy is good in bed until you're there! :) just trusting God that it'll all be there! :D

    smart, (alec/assed - in a timely fashion)
    inteligent
    wise (wisdom)
    gentle
    kind
    loving
    sexy (oozing!!!!) lol!!!
  • BobinNC66
    BobinNC66 Posts: 192 Member
    Eyes
    Sincerity
    Good Heart

    Then once I get to know you:

    Lingerie
    Heels
    Confidence
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    boobs.
    beards.
    (i really didn't want to continue the list after my first two being boobs and beards)
    tattoos.
    skate shoes.
    giving me a run for my moneyon the mountain (snowboarding)
    being unafraid of speaking your mind, even if it's not a popular, socially accepted idea.
    being able to take a compliment without giving one in return.
    sarcasm.
    knowing the difference between selfishness and self-indulgence.
    knowing when to kiss me.
  • BobinNC66
    BobinNC66 Posts: 192 Member
    I like women who dont have giant vaginas

    do u run into that problem alot? cause there MAY just be another reason for that....hahaha! sorry, u set it up for me :laugh:

    Ha!! Wife and I were saying the same thing!
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    A clean pooper! Man, that gets me hot! :love:
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    We are just talking about turn-ons and not who I want to be in a relationship forever.. right?!

    Turn-ons are men who:
    Are 6"0 +
    Have a confident/ slightly cocky attitude and intelligent/smart-*kitten* sense of humour :tongue:
    Have an accent
    Are overtly sexual but not cheesy or slimy about it!
  • dinovino_59
    dinovino_59 Posts: 1,700
    I like big butts and that aint no lie
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    Someone who knows how to use proper spelling and grammar! :wink:
  • dinovino_59
    dinovino_59 Posts: 1,700
    Someone who knows how to use proper spelling and grammar! :wink:

    that was a quote from a song....btw...turn on, a woman who has more of personality than a sarcastic beech
  • katya73
    katya73 Posts: 464
    Confident attitude .. good intellect... takes a genuine interest in me other than just what he wants to do TO me ... Hmm.. a cheeky smile and I'm his ;-)
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,809 Member
    Physically:
    Tall
    Board shoulders and chest
    Freckled shoulders
    and a cute tush

    Mentally:
    Funny
    Smart
    Open minded ( I am intolerant of the intolerant)
  • MayMaydoesntrun
    MayMaydoesntrun Posts: 805 Member
    A smile that reaches the eyes..
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    kind
    intelligent
    classy
    Non-smoker
    A little nerdy
    brunettes
    curvy!
    selfless
    speaks clearly
    positivity!
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    I like big butts and that aint no lie

    i like big butts and i can not lie.



    (sorry, i usually am not one to point out mistakes, but this song deserves it...)
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    Someone who knows how to use proper spelling and grammar! :wink:

    that was a quote from a song....btw...turn on, a woman who has more of personality than a sarcastic beech

    Wow.. my comment was not actually aimed at anyone. I had forgotten to add it to my original post. I'm not really that snotty or a "sarcastic beech" as you put it, but thanks for making me feel like crap! Sincere apologies if you thought it was directed.. it wasn't.
  • myers0machine
    myers0machine Posts: 685
    somene who actually gets my wired behavior aha n actually fancy's me simple aint picky me aha
  • whitetiger011680
    whitetiger011680 Posts: 218 Member
    There's so many things I could list so I just put a few.

    The way and where he kisses me.
    The way and where he touches me.
    Do something nice for me just because he wanted to.
    Being able to repair things around the house and on the car and do it right.
    Being a family man whose good with kids.
    Offering to cook, clean or give me a massage every now and then because he knows I need a break.

    All of these are very much a turn on to me. You notice I didn't say anything about how he looks? Looks aren't everything. :heart:
  • calliope_music
    calliope_music Posts: 1,242 Member
    blue eyes
    smells good
    nerdy
    tattooed and/or pierced
    intelligent/well-read/can hold a conversation
    funny
    sarcastic, but not mean
  • whitetiger011680
    whitetiger011680 Posts: 218 Member
    There's so many things I could list so I just put a few.

    The way and where he kisses me.
    The way and where he touches me.
    Do something nice for me just because he wanted to.
    Being able to repair things around the house and on the car and do it right.
    Being a family man whose good with kids.
    Offering to cook, clean or give me a massage every now and then because he knows I need a break.

    All of these are very much a turn on to me. You notice I didn't say anything about how he looks? Looks aren't everything. :heart:

    tattooed and/or pierced
    intelligent/well-read/can hold a conversation
    funny

    Add these to my list. :smile:
  • realrayne10
    realrayne10 Posts: 388 Member
    when he winks at me from across a crowded room
    that tug on my ponytail
    when he whispers something naughty in my ear
    that smell

    sigh...excuse me, I gotta go...
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    - Men who are respectable
    - Says random sweet things out of the blue
    - A guy who has a gorgeous smile
    - Humane
    - Intelligent
    - Determined/Independent
    - Can make me laugh
    - Likes to try new things or things he would never do (i.e. craft a project with me)
    - Likes to be creative
    - Same taste in music and other interests but is also completely different from me
  • bekinator
    bekinator Posts: 103
    intelligent. i'm always checking out the person with their nose in a book.
    bikes. I dunno bikes are hawt.
    multi-lingual. accents and other languages are so interesting to me.
    politicall progressive (you know, not homophobic/racist/sexist)
    critical thinking skills are super sexy!
    happiness and fun loving (you know, smart but not gloomy)
    works with their hands (mehcanics are hawt!)
    an attitude of gratitude (especially if for the littlest thing or the things often taken for granted, like the beauty of the stars)....
    honesty
    a sense of dignity

    <3<3<3

    wow mental twin!

    to add, i like the guys who don't need to hoot & holler over women, who have personality. the deeper the better (-:
    independent & creative. openness to new adventures, experiences, arts. laid-back with a definite sense of responsibility.
    and i tend to like the dark features cuz they're so not mine. my fiance is mexican-american for that reason, i'm sure. and he has nice big squishy lips that my little thin ones can sink into. (-:
  • thamre
    thamre Posts: 629 Member
    farmer's tan
    big muscular biceps that make me feel safe when they are wrapped around me
    for some reason lately i love bald heads

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