How do U finally move on?

msradio

This has nothing to do with this site but I needed to vent, My ex recently got married and I have mixed feeelings about it, 1st I feel anger this fool had me try on wedding dresses figure out where we were going to have it ect, just to call it off! I can't help but wonder why does he get to be happy and married when I gave this man my heart! I have never loved anyone the way I loved him! I mean I know he is def not the one for me just do to the fact that he hurt me more times then i can count! I sware if I was still a kid i would prob be jumping up and down screaming to the roof top that it isnt fair! But of course I'm not a child I must say i have handled the situation with alot of class considering people seem to call me with news of how the wedding was ghetto, or how they seen him and he looks good ect! It's funny becuz before he got married we had a talk a few yrs ago and i was fine I had moved on but knowing he has marrried the woman he cheated on me with just brought back all these feelings of anger, sadness, jealousy, ect. I mean there were alot of good men I passed up because I was so into him, I have a boyfriend now that I can't truly give my all to because I have this wall up because I honestly don't want to ever feel that pain again! Is there anyone out there that has gone thru sumthin like this? if so how did you ever truly let go and move on?

snoopytwins

I'd say what you're feeling is completely normal. That said, you cannot continue to go through life with a wall (says the girl notorious for walls). We don't know if everything will work. We just don't. But if you don't a gamble every once in a while, you're going to miss out on some really good things and maybe miss out on that really good person. It's ok to be a bit jealous, angry, and sad...I think. You've felt it. Now move on. You say he obviously wasn't right for you, and, if he cheated and didn't want to be with you, "I" know he wasn't right for you. Just my two cents. Let it go and don't assume that every man will hurt you that way.

msradio

I'd say what you're feeling is completely normal. That said, you cannot continue to go through life with a wall (says the girl notorious for walls). We don't know if everything will work. We just don't. But if you don't a gamble every once in a while, you're going to miss out on some really good things and maybe miss out on that really good person. It's ok to be a bit jealous, angry, and sad...I think. You've felt it. Now move on. You say he obviously wasn't right for you, and, if he cheated and didn't want to be with you, "I" know he wasn't right for you. Just my two cents. Let it go and don't assume that every man will hurt you that way.

Thanks I will def do my best with a lot of prayer I know in the end all things happen for a reason!

weighlossforbaby

All your feelings are normal. If you want this relationship to last with the guy you're with I suggest to move on from your ex. Your ex cheated on you which means he didn't want to be with you. I am sorry your ex treated you that way but it seems like you found someone better.