Negative Co worker

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  • KIMBAILEYWILLIAMSON
    KIMBAILEYWILLIAMSON Posts: 258 Member
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  • KIMBAILEYWILLIAMSON
    KIMBAILEYWILLIAMSON Posts: 258 Member
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    I don't reply much, but I am glad to hear you say that your pants are fitting weird because your legs are toning and wish it would come off around waist more. I am having the exact problem but like you said we will keep working at it and IT WILL COME OFF! I had a neighbor that was just as rude told me to do sit ups to help me lose my stomach. It really hurt me because I was losing weight and have a ways to go but am making progress. So thank you for posting because I feel better someone out there is having same problem I am with pants fitting right. We are doing this for ourselves but will be good when we can put it in their face :)
  • gseburn
    gseburn Posts: 456 Member
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    kick her in her balls, cause obviosly she has the meantality of a MAN!!!

    HEY!! lol
  • annew1952
    annew1952 Posts: 77 Member
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    I understand how you feel. I work with all women and I never told any of them. I also work with a woman who lost weight
    with me 5 years ago and gained it all back and extra. She lost 50 pounds and I lost 33
    lbs. I gained maybe 8 lbs back. She has been jealous of me since and now she doesn't talk to me at all. And nowI am
    losing my 8 lbs and she has been trying to lose her 50 plus. She isn't worth the time of day and now its been two years and
    tough beans for her. I don't need her friendship. Negative people are not for me.
  • eemielwy
    eemielwy Posts: 20 Member
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    Oh yeah... We have one.
    Always asks if Im still going to the gym 'while real society actually sleeps like real society people".

    Told her "I dont like associating with real society people - they are too damn crabby to be considered breathing the same air as I am"...

    Shuts her up every time

    I WISH I had the chutzpah to get up early and go to the gym! Good for you.
  • loribenfield
    loribenfield Posts: 120 Member
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    Believe in karma! It will get her.
  • Di3012
    Di3012 Posts: 2,250 Member
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    I just had to share. This morning as me and my only other coworker were talking about weight loss (she is naturally skinny) I said that my pants are fitting weird because my legs are toning I just wish it would come off around my waist more. And she said "Oh you don't really think that your going to lose any of your stomach do you?? " I said OH YES I DO! She was very taken back that I thought that I would lose my stomach. It may take a while but by golly it WILL come off.

    Bloody cheek!!!! Some people are absolutely amazing in the "amazing as in weird sense" - SHE may think it impossible to lose off your stomach, however, YOU know different, prove her wrong and make her eat her words xxx
  • DestroyTheOpposition
    DestroyTheOpposition Posts: 444 Member
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    can we say, sugar in her gas tank?
  • medaglia_06
    medaglia_06 Posts: 282 Member
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    Who says that??
  • misscristie
    misscristie Posts: 643 Member
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    My co-worker has a way of dealing with people like that... Any time they say something that she doesn't like or is negative she says (in her best southern drawl - and she doesn't have one normally) "Oh, how niiiiiice." Basically code for FU. It's fantastic.
  • dipsl19
    dipsl19 Posts: 317 Member
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    what a ho. may she be forever alone
  • teri1956
    teri1956 Posts: 221 Member
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    kick her in her balls, cause obviosly she has the meantality of a MAN!!!

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • ga_gator68
    ga_gator68 Posts: 4
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    Just keep in mind: you can't fix stupid and there are lots of stupid people in this world. You just stick with it and you will reach your goals. Best wishes!!
  • hikeout470
    hikeout470 Posts: 628 Member
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    People judge others, they way they judge themselves!

    I've been through this. Found out through a good male co-worker friend, that a female co-worker who has the opposite body shape as me, was insanely jealous of my opposite attributes. Later this developed into a major drama where she attacked my career! OMG, women can be horrible.
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 910 Member
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    im just confused as to why you wouldn't lose it ?? =\
  • tkaawa
    tkaawa Posts: 302
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    I had the same thing happen to me in the beginning of my weight loss journey. They didn't think i could lose weight and jus wasn't supporting me like they should..but i kept on trucking on through and today i stand before them and they're all taken aback by my results...i'm still looking to lose 30 more lbs and know that I can do it..with hard work and dedication anything is possible...
    So with that being said, i know you have the motiviation to keep on striving and prove her wrong...:flowerforyou:
  • tkaawa
    tkaawa Posts: 302
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    I had the same thing happen to me in the beginning of my weight loss journey. They didn't think i could lose weight and jus wasn't supporting me like they should..but i kept on trucking on through and today i stand before them and they're all taken aback by my results...i'm still looking to lose 30 more lbs and know that I can do it..with hard work and dedication anything is possible...
    So with that being said, i know you have the motiviation to keep on striving and prove her wrong...:flowerforyou:
  • Stinkerbelle84
    Stinkerbelle84 Posts: 328
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    Aaahh! My workplace has the exact same type of people. I am a fairly upbeat person, and I don't take offense easily. I have always been on the curvier size for my height, and I love it! But, I do work with some women who think that curves are fat and disgusting. To each is own, I say.

    My step-son overheard me telling my husband how insulting and annoying they were one day, and he told me that I can lose weight, but they will be always be ugly on the inside =) From then on, I have adopted his (ten year old) outlook on the subject! I was so proud of my boy that day, lol!

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