Guys are Better...
Twilightsunflower
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ok maybe not better but they are a lot nicer..
i walk in my neighborhood- which is a little ghetto and not in a put down kinda way but in an actual ghetto way.
any way i walk with my daughter almost everyday and i have noticed that men are for the majority nicer then women. they say hello smile... basically they recongnize my exsistance in the world around them.
the women- on the other hand glare at me, make snide remarks cause they think i cant hear them, ignore me completly, dont smile at all and for the most part scare me a lot more then the men.
am i alone in this?? do other women just not like me?? or are men on the whole nicer??
i walk in my neighborhood- which is a little ghetto and not in a put down kinda way but in an actual ghetto way.
any way i walk with my daughter almost everyday and i have noticed that men are for the majority nicer then women. they say hello smile... basically they recongnize my exsistance in the world around them.
the women- on the other hand glare at me, make snide remarks cause they think i cant hear them, ignore me completly, dont smile at all and for the most part scare me a lot more then the men.
am i alone in this?? do other women just not like me?? or are men on the whole nicer??
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Um...WTH!
A lot of guys ice grill other guys...Especially in neighborhoods that are "little ghetto"0 -
so its because im a woman that women dont like me?0
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Females are ******s. Most any way. Ive know this since middle school days! Most times females just are jealous...
Men, most that are "nice" to me, just want to get it in. SOME are actual genuine people...
Forget the *****y girls...0 -
What kind of snide remarks are they making? I don't know, maybe it's your city or part of town. I can't imagine that treatment from strangers toward a neighbor walking and I don't live in the best neighborhood myself. Most Tulsans refer to my part of town as Little Mexico, but I always feel safe walking in my neighborhood during the day and have never heard any comments.0
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:pulls out baby oil and pillows:
This is going to turn into a cat fight.0 -
I would argue it's more that you probably have a new-found confidence and sense of pride with your weight loss and personal improvement. That shines very noticeably to other people; especially guys. Perhaps it's just that other women are being snide to cover up their own feelings of inadequate self worth.
At least, that's my Psych 101 interpretation
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I dunno about your first question b/c I don't know you, but I wouldn't dislike you just because your a women.. I would tell you to join me. LOL I try to get the old ladies I pass to join me b/c they constantly say I should be doing what your doing.. Well come on then. I'll keep you company even if I have to walk further.
The women usually say hi, wave, smile, and ask how are you.. If I have my son with me he gets all the attention lol..
Men usually nod, smile, and wave.
Though lately 1 has noticed how often I walk and remarked on it.0 -
so you're basing this generalization on what you've noticed from a 2 block radius?
anywho. people can be jerks regardless of their gender. some guys are disgustingly rude, some are nice. some girls are nasty biyatches and others are sweet0 -
Hi hun, how are you. Great day outside....see I'm nice.:flowerforyou:0
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no not on a 2 block radius... i have just become more aware of it as of late0
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Girls have this desire to judge other women to make themselves feel better. I'm friendly with everyone, but then again, I'm secure with myself. Girls have been raised, especially in ghetto areas to "hate" on other girls and belittle them. Sadly, for most, it's ingrained in them. I grew up in a fairly lower middle class neighborhood and saw it all the time.
Just know that they're whispering about you because they're envious of one thing or another. It could even be something so petty as you having nice hair... they'll pick it apart.
And I agree.... guys are nicer because they don't feel threatened by you. This is why I am closer with guys than girls. No catty bull****.0 -
I've found in my small town that it's pretty equal. I smile at everyone I come across and sometimes I will get one back and sometimes I will not. I just move on.0
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You see, it all comes down to protons and electrons Electrons avoid other electrons, while protons avoid other protons. But get an electron and proton together and you have a match. Just like when you combine carrots and celery into a vegetable juice. It's delicious and nutritious. If you get to observe it, I think you'll find your answer while observing running with the bulls in Spain. There, you will clearly observe that bulls and men are not meant to be in the same place at the same time, especially when the bull is showing signs of aggression. I hope this helps show that while it may SEEM that women are meaner to you than men, really the high fructose corn syrup they put in beverages and foods is the culprit.0
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You see, it all comes down to protons and electrons Electrons avoid other electrons, while protons avoid other protons. But get an electron and proton together and you have a match. Just like when you combine carrots and celery into a vegetable juice. It's delicious and nutritious. If you get to observe it, I think you'll find your answer while observing running with the bulls in Spain. There, you will clearly observe that bulls and men are not meant to be in the same place at the same time, especially when the bull is showing signs of aggression. I hope this helps show that while it may SEEM that women are meaner to you than men, really the high fructose corn syrup they put in beverages and foods is the culprit.
