how long is long enough

sapryor88
sapryor88 Posts: 4
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I've been fighting hard for the same girl for 2 years. No question that I love her but she only stays for a month or so at a time. She's left more times than I care to count. This time I have to make a decision. She's worth the fight but what's the longest anyone would honestly hold on
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  • sapryor88
    sapryor88 Posts: 4
    Just curious.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward
  • MrsKillough
    MrsKillough Posts: 30 Member
    Honey, she's not that into you. Have a bit of time on your own and find someone who loves you just as much.
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward


    I love you binary jester.

    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward


    I love you binary jester.

    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
    Plenty of Fish
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    Nailed it!
  • newhabit
    newhabit Posts: 426 Member
    it all depends. i'd probably give up after 2 years if she hasn't come around yet. what is her story, is she married or seeing anyone? if so, i'd give up now. if she's not maybe just tell her you're thinking of moving on because you can't live this way and then she can make the decision. i'm not sure if this post is a joke or not though, to be honest. it's a bit personal to put out there.
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    :glasses:
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,810 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward

    I'm so uncomfortable right now.


    Good move on editing that second post, bro. The whole "I love you full-name-of-girl-I'm-obsessed-with" thing was a little creepy.
  • lostinureyes17
    lostinureyes17 Posts: 112 Member
    If someone really cares about you they wouldn't leave every other month. You deserve to find someone who feels the same way about you as you do about them. Good Luck!
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    8 inches.
    4 short. sad panda
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    WOW.

    I agree I feel very awkward right now!
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    You are what I call "back burner guy." You are the guy she can go to to get attention when she's not getting it from the guys she's really interested in.

    Stop the cycle. It's never going to happen and you are probably missing out on other opportunities with girl's who would actually be into you.
  • KittieLea
    KittieLea Posts: 1,156 Member
    Friend zone level 99898979878788984.
    Move on dude.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Nobody is worth having to ask these tough questions.
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    8 inches.
    4 short. sad panda

    not talking about heels, youre safe ho.
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    Is there a shortage of girls that I don't know about?
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward


    I love you binary jester.

    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
    She's over at my place making sammiches and cleaning the glass.
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    didn't take long to deactivate..:indifferent:
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    Have you tried duct tape and chains to a wall in a basement? She likely won't get out of that. OR a cage. CAGE! DO IT!
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    Nobody is worth having to ask these tough questions.
    Very good point.
  • MeMyCatsandI
    MeMyCatsandI Posts: 704 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward

    I'm so uncomfortable right now.


    Good move on editing that second post, bro. The whole "I love you full-name-of-girl-I'm-obsessed-with" thing was a little creepy.
    Looks like I tuned in too late!
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    didn't take long to deactivate..:indifferent:
    BWHAHAHAHA! Damn I wish I had quoted her name. Heather something
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    Have you tried duct tape and chains to a wall in a basement? She likely won't get out of that. OR a cage. CAGE! DO IT!


    Sofaking.....you pic is so disturbing that I cannot look away......
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward


    I love you binary jester.

    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
    She's over at my place making sammiches and cleaning the glass.

    I thought that was my new job!?! :mad:
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    didn't take long to deactivate..:indifferent:
    Hahaha! Another one bites the dust. Thinking before starting a thread is a lost art form.
  • MoveTheMountain
    MoveTheMountain Posts: 764
    I've been fighting hard for the same girl for 2 years. No question that I love her but she only stays for a month or so at a time. She's left more times than I care to count. This time I have to make a decision. She's worth the fight but what's the longest anyone would honestly hold on

    Really, how can anyone be worth that? Sounds like you're hooked on the up-down cycle, as much as anything else. Next time she 'goes,' move, change your name, get a new cell phone, and find someone who is better able to engage in a healthy relationship.
  • Pocket_Pixi
    Pocket_Pixi Posts: 1,167 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward

    Funny how that works.. usually I can't get anything from text but when I read this I felt the awkward too.
  • wareagle8706
    wareagle8706 Posts: 1,090 Member
    Leave her. I've been that girl. And I've also had a guy like that (over 3 years of struggles) and you don't want someone like that in your life. Sucks all your energy for your actual life... You only have one life. Don't revolve it around someone who won't give you any of their time.
  • slyder432
    slyder432 Posts: 475 Member
    Y r you fighting??? She is not fighting for you...It's time Bro.

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