women who stare

palmerig88

I had two women stare at my nether regions or belly area or...? Today so many times it was out of hand. Like I actuallychecked to see if there was a stain. I work retail. I'm not done losing weight. I'm a comfortable size 8. I had on jeans and a tank top layered with a medium fitted tee. I don't get it. It has been happening a lot. Women checking me out in a completely non sexual yet obvious and obnoxious way. I don't remember this happening before. I hate it.

Elizabeth_C34

Did you have a cameltoe?

palmerig88

Omg Ahahahaha. No I had on the one pair size 8 pants I own. They are slightly loose but they look nice.

Snitch1

Were you at work when this happened? If so, there is really nothing you can do except ask a co-worker to check you out to make sure you are not showing something..like camel toe..ugh..sorry.

But, if not working, just politely go up and ask them what's up. I would, but I am a pretty confrontational person, can talk to just about anyone about anything.

I would hate it too..good job on the weight loss!

SashThompson

Welcome to the world of being envied...... Have a look an see what 'type' of women are staring at you. I get it a lot also, and I honestly don't want to sound up myself but it's mostly either skinny/pretty girls that are threatened by me or bigger girls that want to be the same size. Don't get offended, although it is extremely creepy think of it as a backhanded compliment.
just my opinion though..
Sorry if I haven't helped!

Elizabeth_C34

Omg Ahahahaha. No I had on the one pair size 8 pants I own. They are slightly loose but they look nice.

Well, it's worth asking

LOL

Sounds like they were just being weird.

palmerig88

I swear ahahaha I don't have a camel toe holy smokes. That would be so gross.

Elizabeth_C34

I swear ahahaha I don't have a camel toe holy smokes. That would be so gross.

I have had unintentional cameltoe before. Not a good thing.... (probably TMI so sorry about that).

mommanurse33

I think women size each other up a lot, comparing themselves with other women. My guess is they are thinking you have a great figure, and are a bit envious. :ohwell:

palmerig88

Welcome to the world of being envied...... Have a look an see what 'type' of women are staring at you. I get it a lot also, and I honestly don't want to sound up myself but it's mostly either skinny/pretty girls that are threatened by me or bigger girls that want to be the same size. Don't get offended, although it is extremely creepy think of it as a backhanded compliment.
just my opinion though..
Sorry if I haven't helped!

I kind of thought of this then I was like...wait. I'm not grossly skinny or like freakishly tiny so I kept thinking they thought I looked weird or idk?!

ElementalEscapee

B*tches wiil be b*tches, that's all I can say lol. I'm just give them an overly sugary sweet smile the next time they looked at me.....or a confrontation, but then girls don't usually physically fight out their differences like a lot of guys haha. But that's just something I might consider.

BeautifulKristen

Well how was there face? You do look attractive. Maybe they think that you were beautiful or something? I have no idea why they would be staring at you.. Your not fat or anything.. o.o

I used to have guys always look at my stomach sometimes girls too. I really hate that part.. That is why I try to wear very long shirts to hide that and sometimes when I buy those they seem to shrink in the dryer lol And aren't long anymore

palmerig88

I think women size each other up a lot, comparing themselves with other women. My guess is they are thinking you have a great figure, and are a bit envious. :ohwell:

yep. I can honestly say I don't do it and have always hated when it was done to me the difference today was they were doing it over and over like they couldn't stop looking. Like take a pic it would last longer looking.

LilacDreamer

Were you at work when this happened? If so, there is really nothing you can do except ask a co-worker to check you out to make sure you are not showing something..like camel toe..ugh..sorry.

But, if not working, just politely go up and ask them what's up. I would, but I am a pretty confrontational person, can talk to just about anyone about anything.

I would hate it too..good job on the weight loss!

Random Worker: Hey uh suzie, would you be able to check my crotch and make sure i'm all good down there? Don't want no cameltoe or anything like that. "

Suzie: ......

Worker: Suzie? Come on people keep starin. Just give it a good looksie.

Suzie: .......

