devistated

alymarest
alymarest Posts: 115
edited September 18 in Motivation and Support
Last year my hair dresser messed my hair up big time!!!! I spent a year growing it!
I've been excited all week and i picked out the sexiest haircut to go with my weight loss. I wanted to feel new and sexy :cry:
To make a long story short. :angry: My hair is butchered!!! I look like a DOG, no joke. I have to go get it fixed today.
My hair was finally passed my shoulders and now it is going to have to be cut shorter than I have ever had it.
There is all these chunks cut in the back, it’s uneven, I have these long pieces in the front that look like dog ears. She cut the biggest thickest bangs most of the front of my hair is big thick short bangs.:sad:
But I am devastated I feel so ugly and unattractive, I’ve been emotional eating nonstop.
My hair grows so slow, like 3 in. a year.
i just feel ugly, devistated:cry:
even my mom said she wouldn't go out of the house looking like this.
my best friend was speachless she could even tell how bad it was with my hair up.:sad: :cry: :sad:

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  • Last year my hair dresser messed my hair up big time!!!! I spent a year growing it!
    I've been excited all week and i picked out the sexiest haircut to go with my weight loss. I wanted to feel new and sexy :cry:
    To make a long story short. :angry: My hair is butchered!!! I look like a DOG, no joke. I have to go get it fixed today.
    My hair was finally passed my shoulders and now it is going to have to be cut shorter than I have ever had it.
    There is all these chunks cut in the back, it’s uneven, I have these long pieces in the front that look like dog ears. She cut the biggest thickest bangs most of the front of my hair is big thick short bangs.:sad:
    But I am devastated I feel so ugly and unattractive, I’ve been emotional eating nonstop.
    My hair grows so slow, like 3 in. a year.
    i just feel ugly, devistated:cry:
    even my mom said she wouldn't go out of the house looking like this.
    my best friend was speachless she could even tell how bad it was with my hair up.:sad: :cry: :sad:
  • You're beautiful. Your hair DOES NOT define you or your beauty. Some of the most physically beautiful women in the world have very short hair. Remember Sinead O'Connor? She was bald and over the top gorgeous. I know you feel bad, the first time someone butchered my hair I nearly died, then I just cut the rest of it off. Don't let a bonehead who should not be allowed to use toddler scissors impact how you feel about yourself. Cut it off, buy a hat or celebrate it's funkiness for what it is. But be proud of your accomplishment and see the beauty that looks back at you from the mirror.
  • I agree with Wanderlust 100%. I lost my hair to chemotherapy 2 years ago - I was Uncle Fester for Halloween and had a great time! Now it's grown back and I've had my share of wacky looks in the meantime. Don't let one bad cut take you to that emotional place where you are eating for comfort. Who is the woman under the hair? A fabulous person, right? YES!
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