my very own mini version of "The Bachelorette"? Opinions?
So, this is a new one for me... not sure how to approach it.
At the prompting of my sister-in-law, I put up a profile on Plenty of Fish (figured, who knows, right?) a few days ago.
Totally floored by the response I'm getting... I have 5 seemingly good guys that all seem genuinely interested in getting to know me :O
So now, I'm not sure how to approach this... are people generally aware that people on these websites are likely messaging multiple people? Or should I pick a favourite and see where it goes?
I am very, very new to this, and am asking this question seriously... I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
At the prompting of my sister-in-law, I put up a profile on Plenty of Fish (figured, who knows, right?) a few days ago.
Totally floored by the response I'm getting... I have 5 seemingly good guys that all seem genuinely interested in getting to know me :O
So now, I'm not sure how to approach this... are people generally aware that people on these websites are likely messaging multiple people? Or should I pick a favourite and see where it goes?
I am very, very new to this, and am asking this question seriously... I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
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Date them all.0
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Lol. Of course you can talk to all of them. Are you seriously thinking of making an exclusive commitment to a random guy you've never met?0
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I've never dated online.. but I would treat it the same as I would as meeting guys at bars and such, (back in my single days). Unless I was in a relationship with a guy, I would keep my options open. Nothing wrong with dating around and talking to a few at once. The odds of clicking, or feeling a connection with all 5 are very low, so I wouldn't feel that it's required for you to pick one and ignore the other four. Until you have the talk of becoming exclusive.. enjoy yourself.0
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You are not committed to anyone. Date away! Chances are 99.9% of them won't go past the first date, anyway -- if they even get that far!0
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Odds are they are asking out 10 other women while they are talking to you. Remember that when they try and sleep with you.0
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2 more and you'll have a full weeks worth.0
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Thanks for the responses... you all have confirmed what I was already thinking
Just being overly cautious, I suppose, since I've never been in this situation before...0 -
2 more and you'll have a full weeks worth.
haha! that's a fun way of looking at it0 -
Odds are they are asking out 10 other women while they are talking to you. Remember that when they try and sleep with you.
QFT.0
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