Worker: You just gotta bend on over and and take a peek.

- suzie bends over -

Worker: Closer, Closer....come on now, I don't have a disease. Yeah thats right just like that, Perfect! feel free to thorouhly inspect it if you see somethings amiss...


yeah, thats not awkward at all....

mathgirl

"today, I saw this woman with the most slim fit belly i have ever seen, damn I wish it was me" their thoughts exactly

palmerig88

Well how was there face? You do look attractive. Maybe they think that you were beautiful or something? I have no idea why they would be staring at you.. Your not fat or anything.. o.o

I used to have guys always look at my stomach sometimes girls too. I really hate that part.. That is why I try to wear very long shirts to hide that and sometimes when I buy those they seem to shrink in the dryer lol And aren't long anymore

Well thank you so much! I don't think so though aha I had on a fake purple hair extension. I work in a girls accessory shop at the mall.
Eta: their faces looked confused. Ahaha

BeautifulKristen

lol well maybe they thought that your hair was weird? I have no clue. Does it happen all the time?

palmerig88

"today, I saw this woman with the most slim fit belly i have ever seen, damn I wish it was me" their thoughts exactly

I hope so MY GOD I HOPE IT WASNT CAMELTOE AFTER ALL

palmerig88

lol well maybe they thought that your hair was weird? I have no clue. Does it happen all the time?

maybe they wondered if the rug matched the drapes. But it was just a lil side clip. Like a tiny section. Ahaha

BeautifulKristen

LOL! I had to read that again! I truly thought that you were talking about drapes on a window and the carpet on the floor! Hahahaha

Kebby83

I do it. It isn't envy or jealousy! It's admiratiom!

stephyy4632

I think women size each other up a lot, comparing themselves with other women. My guess is they are thinking you have a great figure, and are a bit envious. :ohwell:

^^^^ this
when I started out at the gym back at my starting weight of 213 pounds no one looked at me while i was walking around or working out NOW at 169 I feel like I have eyes on me constantly from both genders

jg627

Just start dancing when they look. Girl, look at that body! Girl, look at that body! I work out!

palmerig88

Just start dancing when they look. Girl, look at that body! Girl, look at that body! I work out!

Bahaha I love that song

CoryIda

I have never knowingly stared at another woman's crotch.

Sometimes, if they have REALLY BAD cameltoe, it's hard not to look for a second, but the only time I stare at a crotch if it is a man with something obviously impressive there, and even then I try to be subtle.

HotAshMess

A size 8 is a good size. The only thing I can think that would cause a stare would be if your clothes fit badly, or a cameltoe, if you dressed around a muffin top.

lynnetted43

welcome to the wonderful world of jealousy and envy!! get used to it. they are lookin and wishin that was them. trust me on this one. i see it every day in the gym!!

parys1

Were you at work when this happened? If so, there is really nothing you can do except ask a co-worker to check you out to make sure you are not showing something..like camel toe..ugh..sorry.

But, if not working, just politely go up and ask them what's up. I would, but I am a pretty confrontational person, can talk to just about anyone about anything.

I would hate it too..good job on the weight loss!

Random Worker: Hey uh suzie, would you be able to check my crotch and make sure i'm all good down there? Don't want no cameltoe or anything like that. "

Suzie: ......

Worker: Suzie? Come on people keep starin. Just give it a good looksie.

Suzie: .......

Worker: You just gotta bend on over and and take a peek.

- suzie bends over -

Worker: Closer, Closer....come on now, I don't have a disease. Yeah thats right just like that, Perfect! feel free to thorouhly inspect it if you see somethings amiss...


yeah, thats not awkward at all....

Oh thank you! I about died laughing.

Aviendha_RJ

mmm.... tossing out something I haven't seen written yet but...

Could be lesbians. Ya never know.

I've been hit on by chicks before. Not something I'm into, cuz I don't swing that way.... but something I'm strangely proud of... :laugh:

Zandia_1

Did you have your fly open?

palmerig88

Did you have your fly open?

bahaha no.