Advice!

bobie1978

I figured I would ask people who don't know me or my bf (fiance) so I know that no one is going to be on my "side" as my bf puts it.

We've been together for 3 years and are engaged. So today he got mad at me because the friend I went shopping with yesterday went to high school with my ex boyfriend. (very short term relationship, I ended up breaking up with him and ended up being one of those stalkers. He believes SHE hooked me up with him. She didn't, it just happened there was no intentions. Relationship went bad. I cut ties with him.

So long story short. He starts in on me today about how would I like it if he did the same thing and went out with his ex's friend. I asked him to stop, it is mothers day. He kept on going.. and saying that hes going to call him and hang out with him very soon. Really? I asked him to stop that we could talk about it another time. He kept on going. I blew up. He left. Came back fought again. He left and has been gone for 4 hours.

We do not have kids together but I have an 11 year old from previous marriage. EVERY year he throws a tantrum sort of like this and makes comments on how I have a child from another marriage. Belittles me.. I think he just was looking for a way to fight with me cause he's insecure with himself. Am I crazy or is this just plain wrong?

I usually don't post stuff like this @ all but I would be interested in hearing what people think. I think he's CRAZY, Immature and an *kitten*. I just am wondering if ANY guys would treat their girl that way.. or if anyone girls have been through a situation like this before?

ScatteredThoughts

You went out with a friend of your ex, but not the ex himself? Unless that friend were trying to play matchmaker with you and your ex, I don't see a reason to be so upset.

And the remarks about a child from previously seem completely unwarranted, and that child should not be exposed to someone who feels that way, in my opinion.

Find someone who has more respect for you and your child.

bobie1978

No she wasn't.. and she doesn't even talk to him anymore because of me.

I agree on that too about my daughter

Thank you.

tbresina

Sorry, prob now what you want to hear but run........run for the hills, this guy does not sound like a keeper! You have to ask yourself why am I here and what am I getting out of this relationship. Seriously, if not for you for your daughter so she doesn't learn to settle for the wrong kind of man!

hbrittingham

I think you might want to rethink the fiance thing, at least for the time being. But definitely for your daughter's sake.

redcut

run run as fast as you can I have a daughter and anyone who would say stuff like that to me would be long gone no child should be blamed for coming from another relationship.

Ready2Rock206

Yikes! This dude sounds like a nightmare and you want him around your daughter?

cmriverside

Oh. Please get away from this. It will get ten times worse if you marry him. You and your daughter both deserve better.