Does anyone feel like i do ??

SarahKJ0704

OK so my fiance and i have been together for quit awhile and he sees me naked everyday like laying in bed and stuff like that and i usually have a blanket ect. covering me up. but hes never seen me naked standing up (just not comfortable about it since ive gained weight) .. ok well today he thought it would be cool to come in and open up the curtain while i was in the shower .. needless to say i was FURIOUS !! .. do u think im crazy for feeling this way ?? i know he loves me so i should feel comfortable being naked around him but im just not

meshashesha2012

soap and water generally makes anyone look good.

i'd have pulled him in and spanked him :laugh:

chris1816

OK so my fiance and i have been together for quit awhile and he sees me naked everyday like laying in bed and stuff like that and i usually have a blanket ect. covering me up. but hes never seen me naked standing up (just not comfortable about it since ive gained weight) .. ok well today he thought it would be cool to come in and open up the curtain while i was in the shower .. needless to say i was FURIOUS !! .. do u think im crazy for feeling this way ?? i know he loves me so i should feel comfortable being naked around him but im just not

Honestly strikes me as odd, my girlfriend and I shower together often.

Prime sexy rumpus time.

supertracylynn

It's the disrespect of your privacy as well as the shock of it.
Even though I was often naked often when I was bigger, that made me angry every time.

Almost as mad as when he would throw the door open when I was going to the bathroom, or worse, photographing me while i was either doing my "business" or in the shower (no permission = no picture)

b0t23

I think you should channel the insecurity into motivation.

its amazing how getting yourself in better shape really does help that confidence.

I am sure he is really happy with you now, but imagine his face when he pulls the shower curtain aside and you are like HEY, here I am, slimmer and ready. Better fitness = better sex.

WifeNMama

If he knows you're uncomfortable with it, he should respect that boundary. Maybe he's trying to help you be ok with yourself, and doesnt quite know how to express it.

SarahKJ0704

he deff knows i am very uncomfortable with it .. i think i dont think he will like me naked becasue i don't even like me naked .. i used to be a stripper !! ha so u think i would be comfortable :laugh: but im forsure not .