Would you have breast surgery?

mickipedia

Well I've lost my weight slowly, I've lost 28lbs over almost a year.. Most of which was in the first 6 months.

I'm struggling because no one will support me in my decision... I really want to get one when I can get the money together but my mum and my boyfriend don't agree with it and I'm not sure if I can have surgery alone. I've never been in hospital and I've never been under anesthetic.

I've been working out and doing plenty of exercises designed to help "lift boobs" and nothing has even touched them.. If anything they look worse.

Triquetra

I did it as soon as my youngest (and last) was 3, got the girls shrunk and lifted....LOVE IT:blushing:

Spanaval

IMO, wait until you're done having kids (assuming that you want them, and that you intend to breastfeed). Breast surgery, depending on what exactly you have done, can intervene with BF-ing, and after you're done having kids, you might find that your breasts need work anyway (or not; I went up a whole cup size and stayed there).

mgram2

I had a breast augmentation last June and it was the best decision I ever made. I couldn't even fill an A cup and eventually found out that I had 'tuberous breast deformity'.. which is why my boobs always looked weird to me, I had no self-confidence in my clothes, and couldn't breastfeed my son (hardly ANY milk production - my boobs didn't change at all when I was pregnant). I got 371cc silicone implants and LOVE them!
I was 155 lbs when I got them.. and now am 131 lbs. Love that I got to lose the weight and not the boobs!

--Now I wear a 36D

FitLink

Its something I've been thinking about for a while.. I've never liked how my boobs look without a bra and I've never really been confident to wear a bikini that isn't shaped and padded to make my boobs look better.

They used to be okay before I lost weight but I've since realised that I was a D cup because there was obviously a lot of fat in them.. Now it seems to be worse because although they've only dropped down to a C cup I feel as though they've completely changed shape and now sag a lot more than they used to, this wouldn't be a problem if I'd ever had kids or if I was older than 20.

It's actually quite heart-breaking because as my confidence grows for the rest of my body I now hate the only thing I used to love.

If you were in my shoes (which I'm sure a few people actually are) would you consider surgery? At the moment it seems like my only solution to having the boobs I'm happy with.

Yeah, I assumed my breasts would get smaller when I lost weight too, then I lost 98 pounds and every single millimeter of boob stayed with me. Mine are a lot bigger than yours, though; mine are DD, not C. I've considered surgery, but I have central pain syndrome and for me, the pain associated with surgery is considerably increased. If I had surgery, it wouldn't be about "body image," it would be to relieve back pain.

vaneguz87

Well I've lost my weight slowly, I've lost 28lbs over almost a year.. Most of which was in the first 6 months.

I'm struggling because no one will support me in my decision... I really want to get one when I can get the money together but my mum and my boyfriend don't agree with it and I'm not sure if I can have surgery alone. I've never been in hospital and I've never been under anesthetic.

I've been working out and doing plenty of exercises designed to help "lift boobs" and nothing has even touched them.. If anything they look worse.

I know, having support is very important. But at the end, it's your body! I think if they see you are serious about it they will have to accept it, then like more the idea, and evetually they'll be completely supportive about it. I'm 23 and got mine done (augmentation) last year. They are now just proportional to my body and height, I'm 5'9". My sister also got hers done and the implants are smaller than mine but she's also shorter than me.
While you save money I strongly suggest you to get informed. Different techniques used, implants, brands. Ask women who have done it to (I was very annoying with this one! lol) and then try to talk to 3 or 4 drs that especialize in breast aug.

And if you still have questions, feel free to ask me!! :flowerforyou:

EDIT: oh, also, I had lost a lot of weight 3 yrs a go (gained half before the surgery) and was extremely unhappy with my body. I didn't want to look like Pam Anderson, but to look somehow good for my own opinion, I had to weat those VS Miraclous Push Ups. Now I just don't have to wear those extra padded bras or feel extremely self concious abt my size when wearing sport bras.

FitLink

Well I've lost my weight slowly, I've lost 28lbs over almost a year.. Most of which was in the first 6 months.

I'm struggling because no one will support me in my decision... I really want to get one when I can get the money together but my mum and my boyfriend don't agree with it and I'm not sure if I can have surgery alone. I've never been in hospital and I've never been under anesthetic.

I've been working out and doing plenty of exercises designed to help "lift boobs" and nothing has even touched them.. If anything they look worse.

