I guess confidence showed thru

FitJoani
FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
edited September 2024 in Chit-Chat
I was joking at work saying im gonna go out and get guys to buy me drinks just cause i want a nice ngiht out and i never thought anyone actually would. And after being surrounded by creepers I looked up and noticed an attractive guy that hadda be in his twenties and thought "He will never ever talk to me" but he did. He started talking to me about tattoos and he actually looked me in the eyes when he spoke to me. He is a couple years younger than me, we went to high school together, and live less than a mile apart. It was kinda strange that I actually connected with him...given he is just about my polar opposite. I gave him my number thinking I will never ever hear from him., He insisted on walking me home from the bar(I never ever drink and drive) and bought me a rose from a little lady selling flowers in the bar. I was telling my work friend about him saying I will probably never hear from him. she said he may wait a couple days, and sure enough within ten minutes of that conversation, he sent me a text. He called me after i got home from work and we talked for two hours and decided to go out the next day, and spent the night talking and playing pool. I had all but given up hope thinking i would never meet a man who would actually be interested in me for me...and i think for once I believe when they say its when you least expect it. I know my best friend met his boyfriend in a bar and they have been together for almost 5 or 6 years now....so you just never know

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  • Phoenix_Rising
    Phoenix_Rising Posts: 11,417 Member
    :love: I am happy for you Joanie.
    Even if he isn't "the one", he has given you back your faith. :smooched:
  • heather0mc
    heather0mc Posts: 4,656 Member
    awwwwww! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    :love: I am happy for you Joanie.
    Even if he isn't "the one", he has given you back your faith. :smooched:
    I must agree, I wasnt sure men were supposed to do things like walk you home so you are safe, and hold your hand, and look into your eyes...I am notnused to this
  • That is so great!
  • memaw66
    memaw66 Posts: 2,558 Member
    Way to go!


    BTW I love your hair like that!!

    Memaw
  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    Way to go!


    BTW I love your hair like that!!

    Memaw
    thank you. And i even went crazy and dyed it black and everyone is responding well..hahaha its my 'sexy look'
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