Ladies and Gentlemen - a question on "objectification"

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  • HotCuppaJo
    HotCuppaJo Posts: 477 Member
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    Honored....if he wasn't a creepy d'bag. :flowerforyou:
  • Ariberri9
    Ariberri9 Posts: 206 Member
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    I would be flattered, I think. One on hand, the person thinks you're absolutely beautiful; and you fulfill the person's fantasies. On the other hand, you are seen as merely a sexual object. But on a THIRD hand, sexuality and sensuality are beautiful in themselves.

    Depends on the situation, really. If in the fantasy, I was nothing more than a piece of meat with a hole for pleasure, I would be insulted. But if I were a person, a sexual being treated with respect, then I'd be flattered.
  • susiebear29
    susiebear29 Posts: 266
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    Exactly!!! all depends on who it is!!! If he looks even a teeny tiny bit like Ryan Gosling for example I would be ecstatic!!!!!! lol
  • sarahharmintx
    sarahharmintx Posts: 868 Member
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    My husband told me I was his source of inspiration long before we started dating. I think its hot.

    Ya see... we went with a group to DC. He liked to be the last person walking in the group and it just so happened that I was always falling behind. So he spent the good part of 3 days looking at my butt. Ever since then, I cant get him to stop following me.

    Now, maybe a coworker or other random weirdo... not so much.
  • 2143661
    2143661 Posts: 566 Member
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    how do you all feel about 'tributes'?
    basically, a picture of some dude splooging on your picture.
    they send it to you as a tribute to your all powerful hawtness.

    hmm idk...what picture is it? as long as they don't get it on my face.

    There goes my afternoon.

    pictures or it didn't happen! :laugh: notice how the mouth is open? :wink:
  • wareagle8706
    wareagle8706 Posts: 1,090 Member
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    total honor, can I watch? ;)

    this
  • BruteSquad
    BruteSquad Posts: 373 Member
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    Honored....if he wasn't a creepy d'bag. :flowerforyou:

    Well then I should apologize.......
  • BerryH
    BerryH Posts: 4,698 Member
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    I'd hand out flyers if it'd help :laugh:
  • 2143661
    2143661 Posts: 566 Member
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    If you are getting off with my pics, you have more problems than being overweight. There's a difference between loving cats and "loving" cats.

    hahaha...that is awesome!!!!

    I would prefer to not know what is going on, and since I do not know what is going on, I guessed I can not feel honored or creeped out.

    well too bad, i just used your pictures for a personal rise. thank you!

    p.s. 42? lies!

    haha...ok, well, now I feel honored!!!

    yes, FORTY-TWO!!! When did I get old??? hahaha! :sad:

    good, you should because you are HOT!

    &you are NOT old!! you look damn good!
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
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    hmmm... in the past, creeped out. Now that I'm single, with an almost six pack... I think honored, and somewhat intrigued...

    BUT TOTALLY GENDER SPECIFIC! Chicks need not notify!
  • TinkrBelz
    TinkrBelz Posts: 888 Member
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    If you are getting off with my pics, you have more problems than being overweight. There's a difference between loving cats and "loving" cats.

    hahaha...that is awesome!!!!

    I would prefer to not know what is going on, and since I do not know what is going on, I guessed I can not feel honored or creeped out.

    well too bad, i just used your pictures for a personal rise. thank you!

    p.s. 42? lies!

    haha...ok, well, now I feel honored!!!

    yes, FORTY-TWO!!! When did I get old??? hahaha! :sad:

    good, you should because you are HOT!

    &you are NOT old!! you look damn good!


    :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 2,073 Member
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    *waits around for someone to objectify him*
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
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    *waits around for someone to objectify him*

    you poor man... you are hard done by, aren't ya ;)
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
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    *waits around for someone to objectify him*

    I have no problem objectifying you at all!! :wink:
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,375 Member
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    I would be honored, but I really wouldn't want to know!
    I'll go with this....

    Me too. I was a little grossed out the first time someone told me they did it. Now I'm just amused. :smile:
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 2,073 Member
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    *waits around for someone to objectify him*

    you poor man... you are hard done by, aren't ya ;)

    Heh. You said..."hard."
  • Cambrendle
    Cambrendle Posts: 104 Member
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    honored..and I would be willing to sit quietly in the corner and watch, just incase they need to refresh their memory in the middle :wink:

    ^^^^This
  • yo_andi
    yo_andi Posts: 2,178 Member
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    Honored!
  • wantstolooseweight
    wantstolooseweight Posts: 166 Member
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    Depends how they told me.... I mean if your cheeky flirty and fun then I'd probably wink and give you something to think about

    If your a creepy weirdy then I'll probably run a mile lol!
  • Rosa1213
    Rosa1213 Posts: 456 Member
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    I don't think I'd care or want to know. After all, it is their "personal time" :happy:

    But if I somehow found out, I'd be like: "Yay! Somebody thinks I'm attractive!"