The idea that you can't have surgery "alone" is silly. I had to have major repairs done to my left arm three years ago. I researched what the after situation would be like and for how long. I cooked lots of meals (three weeks worth) and froze them in individual packets I confirmed beforehand I could open one-handed and microwave. I bought paper plates to avoid dirty dishes. I borrowed a shower chair. I arranged my house so I didn't need two hands to do anything. The only thing I asked for any help with was a ride to and from surgery and the first PT visits before I was released to drive, and if I lived in town instead of way out in the country I would have arranged taxi service instead. If you want to bad enough, you can do almost anything without asking for help. My family and friends would have been happy to help, but I feel so good about myself because I know I can do almost anything I decide to.

As it happened, I was diagnosed with cancer two weeks after my arm was repaired and had to have surgery again. You can't plan for everything. LOL

missikay1970

each person has to make her own decision. i was a 42DDD and now i'm a B cup. my bbs aren't really attractive, but i'm healthy and that's all that matters to me. personally, i wouldn't get surgery.

BAMFMeredith

I'm more than likely having a breast augmentation when I'm done having kids. Once I've done everything I can with diet and exercise, I'm getting the girls lifted and possibly reduced (we'll see what size they are when the time comes). I'm one of those people who will always be at least a D cup no matter what size the rest of my body is. At 18 I was a size 0 and still wore a D bra.

My post-pregnancy boobs aren't so perky anymore, and I fully intend to get them fixed. Just for me...I'd like to have more freedom with clothing and not have to maneuver my boobs perfectly every time I put on a bikini top. I don't really care what anyone else thinks about them (I mean, I've had zero complaints from my bf), it's just something I want for myself.

fitforlifeee

Yes yes yes. I've never liked my boobs because they're so small. I will get on one day when I can afford it and maybe after I've had kids

MariaMariaM

I would do it if I wasn't a chicken about it. I think I will just learn to live with my smaller B sets (went from Full C/Small D) and the magic of VS!

nas24

I'm on the fence about this one. I think i would have to wait and see what my rack looks like after my weight loss and/or after number 2, if there ever is a #2. I would NEVER do anything to my face, though. I'm cool with aging and think people should just accept what the world does to us with age. I know even after i get rid of the weight, i will NEVER see a bikini again, because my stretch marks look more like i got attacked by a cougar. But im ok with it. It doesn't bother me. I can rock the hell out of a mama one piece. lol.

MissMaryMac33

You're only 20, you only lost 28lbs (that is GREAT, but it is not a huge amount that would really have much affect on your boobs) ... if your boyfriends thinks they are great, believe him. Just wait until you're 40 and have kids or lose 100#+ lbs ... then you won't even have to ask

If insurance paid for it, I'd get one in a heartbeat, but for now, I just live knowing 'm healthier, even if my boobs hit my waist I just don't run around with a bra..

ReeseMichelle

I had a breast reduction/lift about 11 years ago and it was the best thing I ever did! I've gained some weight since my reduction but my breasts aren't anywhere near as big as they were before. My insurance paid for mine because they deemed it as medically necessary.........I was having severe neck and shoulder pain and had to have injections but now I'm sooooo MUCH better. If you do decide to do it I would definately research the best plastic surgeons in your area.

Good luck

jenkidney

I am planning to have mine lifted and filled back out once I get to my goal weight. 2 pregnancies and a couple years combined worth of breastfeeding caused them to sag quite a bit and lose their fullness. I just want to put them back the way they were. ) I would say that if you can afford it and it will make you happy, then do your research and go for it.

poesch77

I had breast reduction 4 yrs ago. Best thing I ever did. Insurance paid for it all thanks to the urging of my Chiropractor....I was going 3x/wk!!! While pregnant I was a 40 F cup and only went down to a 38 DDD. I always was chesty....at 14 I was a 34C!! I am now a 36-38 C which is perfect for me. And I now can be comfortable when not wearing a bra! I used to wear one to bed! If you feel you need this and your back or neck hurt you because of it start seeing a doctor and have them document it so you can get it paid for. I can now workout out without getting slapped in the face. They took off 6lbs of boob!

iheartralphie

I lost 20 lbs before joining mfp, and my boobs shrunk a LOT, from a large c to an empty looking b. I got a lift and implants to bring me up to a d, and I hae never felt better about myself. Some people may think its shallow, but it was something that was killing my self esteem and now I feel happy with myself, I love them and they look very natural. I had to finance them, but I think it was very much worth it! And it was NOT painful to me, I didn't even need the painkillers much after the first day, by day 3 of my recovery I walked a mile with only some soreness. It is your body, do not let people talk you into something you are not sure about, but at the same time do not let others criticize you for being "shallow" if you do decide to go for it!

mickipedia

I don't mean alone as in I expect people to look after me I mean for mental support, I've never even been in hospital (other than to visit other people) so having surgery for the first time with no one there when I wake up would be a little hard for anyone I think

jackibailey

I've always had big boobies, no matter what weight I'm at. I would love a reduction and a lift. My insurance would probably cover it too because of back problems from them. And I have those grooves in my shoulders from them being so heavy in my bra. I have a long ways to go till I hit my goal, but the surgery is very motivating.

