Would you date a one night stand?

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  • soccermoma11
    soccermoma11 Posts: 126
    never had a one night stand and never will.. if i wanna date a guy than he had better be respecting me my body and my morals one guy i dated didnt and i didnt respect myself and now im a single young mom. no more messin around wth just anyone
  • DAMNCHARLIE
    DAMNCHARLIE Posts: 569
    I thought it was going to be a one nite stand, turned out it wasnt. So yes I would.
  • GeminiFairy89
    GeminiFairy89 Posts: 45 Member
    If they showed interest in dating me, why not, Im not losing anything.
  • TheLakeBeast
    TheLakeBeast Posts: 77
    I live by the quote "I call hoes, hoes but I never call hoes."
  • sofitheteacup
    sofitheteacup Posts: 396 Member
    I have and I would. In fact, one of the people I have the best chemistry with is someone I might not date simply due to incompatibility with life decisions, but usually sleeping together early on won't make me eliminate someone from my mental dating pool. Which is probably why I have so much difficulty dating. That being said, I'm a little concerned about how I've had a lot of partners and it tends to scare off more serious-minded guys-- whereas, when you already have that background with a guy, they're pretty accepting of it and it's not an issue.
    Don't know if that was at all relevant to what you wanted to know, but it's actually been on my mind a lot lately.
  • DFWTT
    DFWTT Posts: 374
    but you don't want to find out they are crap in sack, best to do it sooner rather than later


    ^^^^^:laugh: :laugh: TRUE ENOUGH :laugh: :laugh: ^^^^^
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    hooked up. one month later we were dating. two years later we are living together :] we were friends before though so idk if that counts
  • AimeeLynn90
    AimeeLynn90 Posts: 94
    Ive had plenty of one night stands. Some have gone into relationships. Those relationships didn't last long though.
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    I might. I haven't always. Sometimes, I can't out of thre fast enough. But, yeah, if it's cool, go for it.
  • brianz19
    brianz19 Posts: 5
    If you meet someone you have awesome chemistry with and end up sleeping with them the first night you meet and enjoy the experience, I would absolutely try to see that person again and if it ends up in a relationship I don't see what the problem is..better to find out if you have sexual chemistry with someone in the beginning rather than go on 10 dates just to find out it's not really gonna work out.

    That being said, as I age I'm becoming less interested in quick sexual encounters as they seem frivolous and just kind of dumb overall..although a year ago I probably would not have imagined ever typing that sentence :P
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Just interested in everyone's views on this. Would you date someone you had hooked up with?

    Anyone met their current partner that way?

    Been together 10 years, married almost 8, 3 children.
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    I dated him, then I married him. Although it was more like a one morning stand.

    There were others I dated, and still others I didn't see again...
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,810 Member
    I've dated a guy who was a one night stand. It was fun, I wasn't looking for anything super serious (I was like 19) and neither was he, so we casually dated, and had a great time. I think it can work, if you're interested in a relationship, I just wasn't interested in long term relationships at the time in my life when I was having one night stands.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    In a little over two weeks, I'm going to marry a guy that for all intents and purposes was supposed to be a one-night-stand.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Just interested in everyone's views on this. Would you date someone you had hooked up with?

    Anyone met their current partner that way?

    Been together 10 years, married almost 8, 3 children.

    Oh, and if anyone asks, we met at a pizza restaurant NOT a bar.
  • MichkaMeShell
    MichkaMeShell Posts: 34 Member
    Met my guy online, went on a date, smitten beyond belief, then slept with him. It's been 2 1/2 years since. Not that I'm going to marry him or that the relationship is a complete success yet...Obviously I'm young still...I realize this. But, I don't regret my one-night-stand either way. I felt awful right after it happened (I don't exactly make a habit out of one-night-stands), and I thought he had used me...But, when we kept seeing each other, I realized my "mistake" led to something wonderful. If we get married then I'm REALLY not going to regret it. :)
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,810 Member
    No way. I dont want a guy who drops his pants in two seconds. What a slut!

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  • MichkaMeShell
    MichkaMeShell Posts: 34 Member
    lmfao
  • tom1834
    tom1834 Posts: 34
    I have before. It actually turned out pretty well and we dated for about 9 months. My lifestyle turned out to be a problem tho (military deployments are tough for gf's)
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    It isn't really a one night stand if you start dating them...lol
    And...I doubt I would ever sleep with something that I wouldn't want to date.
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
    I wouldn't have a one-night stand. So... no.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    And...I doubt I would ever sleep with something that I wouldn't want to date.

    Clearly you have never been drunk. :drinker:
  • CouchSpud
    CouchSpud Posts: 557 Member
    My ex relationship started with a one night stand... why not? The whole idea of having to start super slow to getting to know each other is kinda... strange to me. If you like each other go for it.. :D
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Just interested in everyone's views on this. Would you date someone you had hooked up with?

    Anyone met their current partner that way?

    Been together 10 years, married almost 8, 3 children.

    Oh, and if anyone asks, we met at a pizza restaurant NOT a bar.


    Hey - I met Sean in a bar!!

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