Need advice!!!

carolinedb
carolinedb Posts: 236 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
I'm going to hang out with my best friend tonight. Last time we hung out, he told me he wants to be with me. A really big part of me wants to be with him too, but he's been in and out of my life over the past 5 years, and I do have a fear of him disappearing again if I put myself out there. We need to talk about things tonight, and I still don't know what I'm going to say.

HELP!

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  • mrsnathanandrew
    mrsnathanandrew Posts: 631 Member
    If you live life worrying about everything, you'll never do anything. If he wants to be with you and a big part of you wants to be with him, then be with him!!
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
    Weigh the pros and cons. If he's honestly been one to disappear and re-appear with no reason then that pretty much shows how reliable he is as a person. If your friendship isn't real great, do you think a relationship would be any better? Answer is, no it wouldn't.
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    Hookers and Blow!
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    Weigh the pros and cons. If he's honestly been one to disappear and re-appear with no reason then that pretty much shows how reliable he is as a person. If your friendship isn't real great, do you think a relationship would be any better? Answer is, no it wouldn't.
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