SueD66

You bet i would. If i were younger no way but now at 45 a couple of kids weight gain weight loss, weight gain and well on the road to losing again. The need to be put in their place.

beckiboo

No. I've thought about it ALOT in my life, I've always had small boobs (between a 34B and 36A, sometimes an AA :-() but after having my daughter I've realised that I should just be happy with what I've got. There's nothing medically wrong with me- and any person shallow enough to not like/love me because I've got small breasts really isn't worth wasting my time on anyway!

Also, I obviously think my daughter is perfect. I couldn't imagine her coming to me as an (older) teenager and saying she wanted to undergo a potentially fatal surgical procedure (see also dodgy implants - PIPs etc) just because she thinks her current boobs aren't 'good enough' (whatever that means). And there's no way I could be a hypocrite and say she doesn't need them and she's perfect as she is, if I had implants. If that makes sense?

Mostly, I think the rise in plastic surgery is a sad reflection of our image-obsessed culture, in which women especially are expected to reach unrealistic body ideals.

Be the change you want to see in the world - Ghandi

sammielealea

I would, and I am going to. That being said, this is definately not a decision that can be taken lightly. A bit about myself: I'm 30, I have had 2 children (nursed them both for 10 1/2 months each) within 3 1/2 years, and I have lost about 25 pounds since my last child. I don't plan on having any more children (that's my decision for now, anyhow). I have gone from a pre-baby size of 34Cish, pregnancy and nursing sizes between 34C and 34DD, and now I can't even fill out a 34A. I made an appointment as soon as I was out of the "6 months after done nursing requirements", and had a snap back into reality when my mom (yes, they are so wise, lol) asked me where I was getting the $8,000. I was fully ready to finance them, but when I realized how much I wanted this for myself, I realized that this was a decision that I needed to make with absolutely no remorse that could be attached to it. I didn't want to think any time down the road "could have used that money elsewhere, I shouldn't have financed them". Now, I am saving the money and I am completely confident that I am making the right decision for me. I have worked so hard to have the body that I have now, and no workout can increase the size of my chest, and this is something that I want to help me feel feminine and confident. I guess what I am trying to say is, make sure that what ever decsion that you make is something that you can say "yes, I have done thourough research, and I'm not going to regret this". Being so young and still going through a body transformation journey, make sure that you talk with a number of professionals, and a number of loved ones about this decision. If you can't do this confidently and honestly, then maybe it's not the best option for you now . . . . Remember . . . Bras are cheaper and can make them look however you want, and when they come off, confidence is the sexiest thing you can put on! Good luck

mandylooo

I think that you can safely have a lift and restructuring done without implants. Breast augmentation has it's own set of problems and can be difficult later in life, such as continued maintenance surgeries. The lift will allow for breast feeding, should you choose to do so, as well as future surgeries.

Do not go into debt to have it done.

Your mental well being is more important than your physical. If this is truly bothering your mental health, have it done.

This is the thing which bothers me about it. Why do we think we'll be happier if we have our breasts done? What makes us unhappy with them in the first place?

I know there are plenty of cases where it really will make someone happier, make them feel more normal, but for the vast majority of us, I really feel that we're just sold images of perfection which are unattainable as they're photo-shopped and not real in the first place and that this makes us dissatisfied with ourselves and willing to part with large amounts of money to make ourselves "happy". I wish, within the bounds of health, that we could all accept ourselves more as we are.

mandylooo

No. I've thought about it ALOT in my life, I've always had small boobs (between a 34B and 36A, sometimes an AA :-() but after having my daughter I've realised that I should just be happy with what I've got. There's nothing medically wrong with me- and any person shallow enough to not like/love me because I've got small breasts really isn't worth wasting my time on anyway!

Also, I obviously think my daughter is perfect. I couldn't imagine her coming to me as an (older) teenager and saying she wanted to undergo a potentially fatal surgical procedure (see also dodgy implants - PIPs etc) just because she thinks her current boobs aren't 'good enough' (whatever that means). And there's no way I could be a hypocrite and say she doesn't need them and she's perfect as she is, if I had implants. If that makes sense?

Mostly, I think the rise in plastic surgery is a sad reflection of our image-obsessed culture, in which women especially are expected to reach unrealistic body ideals.

Be the change you want to see in the world - Ghandi

I agree.

dajackson81

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