You sir.... have a way with enlightening me in the stupidest, but totally relevant, ways.0 -
a friend of mine asked me, "why don't you have any other girl friends?"
I basically told her, "Other girls hate me"
Not sure why, I have always gotten along better with guys, I'm just not a 'girly-girl'. Never watched The Bachelor/Bachelorette, Grey's Anatomy, Sex and the City, etc. I like going to rock/metal concerts. Don't have any kids to obsess over, and never will.
Guess it's mainly because I just don't put up with backstabbing gossipy BS.
Guys Rule. Not ALL of them 'cuz I know some can be a-holes.0 -
ok maybe not better but they are a lot nicer..
i walk in my neighborhood- which is a little ghetto and not in a put down kinda way but in an actual ghetto way.
any way i walk with my daughter almost everyday and i have noticed that men are for the majority nicer then women. they say hello smile... basically they recongnize my exsistance in the world around them.
the women- on the other hand glare at me, make snide remarks cause they think i cant hear them, ignore me completly, dont smile at all and for the most part scare me a lot more then the men.
am i alone in this?? do other women just not like me?? or are men on the whole nicer??
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they do this to me too, so I just smile HUGE at them and say Hey ladies how are you today, or isnt it a fine day? Or God bless you! and just oooooze sweetness....they usually look completely confused and actually stop for a second.....but every now and then one will bust out laughing and start talking to me.
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All guys are *kitten*. It takes a **** to be a prick.
Just sayin'0 -
You see, it all comes down to protons and electrons Electrons avoid other electrons, while protons avoid other protons. But get an electron and proton together and you have a match. Just like when you combine carrots and celery into a vegetable juice. It's delicious and nutritious. If you get to observe it, I think you'll find your answer while observing running with the bulls in Spain. There, you will clearly observe that bulls and men are not meant to be in the same place at the same time, especially when the bull is showing signs of aggression. I hope this helps show that while it may SEEM that women are meaner to you than men, really the high fructose corn syrup they put in beverages and foods is the culprit.
:laugh: :laugh: man you crack me up0 -
I find that my brother seems to get along with guys better than I get along with girls. The way they interact is completely different and for some reason it seems easier for them to be friends. Girls are too petty sometimes...0
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:pulls out baby oil and pillows:
This is going to turn into a cat fight.
roflmao!!!!
but its just because you're female, if you were a male it would probably be vice versa.0 -
I agree, with you. The guys in my "slightly ghetto" neighborhood are a lot nicer to me than the girls. I get glares and just mean looks. The guys are sweet and nice to me. I don't like a handful of female personalities. I think that girls come across less friendly because it is a known fact that girls can be heartless to each other. We know how to tear into the other with no holds bared, so why even try to get snubbed. ya know?0
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am i alone in this?? do other women just not like me?? or are men on the whole nicer??
Yes, men tend to be much nice "on the hole".
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@bigdaddy no they are not all... you know i think men are great
i also think women are great too... i have nothing against any of them which is why the comments and the looks are bugging me.. im friendly to everyone0 -
...for a solid banging. I'll agree to that.0
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am i alone in this?? do other women just not like me?? or are men on the whole nicer??
Yes, men tend to be much nice "on the hole".
brat:devil:0 -
:pulls out baby oil and pillows:
This is going to turn into a cat fight.
I'm taking my baby oil and pillows home....and I'll get my solid bangin'. I can thank MFP for making it patently clear to me just how far we have come (not very) and just how far we still have to go (very very very far, as in light years, apparently).0 -
Must be where you live , here all the men give me funny stares whereas all the women are nice and friendly to me :laugh:0
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Must be where you live , here all the men give me funny stares whereas all the women are nice and friendly :laugh:
*wink!*
In my experience. some people are nice, and others are rude. The motives may change depending on gender, orientation, mental health, age, income, social status, and identity. But on the whole, I get hit on equally by men and women. I also get crap equally from men and women.0 -
w00t! I think I upset someone!:pulls out baby oil and pillows:
This is going to turn into a cat fight.
I'm taking my baby oil and pillows home....and I'll get my solid bangin'. I can thank MFP for making it patently clear to me just how far we have come (not very) and just how far we still have to go (very very very far, as in light years, apparently).0 -
w00t! I think I upset someone!:pulls out baby oil and pillows:
This is going to turn into a cat fight.
I'm taking my baby oil and pillows home....and I'll get my solid bangin'. I can thank MFP for making it patently clear to me just how far we have come (not very) and just how far we still have to go (very very very far, as in light years, apparently).
Really? No way. I liked your comment 0
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