Worrying or Intrigued!

Bheller234

Just to see what everyone else thinks! So i know i am a bit of a flirt...i don't even realize i am doing it sometimes. But anyway, i am part of a sports team and i kind of like one of our refs. He is dating one of the girls on our team but they try not to make it look like they are though.
Anyway, people on the team are starting to notice he pays a lot of attention to me. (I don't complain at all) Like every time i fall or get beat up even a bit he is the first one to me and checking on me. The other day we had a game and i got hit pretty hard, couldn't get back up and it was not pretty in any way...(i took an elbow to the face). He couldn't come talk to me during the match but when it was over he came right to me to check on me and brushed my hair out of my face to check if i was okay.
Later that night at the after party he comes up to me and out of nowhere and he says to me that he was really hurt today when he saw me hurt and that it really hurt his heart. Then later again that night he was a little drunk said the same thing in front of a few of my teammates also.
Other nights i will get random text messages from him either picking on me or telling me to take care of myself and try not to get too beat up and to be the better person when i was being targeted by one of my teammates for a while.
I'm just not sure how to react to this anymore. At first i was like okay he is just being a nice guy and caring about the team.

Oh i guess i should also mention that i was told when i was in training that he would come over and say how i was really great and that the team was going to be glad to have me. Then the other one of our refs started to tell me that so i thought it was completely normal but then i was just told the other day that he never did that. That he never really seemed interested in the other people that where there and never noticed them. One of the people that i worked with when i started and is a pretty good friend of mine has been telling me about how a lot of the other members are coming up to her and saying am i just seeing things or is something going on there. Like they are really noticing the way he is treating me and reacting to me.

How do you respond to this?