To the married guys out there...

urbnoutdrzmn731
urbnoutdrzmn731 Posts: 1
edited December 22 in Chit-Chat
I like having the support, this site is mainly women and so for that...When you begin to have female support on here...it begins to look like your on here not to lose weight....but to flirt with the women on here...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..wanting to lose weight without upsetting the person we are trying to lose the weight for..and be around for our families.....

Let me know what you think...

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  • mikeschratz
    mikeschratz Posts: 253 Member
    Sounds good to me! Add me!
  • Ed_81
    Ed_81 Posts: 31 Member
    I'm a married guy too, I'd be happy to be your online friend and offer my support dude. My better half is an active user of this site too (as is most of her family lol) It's great to have support online, but it's also great to have it in real life :)
  • johncole90
    johncole90 Posts: 23
    I agree completely!
  • johncole90
    johncole90 Posts: 23
    Add me if you want.
  • PJ64
    PJ64 Posts: 866 Member
    Sounds good add me.

    . My wife asked "why do you have mostly women friends on there?" Then I showed her guys I had tried to add who wrote back and said "sorry dude straight guy here" or my favorite "I'm not a *kitten*!!!!!"
  • RAF_Guy
    RAF_Guy Posts: 230 Member
    Feel free to add me guys, I could do with some more male mates on here.
  • PeeTeePee
    PeeTeePee Posts: 235 Member
    I'm a little confused. You say,
    ...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..
    That implies you are male.

    Yet your profile states,
    Urbnoutdrzmn731 has chosen to keep her profile private.
    Her profile. Have you not set your profile up correctly, perhaps?

    Add me if you want extra support. I've been here some time and MFP is working for me.
  • ShareeMorty
    ShareeMorty Posts: 324 Member
    Some of us ladies are friends with guys without the flirting *just saying*
  • BostonMatt
    BostonMatt Posts: 258
    This is a weight-loss site?
  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
    This is a weight-loss site?

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • dsjohndrow
    dsjohndrow Posts: 1,820 Member
    Married guys can friend me any time!
  • Swissmiss
    Swissmiss Posts: 8,754 Member
    I'm a little confused. You say,
    ...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..
    That implies you are male.

    Yet your profile states,
    Urbnoutdrzmn731 has chosen to keep her profile private.
    Her profile. Have you not set your profile up correctly, perhaps?



    Add me if you want extra support. I've been here some time and MFP is working for me.




    Look again....this person's account has been deactivated
  • I am new to this you can add me, my wife let me sign on as long as I do not accept any female friends
  • MrUgly
    MrUgly Posts: 54 Member
    Wait, your wife dictates who you can be friends with?

    ...


    Okay.
  • I like having the support, this site is mainly women and so for that...When you begin to have female support on here...it begins to look like your on here not to lose weight....but to flirt with the women on here...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..wanting to lose weight without upsetting the person we are trying to lose the weight for..and be around for our families.....

    Let me know what you think...



    Ok Someone brought up a great point and I was unaware...I set up my account as a female by mistake...so if you would like to be friends...please resend your requests...thanks...
  • Swissmiss
    Swissmiss Posts: 8,754 Member
    I like having the support, this site is mainly women and so for that...When you begin to have female support on here...it begins to look like your on here not to lose weight....but to flirt with the women on here...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..wanting to lose weight without upsetting the person we are trying to lose the weight for..and be around for our families.....

    Let me know what you think...



    Ok Someone brought up a great point and I was unaware...I set up my account as a female by mistake...so if you would like to be friends...please resend your requests...thanks...



    Ok, this explains your deactivated account. Hope that you find the help and encouragement from other married men.
  • beebee0925
    beebee0925 Posts: 441 Member
    You can add me if you want.
  • gungho66
    gungho66 Posts: 284 Member
    Please add me as well , anyone here can feel free, i'm just here for support and to give no matter what the gender
  • bug1114
    bug1114 Posts: 268 Member
    Sounds good add me.

    . My wife asked "why do you have mostly women friends on there?" Then I showed her guys I had tried to add who wrote back and said "sorry dude straight guy here" or my favorite "I'm not a *kitten*!!!!!"

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • shivaslives
    shivaslives Posts: 279 Member
    If you've established a new account, feel free to add me too. I'm just on these forums trying to connect and support whoever is on the same path as me trying to make a positive difference in their health and fitness, regardless of gender.

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    Advice is worth exactly what you pay for it!
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  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I guess urbnoutdrzmn7 wasn't getting the support he needed. He deleted his account already.
  • FlyEaglesGuy
    FlyEaglesGuy Posts: 436 Member
    Feel free to add me.

    I have a ton of cool people, mostly women on my friends list. And while many, I mean MANY are hot, the flirting is innocent and it is used also as fuel to keep pushing so that my SO can appreciate the hard work.

    If a man is gonna cheat, it doesn't matter the outlet. It will just happen .

    The choice is yours!
  • mama2shi
    mama2shi Posts: 300 Member
    Sounds good add me.

    . My wife asked "why do you have mostly women friends on there?" Then I showed her guys I had tried to add who wrote back and said "sorry dude straight guy here" or my favorite "I'm not a *kitten*!!!!!"

    Wow! Really??? That is so juvenile of them lol (sorry, girl here crashing the post)
  • LiftBigtoGetFit
    LiftBigtoGetFit Posts: 3,399 Member
    I'm in, but I might flirt a little :P
  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657
    I like having the support, this site is mainly women and so for that...When you begin to have female support on here...it begins to look like your on here not to lose weight....but to flirt with the women on here...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..wanting to lose weight without upsetting the person we are trying to lose the weight for..and be around for our families.....

    Let me know what you think...

    Follow these steps:

    Step 1: Stop giving a *kitten* what other people think.
    Step 2: Repeat Step 1.
  • kyodi
    kyodi Posts: 376 Member
    Married guy loosing fat, then going to try to put on a little chrome for the wife to admire. I'm down for more friends to have virtual beers with, talk about sports, and the like. Add me if ya want.
  • rpounds1957
    rpounds1957 Posts: 177 Member
    I like having the support, this site is mainly women and so for that...When you begin to have female support on here...it begins to look like your on here not to lose weight....but to flirt with the women on here...I am looking for support from other married men out there...that are in the same boat I am..wanting to lose weight without upsetting the person we are trying to lose the weight for..and be around for our families.....

    Let me know what you think...

    Follow these steps:

    Step 1: Stop giving a *kitten* what other people think.
    Step 2: Repeat Step 1.

    Although I wouldn't have put it quite this way, I have to agree with the sentiment. If any of the women who are my "friends" on MPF think that I'm here to troll for women, they are certainly free to delete me from their friends list. But to be perfectly honest, I find that women are MUCH more apt to actually make occasional encouraging comments, which is exactly why I have friends on this site. This whole MFP thing is pretty much anonymous, but just intimate enough that when supportive comments are made, it becomes encouraging. And women are, by and large, MUCH more 'vocal' in their support.
  • i'm not married yet, but i can use any and all support. any of y'all can add me
  • Kristan_Forsey
    Kristan_Forsey Posts: 103 Member
    Your wife must have some jealousy issues.
  • brian90
    brian90 Posts: 285 Member
    you can add me.
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