Kicked while I'm down

wrubsie76

I just spent a few days in the hospital for an ongoing illness I'm battling. I log on & half of my friends are gone. I am ready to quit. I don't have many people backing me & now I have less. I don't know if I can keep doing this.

wildspirit63

ill support ya jus add away

Tropical_Turtle

I am sorry to hear that - just means you are better off without them!! I am sorry to hear about your illness - I hope you get to feeling better soon.

If you want you can add me

MaryJane_8810002

I am sorry that has happened to you. You are welcomed to add me as a friend. I am always logged on be it the computer or my smart phone.

Nielasan

hey! don't beat yourself up when you're already feeling low. you can do it, it seems like you already lost a lot of weight. focus on your success and be kind to yourself mentally. we're all just humans trying to be the best we can, don't give up!

misty0413

They were not really your friends if they deleted you after being absent.

LizV32

I'm sorry to hear that, I won't do that, feel free to add me!

Mrsbrandnewmeslimandtrim

sorry to hear that,Please feel free to add me and we can support one another

DataBased

I just spent a few days in the hospital for an ongoing illness I'm battling. I log on & half of my friends are gone. I am ready to quit. I don't have many people backing me & now I have less. I don't know if I can keep doing this.

You're more than 50% of the way to your goal. Please don''t allow yourself to react emotionally to the actions of others - you're doing great! Their behavior does not have to dictate your own. Make some new friends (there are many of us available) and keep going - you're worth it!

:flowerforyou:

tracrey

Push through the bad thoughts. You have already lost 57lbs You're doing something right.

IrishChick71

Wow! That sux! But I have been in the same boat.. It just let's you know who you can count on. I'll send you a friend request.

kfogle0120

:flowerforyou: Add me if you want to.....i'm new and not going anywhere!

BostonMatt

Quitting won't solve anything. For every friend that deleted you, you'll find two more.

gogojodee

Same here, by my brother no less - lol. You can add me. I have medical issues/family medical issues and I totally understand where you're coming from. :flowerforyou:

cassmonster

Glad you are feeling better! Feel free to add me....I dont delete!! People have many reasons for not logging on....who am I to judge??

dicoveringwhoIam

sending a friend request!!

determined2lose89

I am so sorry to hear that people removed you. I think that's truly awful. I am very supportive, especially when it comes to health issues getting in the way of our weight loss journey. Feel free to add me! :flowerforyou:

mcott1012

That just broke my heart! I'll send you a friend request and we can motivate each other!! :flowerforyou:

LHSweeney

Dont let other people determine your life. You got those people and you will get others. Change is good and it will be good for your confidence to make new friends. You will be fine my sister : ) friend me if u like ...Im not the most interactive person out here but ... Im right here and I always answer mssgs.

ForMe31217

I sent you an invite. you have come so close. don't give up!!

Sissy4EverX3

Forget them. They obviously weren't worth it. I always at least try to check in with someone if I see they haven't logged in for a few days or a week. But if it starts going on *months* without seeing any activity whatsoever on their account... then yeah, they go bye bye. Thankfully, there's been less than a handful that I've had to do that to.

liezelcha

I'm in and out of hospital with probs and i get dropped because I disappear sometimes so I get it...you can add me.

wingednotes

Don't worry. They've done you a favor. They've removed themselves and now you are left with the good ones.
I'm sending you an add...
Hang in there. Lots of support is here for you

reese66

You can add me if you like, I don't delete normally.

mrsgroove

Add me!! I'm certainly not perfect but I'm plugging along on here for the last year. I am a similar age as you and also a busy mom and full time worker. Let's help each other along this bumpy road. Sending a friend request now. : )

gypsybree

You've lost 57 pounds. Why quit?

karenwill2

there are always new friends you can add.

cjrunner80

I am sorry to hear that - just means you are better off without them!! I am sorry to hear about your illness - I hope you get to feeling better soon.

If you want you can add me

I completely agree. You are better off without them, and just like @gypsybree said you have lost 57 lbs. Keep ROCKING it!!! I am sorry about your illness, but it is awesome that you have pushed through and signed back on!! Feel free to add!! I am doing this for my fiance, and so when I become a teacher!!!

LinaBo

DON'T give up! Who has the power over your health? YOU! The same goes with any power over your own life. Your body is the vehicle, you are its driver, you alone possess the manual, and no one else. Don't put that power in the hands of fairweather friends. If anything, your illness was a blessing; it purged your circle of people who you were better off without, anyway.

Feel free to add me to your friend list. I don't respond to every post, but I try to respond to those who need it most. I can also help with any cooking/recipe troubleshooting (I'm a culinary arts grad).

Emily61905

Dont worry about them. I rarely log in. I have lacked motivation and the gumption. If they drop you just becasue of that, then they are better off without you. Add me. me:)

laneydawn

That isnt exactly supportive at all. We need support when we are struggling....and sounds like those people werent in it for the right reasons. Add me if you wish.